Kodi mungapemphere bwanji banja ngati muli ndi ana ang'onoang'ono?

Kubadwa kwa mwana mmodzi kapena angapo kuchokera kwa okwatirana sikukutsimikiziranso kuti banja lachinyamata silidzasokonezeka. Mwamwayi, maukwati ambiri akuphwanyidwa tsiku ndi tsiku padziko lapansi, ndipo kukhalapo kwa ana ang'onoang'ono kuchokera kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi sikuwathandiza kuti asayambe ndondomeko ya kusudzulana.

Komabe, popeza lamulo la malamulo, choyamba, limayesetsa kuteteza zofuna za anthu ochepa, ndipo kuthetsa ukwati kwa makolo kumakhudzanso moyo ndi tsogolo la ana awo, sizili zovuta kuchita izi. Kuphatikizanso apo, mutayesa kuthetsa ubwenzi wanu ndi theka lanu lachiwiri, mukhoza kuthana ndi mavuto angapo okhudzana ndi kukhala ndi mwana wothandizira yemwe ali ndi zaka zoposa 18.

M'nkhaniyi, tikukuuzani momwe mungakhalire osudzulana, ngati muli ndi ana ang'onoang'ono, ndipo ndi njira ziti zomwe zilipo.

Malamulo akuluakulu a kuthetsa kusudzulana pamaso pa ana aang'ono

Monga lamulo, kusudzulana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi ana ang'onoang'ono n'kotheka kupyolera mu makhoti. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito pa milandu pamene amayi ndi abambo adagwirizana kuti mwana wawo adzakhala ndani mtsogolomu, ndi momwe angamuphunzitsire, ndizochitikazo ngati ali ndi kusamvana kwakukulu pa izi kapena nkhani ina iliyonse.

Poyambitsa mulandu, mwamuna kapena mkazi ayenera kusonkhanitsa malemba oyenera, kulembera kalata ndemanga, komanso kulipiritsa malipiro a boma kuti apite ku milandu. Poganizira nkhaniyi khothilo likhoza kutha mofulumira kapena lingagwire kwa miyezi yambiri yaitali.

Kawirikawiri, ngati onse achibale awo akuluakulu amavomereza kusudzulana, ali ndi mgwirizano wawo wolembedwa kapena wolembedwa pamapeto pa ana awo, komanso kugawidwa ndi kusungidwa kwa malo ogwirizana, khotilo limapatsa okwatirana nthawi yoyanjanitsa, yomwe imakhala pafupifupi miyezi itatu. Ngati, pamapeto a nthawi ino, chisankho chomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi wake asankha sichisintha, ndipo akupitiriza kuumirira kuti banja lawo liwonongeke, khoti likupereka chigamulo chochotsa chiyanjano cha banja pakati pawo ndikusiya ziphuphu ndi bambo kapena amayi.

Ngati chimodzi mwazochitika pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi sichikugwirizana ndi mgwirizanowu, khoti limafufuza mosamalitsa umboni wonse ndi mfundo zomwe onse awiri akugwirizana nazo ndikupereka yankho lomwe limathetsa nkhani zonse zotsutsana. Zoonadi, muzochitika izi ndi bwino kutembenukira kwa katswiri wodziwa bwino ntchito zamakampani yemwe angakuuzeni momwe mungakhalire osudzulana mwamsanga ngati banja liri ndi mwana wamng'ono ndipo lidzakuthandizani kusonkhanitsa zofunikira zonse.

Pambuyo pa chigamulo chomwe chigamulo chimaperekedwa mwalamulo, onse awiri ali ndi ufulu kulandila kalata imodzi m'manja mwawo ndikuwapititsa ku ofesi yolembera kuti apereke kalata yothetsera banja.

Kodi mungakonze bwanji kusudzulana ndi mwana wamng'ono kudzera mu ofesi yolembera?

Pansi pa malamulo a Russia ndi Ukraine, njirayi imapereka chilango chokhwima ku milandu. Pakalipano, pali milandu yapadera yomwe imalola kuti banja likhale losudzulana pamaso pa ana ang'onoang'ono kudzera m'maofesi a registry, makamaka monga:

• kuzindikira kuti wachiwiriyo akusowa;
• kusowa kwa mkazi kapena mwamuna;
• chilango chokhwima cha mmodzi wa makolo ndi chikhulupiliro chake kwa miyezi yoposa 36.

Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ziyenera kukumbukira kuti ngati banjali lisanakwanitse zaka chimodzi, ndipo ngati mayiyo akuyembekeza kubadwa kwa mwana, kuyambitsa chisudzulo kupyolera mu milandu kungatheke pokhapokha pokhapokha atayesedwa ndi mkaziyo.