Kufunsa momwe mungakonzekere chipinda cha ana kwa mnyamata, muyenera kumvetsera mfundo zingapo zofunika.
Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji chipinda cha mnyamata?
Choyamba, mawonekedwe a chipinda ayenera kukhala ofanana ndi zaka za mnyamatayo ndipo n'zosavuta kusintha, malingana ndi zofunikira za msinkhu wake. Choncho, ndi bwino kupatsa mipando yambiri, nthawi zonse kupeza ngodya zogwiritsira ntchito masewera a zamasewera (pokhapokha, kukonzekera khoma la Swedish) ndikupatsanso malo opanga nzeru omwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito mosavuta ngati kusukulu. Kusankha mtundu wamakono ndi mapangidwe a makoma a chipinda cha mnyamata, sikofunika kuti mutsatire mwatsatanetsatane ziwonetsero zowoneka:
- mitundu ya buluu ndi buluu - "boyish" kwambiri. Ndi mitundu yambiri yambiri, chipinda chidzakhala chimfine komanso chosasangalatsa. Ndikofunika kwambiri kusankha mitundu yosalekeza yapamwamba, ngakhale mitundu yodzaza ( yachikasu , lalanje, emerald) imavomerezedwa ngati malo ozizira ndikupereka chipinda kukhala ndi "moyo" wambiri;
- chithunzi pa wallpaper ndi chojambula chojambula. Osati kuti mnyamata wanu adzakondwera ndi njira iyi. Chithunzicho chiyenera kusonyeza zofuna za mwanayo, osati makolo ake.
Onetsetsani kuti musankha kumaliza zipangizo, mipando, nsalu za chipinda cha mwana, mvetserani kuvomerezeka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo ndi katundu muzipinda za ana, kuthekera koyeretsa kawirikawiri kapena kutsuka.
Nthawi zina funso limabuka ngati kuti apange chipinda chokha cha mwana wakhanda? Mwachidziwitso, simungayankhe. Mwana wakhanda amafunikira amayi kusamala nthawi yonse. Choncho, ndizovuta komanso zothandiza, mwinamwake, kukongoletsa ngodya ya ana m'chipinda cha makolo. Ngakhale m'mayiko ena akumadzulo (ku France, mwachitsanzo) ana kuyambira ali wakhanda ali m'chipinda chimodzi. Chisankho ndi chanu.
Kupanga chipinda cha ana kwa mnyamata wachinyamata
Mnyamata wachinyamata, yemwe alowa muyeso yotchedwa msinkhu wautali, adzafuna kupanga "zambiri" za chipinda. Ndipo kuti mapangidwe a chipinda cha msinkhu wa anyamata samapangitsa kusagwirizana ndi makolo, zimaphatikizapo kulembetsa mwana wanu. Kukongoletsa kwa chipinda cha ana a mnyamata -chichepere kungakhoze kuchitidwa mosiyana-siyana - masewero osasintha, makono apamwamba kwambiri kapena opangidwira, koma mulimonsemo, muyenera kulingalira mosamalitsa kusungidwa kwa malo osiyanasiyana ogwira ntchito ndikusamalira kuunika kwawo kwapamwamba.
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