Vuto lodziwika

Mawu akuti "vuto ladzidzidzi" salipira ngongole yophweka. Pofuna kufotokoza izi, tiyenera kukumbukira magawo asanu ndi atatu a chitukuko cha Ego, chomwe adafotokozedwa ndi Eric Erickson ndikuyimira zochitika za mavuto a maganizo. Mtsutso umodzi womwewo ndi khalidwe la munthu ali wamng'ono ndi chomwe chimadziwika kuti ndi chosiyana ndi zomwe zimafalitsidwa, ndipo vuto lomwe lingakhalepo lingabwere mwachindunji pokonza mkangano uwu.

Zovuta zadzidzidzi ndi mavuto a zaka

Kupanga chidziwitso ndi njira yapadera, yomwe zizindikiro zonse zapitazo zimasinthidwa mogwirizana ndi kusintha kwa tsogolo lamtsogolo. Kudziwika kumayamba kukula kuyambira ali wakhanda, ndipo pa nthawi yaunyamata, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta. Zimadziwika kuti mudziko la demokarasi mavuto amasonyeza kuti ali ndi mphamvu zazikulu kusiyana ndi m'madera omwe kusintha kwa munthu kukhala wamkulu kukugwirizana ndi miyambo ina yofunikira.

Kawirikawiri, anyamata ndi atsikana amayesetsa kuthetsa vuto la kudzikonda mwamsanga ndipo potero amapewa mavuto. Komabe, izi zimabweretsa mfundo yakuti mphamvu zaumunthu zimakhala zikudziwika kufikira mapeto. Ena amakonza vutoli mwa njira yawo ndipo amathetsa vutoli kwa nthawi yayitali, kukhalabe osatsimikizika. Nthaŵi zina, chidziwitso chodziwika chikumakula kukhala choipa, chifukwa chaichi munthu amasankha udindo wotsutsa poyera ndi ntchito yomwe imatsutsana ndi lamulo. Komabe, awa ndi amodzi okhaokha, ndipo anthu ambiri, malinga ndi lingaliro la vuto lomwe Erikson ali nalo, amasankha chimodzi mwa mawonetseredwe abwino awo pa chitukuko.

Vuto la chidziwitso cha kugonana

Vuto lachidziwitso sizomwe zimangokhala zaka zokha. Mwachitsanzo, vuto linalake limakhalapo pa nkhani ya kugonana, pamene munthu amaima pamsewu ndikuyesa kudzizindikiritsa yekha ndi gulu limodzi: kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mavuto ngati amenewa amapezeka nthawi yaying'ono, koma nthawi zina zimatheka munthu wamkulu.

Vuto la kugonana kwa amuna

Kugonana ndi chidziwitso cha munthu payekha ponena za kukhala ndi chikhalidwe cha amuna kapena akazi. Poyamba ankakhulupirira kuti kugonana kwachilendo nthawizonse kumagwirizana ndi thupi, koma mu moyo wamakono chirichonse sichiri chophweka. Mwachitsanzo, bambo akakhala ndi ana ndipo mayi amapeza ndalama, udindo wawo wa amayi sagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe.