Mwambo uliwonse wachipembedzo ukuzunguliridwa ndi tsankho. N'zosadabwitsa kuti mutu wa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati angapite kutchalitchi, kaya akwatire mkazi wapakati, amachititsa maganizo osiyanasiyana. Pofuna kumvetsetsa nkhaniyi, ndi bwino kumvetsera mwatsatanetsatane zomwe mpingo wachikhristu ukuganiza pa izi.
Woyembekezera mu tchalitchi
Malingaliro akuti amayi apakati sangathe kupita ku tchalitchi ndi zolakwika kwambiri komanso zowonjezereka. Choncho, zosiyana siyana ndi tsankho zomwe zidaperekedwa kwa ife kuchokera kwa akuluakulu, makamaka kuchokera kwa agogo athu, ali ndi mizu yeniyeni. Mwachitsanzo, amakhulupirira kuti amayi apakati mu mpingo akhoza kungoti "jinx", chifukwa mu tchalitchi ndi maholide pali anthu ambiri.
Chifukwa chachiwiri chinali chisamaliro chapamwamba pa umoyo wa mayi wapakati, chifukwa panthaŵi yomwe kuyembekezera mwanayo nthawi zambiri mkazi amavutika ndi toxicosis, ndipo mimba yaikulu imapweteka pang'ono. Ndipo, mwachitsanzo, kuganizira ngati amayi apakati amapita kutchalitchi, ambiri amatha kufanana ndi masiku a msambo, pamene kuyendera mpando wa tchalitchi sikofunika.
Mimba ndi Tchalitchi
Ukwati ndi sakramenti, yomwe ndi yofunika kwambiri kwa wokhulupirira aliyense. Mpingo umayang'ana ukwatiwo ngati madalitso a Mulungu, omwe amaperekedwa ku kulengedwa kwa banja ndi kupitilira kwa banja. Chinthu china - ukwati wa mkazi wapakati, chifukwa, zikuwoneka, mkazi, ali kale pambali popanda chilolezo cha Ambuye chifukwa cha ukwati, ali kale wochimwa, ndipo motero mgwirizano uwu uyenera kuonedwa kukhala dama. Ndipotu, malinga ndi Akhristu a Orthodox, aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro nthawi iliyonse. Choncho, sizingatheke kukwatiwa ndi amayi omwe ali ndi pakati, koma nkofunikanso, ndithudi, ngati chikhumbo chopita ku tchalitchi sichimalongosoledwa ndi mphamvu ya mafashoni, koma chimachokera mumtima.
Amapambana kwambiri ngati okwatirana kumene atangomaliza mwambo wa boma mu mabungwe olembetsera boma amapita kutchalitchi. Koma ngati pazifukwa zina ukwati uyenera kubwezeretsedwa, tchalitchi sichitsutsa njirayi panthawi ina. Asanachitike mwambo waukwati, banjali liyenera kuvomereza ndikudya mgonero. Malinga ndi tchalitchi, ngati mmodzi wa okwatirana sakufuna kukwatirana, amumirireni kapena musamukakamize. Pachifukwa ichi, membala wokhulupirira wa banja laling'ono akhoza kupempherera theka lawo ndikuyembekezera kuti mzakeyo abwerere ku chisankho chofunikira payekha.
Mbali za mwambowu
Ukwati mu tchalitchi cha mayi wapakati umaphatikizidwa ndi miyambo ina yomwe iyenera kuganiziridwa kotero kuti palibe chimene chikanakuphimba mwambo wofunikira woterewu. Chowonadi ndi chakuti ndondomeko yaukwatiyo imakhala pafupifupi mphindi 40-60, kuti muvomereze movuta kwa mayi wapakati pa tsiku lotsatira.
Ukwati pa nthawi ya mimba iyenera kuganiziridwa kupyolera mwazing'ono kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ndi bwino kupatsa zovala ndi nsapato zotsalira popanda chidendene. Chonde dziwani kuti zovala siziyenera kufikitsa m'mimba ndi m'chifuwa. Mwanjira imeneyi mumakhala omasuka pa mwambowu.
Zonse za mwambo waukwati uyenera kukambirana ndi wansembe pasadakhale. Palibe chomwe chiyenera kuti munthu abise udindo wake kwa Atate Woyera. Kumbukirani kuti mpingo umaona kuti kutenga mimba ndi chisomo cha Ambuye.
Ndipotu, kuganizira ngati n'zotheka kuti amayi apakati azipita ku tchalitchi, choyamba muyenera kudziwa kuti mimba ndi dalitso. Choncho, amayi apakati mu mpingo sangathe kuyenda, koma amafunikanso. Koma atatha kubadwa mkati mwa masiku 40 akuchezera mpingo ndi bwino kukana. Ndi panthawiyi pamene mapeto amatha, ndipo mkazi akudutsa nthawi yowonongeka.