Kulimbana ndi kuchitiridwa nkhanza n'kosakayikitsa: Kodi Catherine Deneuve ndi anzake akulemba kalata yotani?

Kalata yotsegulidwa yomwe inalembedwa m'buku la Le Monde, ndithudi, ikufaniziranso ndi chiwonetsero chaposachedwa chakuda, chomwe chinakhala mbali ya "Golden Globe" chaka chino.

Kumbukirani kuti alendo omwe adakondwerera mafilimu ofunika kwambiri amawasankha zovala zakuda kuti agogomeze maganizo awo olakwika pazondondomeko, ngakhale mazana mazana a amai akuluakulu a ku France, m'malo mwake, onetsetsani kuti zonsezi zikhale zopanda pake.

Olembedwa ndi kalatayi amachititsa ochita masewera otchuka, olemba, akatswiri a maganizo, olemba nkhani, asayansi omwe anafanizira zomwe zikuchitika kumadzulo ndi "kusaka ufiti" ndi kutsitsimula kwa Puritanism.

M'nkhaniyi, timapereka ndemanga zochititsa chidwi kwambiri kuchokera pa kalata yomwe tatchulayi, yomwe idzatithandizire kumvetsetsa momwe zinthu zilili pokhudzana ndi chiwerewere.

"N'zoona kuti kugwiriridwa kulikonse ndikophwanya malamulo. Komabe, zovuta, ngakhale kukondana kosalekeza sikungatchedwe kuti ndiphwanya malamulo. Ndipo kupweteka kwa munthu kuli kosayerekezeka ndi machismo yaukali. Kodi tinapeza chiyani pambuyo pozunza ndi Weinstein? Onaninso zotsatira za kuchitiridwa nkhanza za amayi. Izi ndizofunikira makamaka pa malo azadongosolo, kumene anthu angathe kukwanitsa kuchita izi mwa kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu molakwika. Koma kodi glasnost iyi inatipatsa chiyani? Zotsatira zosiyana! Ife tsopano taletsedwa mu mawonetseredwe a kumverera, kutseka pakamwa kwa iwo amene amatsutsana nafe ndi kutikhumudwitsa ife, ndipo ngati wozunzidwayo akufuna kuti akhale chete pa zomwe zinachitika, iye nthawi yomweyo amaikidwa pa mndandanda wa osokoneza, kapena ngakhale zochitika. Kodi izi sizikukukumbutsani za chiyero cha puritan kuwona chenicheni? Pali zifukwa zotsutsira ukazi ndi kumasulidwa, koma makamaka akazi akukumangiridwa ku zida zamphamvu za zomwe zimachitidwa moyenera - izi ndizomwe zimakhala zamuyaya zowonongeka, zomwe zidagwa m'goli la chikhalidwe chokhalitsa. Nthawi yoti kufunafuna mfiti kubwerere. "

#MeToo kwenikweni ndi chiyani?

Kumbukirani kuti chaka chatha, atatha kufotokozera zachiwerewere zomwe zinachitika ku malo a Harvey Weinstein, ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito makompyuta anayamba kufotokoza zachipongwe zawo, ndikutsatira zolemba zawo ndi #MeToo hashtag. Inde, izi sizikanatha kusokonezedwa ndi ochita Chifalansa ku kalata yawo yotseguka:

"Kodi mwaona momwe zinthu zinakhalira? Katswiri wotchuka hashtag #metoo adayambitsa zowonongeka ndi kusungirako zinthu. Pansi pa dzanja lotentha, chirichonse chinayamba kugwa. Ndipo woimbidwa mlandu analibe ngakhale ufulu wosankha! Iwo sankaloledwa kulankhula, koma nthawi yomweyo alembe mndandanda wa olakwira. Anthu awa atha kale kuvutika - anataya ntchito zawo, mbiri yawo inawonongeka molakwika. Kodi iwo adalangidwa ndi anthu? Kodi ndi chithunzi cholakwika chogonana kapena uthenga wotumizidwa kwa mkazi yemwe sanakumanepo ndi chiyanjano? Chikhumbo chofuna kupeza chiwopsezo chimakhala m'manja mwa mitundu ina ya anthu: otsogolera ufulu wa chiwerewere, okonda zachipembedzo, ndi omwe amatsogoleredwa ndi "makhalidwe achigonjetso", amakhulupirira kuti mkaziyo ndi wapadera omwe akufunikira kutetezedwa. "

Catherine Rob-Grieille ndi mzake mnzake Catherine Millet, Catherine Deneuve ndi mtsikana wina wa ku Germany, Ingrid Caven, amene adayambitsa uthenga wovomerezekawo, sankasiyana ndi zovuta zawo ndipo sanatsatire mtsogoleri wawo. Ayi ndithu! Amayi awa pakati pa zaka zapitazi anali olemba chilolezo cha ku Ulaya chifukwa cha filosofi ya chikazi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti angathe kudalirika pokamba za ufulu ndi ufulu wa amayi, sichoncho?

Ufulu wa chibwenzi - ufulu wa moyo

Amayi awa mu mau athunthu akuyitana padziko lapansi kuti aganizirenso ndikuletsa kugonana, kusiya amuna ndi akazi kukhala okondana ndi kukondana:

"Timaika cholinga - kuti tipindule ndi zokonda. Izi ndizofunikira ngati tikukamba za ufulu wa kugonana. Tili ndi chidziwitso chokwanira kuti tidziwe kuti kugonana kwaokha kumakhala koopsa komanso kosautsa. Koma tili ndi kuzindikira kwina kumvetsetsa kuti kusakondana kosavuta sikungathe kufanana ndi chiwawa chogonana. "

Olemba buku lochititsa manyazi likunena za ufulu wa amuna kuti azisamalira, komanso akazi - kukana kukondana kumeneku ngati kuli koyenera. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti ufulu wamkati umadza ndi chiopsezo ndi udindo:

"Chikazi sichichita kanthu ndi chidani cha amuna ndi kugonana kwawo. Ngati simukukonda momwe anthu amakusamalirani, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kudzibisa nokha pachithunzi cha wogwidwa. Kumbukirani kuti zomwe zimachitika ku thupi la mkazi sikuyenera kukhudza ulemu wake wamkati, ndipo milandu yovuta sayenera kumuyesa nsembe yopanda malire. Ife sitiri thupi lathu lokha! Muyenera kuyamikira ufulu wamkati. Ndipo n'zosatheka kuzilingalira pangozi ndi maudindo. "
Werengani komanso

Zoonadi, kabuku kakang'ono kameneka sikanatha kusiya akazi ndi akazi omwe amatsutsana nawo. Inde, pakali pano, motsutsana ndi mazana a akazi a ku France, amayi osayanjana 30 omwe amatsogoleredwa ndi Caroline de Haas atha kale kuwonekera. Anapereka maina aakulu kuti asinthe malingaliro ndi kuyesa kuthetsa chidziwitso cha ozunzidwa pa chiwawa cha kugonana.