M'badwo uliwonse wautali ndi mayeso kwa makolo. Kumene kuli kovuta kwambiri, ngati nthawiyi isatha ndipo mwanayo nthawi zonse amapereka zozizwitsa monga khalidwe losagwirizana. Mmodzi amayenera kukumana ndi zodandaula nthawi zonse za nkhanza kuchokera ku zinyenyeswazi, pamene ena akukumana ndi zosiyana ndi gulu looneka ndi kulekana ndi timu. Kodi makolo ayenera kudziwa chiyani komanso momwe angathandizire mwanayo kuti azitha kusintha pakati pa anthu?
Kuyambira mopitirira muyeso mpaka kufika poposa
Monga lamulo, ife tiri okondwa pamene mwanayo ali bwenzi la anzako ndipo sakuwonekera. Kumbali imodzi, izi zimasintha njira yokonzekera ndipo zimapangitsa kuti asankhe mosamala sukulu yophunzitsa. Tsoka ilo, lero pali zochitika zambiri zomwe mwanayo amachitira mosiyana ndi makolo ndi anthu omwe akufuna.
Kodi ndizolakwika zotani zomwe akuluakulu angazione?
- Kunyada kwakukulu . Pafupifupi ana onse poyamba amakhala osangalala ndipo amatha kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi anzawo. Vuto la manyazi limapezeka nthawi zambiri pothandizira makolo. Mwachitsanzo, mankhwalawa amayamba kudwala ndipo makolo amakana mwadala sukulu kapena samamulola kuti ayende pa malo omwe amapezeka m'mapaki. Samalani: nthawi zina timasokoneza manyazi ndi kusowa kwachinsinsi. Ngati mwana wanu amatha kukamba munthu wamkulu ndikumufunsani chinachake, koma sakufuna kutenga nawo mbali masewera a magulu (m'malo mwake amakoka kapena kusonkhanitsa puzzles), ndiye palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa.
- Njira ina ndikumenyana nthawi zonse. Zomwe mwanayo samenyana nazo. Mtsutso wotsiriza ukhoza kukhala ngati mawonekedwe achisangalalo kapena mokweza. Zotsatira zake, ndi zophweka kuti ana asamazindikirepo kusiyana ndi nthawi zonse kulowa muzovuta. Apa mizu ya vuto ili mu banja. Ana oterowo amakayikira kugawana nawo ndikupanga nthawi zonse amatsenga chifukwa chomwe amachitira zinthu panyumba. Akuluakulu amasamalira kwambiri mwanayo kapena amapanga zofunikira kwambiri. Chokhacho chimangotulutsa zoipa zomwe zimapezeka kunyumba.
- Chiwawa pa chifukwa chilichonse . Nkhondo yankhondo nthawi zina imabweretsa mavuto ochepa kuposa mwana wochuluka kwambiri. Gwero loyamba la khalidwe ili ndikuyang'ana malire a zomwe ziloledwa. Mwamwayi, njira imeneyi nthawi zambiri amakumana nayo. Chimake chimangoyesera kumvetsa zomwe akuchita, komanso zomwe adzalangidwa. Chiwiri chachiwiri ndi kubwezera chilango. Wina adamukakamiza mwanayo mosadziwa, ndipo adatenga inde ndikukantha ndi mphamvu zake zonse. Yang'anani kumene mwanayo angakhoze kuwona kachitidwe kachitidwe kotere. Chinthu chokhumudwitsa ndi pamene khalidwe laukali ndi khalidwe labwino ndipo thandizo la katswiri likufunika.
- Osagwirizana . Pali gulu la ana omwe ali ovuta kukhazikitsa kukhudzana ndi anthu akunja. Makolo kuyambira pachiyambi akuwona khalidwe losavomerezeka: kuyambira ali wakhanda ana otere sagwedeza makola awo ndipo samamwetulira pamene amayi awo akuwona; m'zaka zapitazi iwo alibe chidwi ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo amasankha kukhala okhaokha ndi zozizwitsa. Ana ovomerezeka amafunika njira yapadera, popeza salola anthu akunja kudziko lawo ndipo nthawi zambiri amapereka lingaliro la kubwerera. Koma mwana yemwe ali ndi dziko lamtundu wotere nthawi zina amakhala wochenjera, wochuluka kwambiri kuposa mwana wamba. Ntchito yanu ndi kuthandizidwa ndi katswiri wa maganizo ndi kupeza njira
ndi kupambana chikhulupiliro cha nyenyeswa, ndiye pang'onopang'ono mungamufikitse kukambirana ndi anzake. - Genius kaŵirikaŵiri amabweretsa chimwemwe kwa eni ake. Ana, omwe amasiyana mosiyana ndi ena mu nzeru zakuya, amakhalanso ndi mavuto ambiri polankhulana, monga momwe amachitira ndi anzako okha. Ngati mwana wanu akufunsa mafunso kuchokera kumadera ena ndipo akupatsidwa maphunzirowa, muyenera kuyang'ana mwatsatanetsatane. Kumeneko angapeze bwalo lolankhulana limene angakhale womasuka.