Kusamba kwa mwezi ndi mwezi ndi njira zachilengedwe kwa amayi, koma kuyambira kale, wakhala akukhulupirira malingaliro komanso mitundu yonse ya tsankho. Ngakhale lero, masiku ano, akazi sangalowe m'kachisimo ndikuyandikira mafano, ndipo chifukwa chake sungakhoze kusungidwa ndi mwezi uliwonse - m'nkhaniyi.
Nchifukwa chiyani sichikhoza kusungidwa panthawiyi?
Choyamba, izi zimachokera ku chikhulupiriro chakuti pa nthawi ino mkaziyo ndi wodetsedwa. Mwachitsanzo, Asilamu samalankhulana ndi akazi awo masiku ano komanso atabereka, pamene thupi lidziyeretsa, ndipo ngakhale kuti Akhristu alibe chofunikira chotero, kukonda chikondi pa nthawi ya kusamba sikunayamikidwe kuchokera ku chiyero. Kalekale amakhulupirira kuti mkazi wakusamba amatha kuyambitsa galasi kuti agwire ndi kugwira kwake, kutenga mphamvu kuchokera ku zomera ndi nthaka polima ndi kufesa, kukwiyitsa matenda a okondedwa ake ngati amatsuka zovala zawo, ndi zina zotero. Ngakhale kunena kuti kuvulaza kwa wakufayo kunali koletsedwa, kotero kuti sanatengere gawo losaipitsidwa ndi iyemwini ndipo moyo wake sunapitirize kukhala wosadetsedwa.
Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi, kaya ndi zoona kuti pamwezi sungathe kusungidwa, ndi bwino kumvetsera mwachidwi. Pali lingaliro lakuti pa nthawi ya msambo kupyolera mu pores a mkazi chinthu chapadera chimamasulidwa chomwe chimakhala ngati poizoni pa zamoyo. Ndicho chifukwa mtanda umatembenuka wowawasa, ndi kabichi kuwonongeka pamene mukusaka. Chimodzimodzinso ndi kusungirako, ndiko kuti, masamba osungunuka ndi zipatso samayima ndi "kupasuka", ndipo ena amazindikira kuti maluwa atsopano atsopano amatha mwamsanga kwambiri. Kodi ndinganene chiyani ... Zoonadi, sikuti zotsatira zonse zoipazi ndizomwe zimachitika ndipo ndizovuta kuzimvetsetsa, koma omwe amadandaula za chitetezo cha zinthu zawo m'nyengo yozizira, mungathe kulangiza kugwira ntchito m'magalavu a rubber ndi kuchepetsa mitsuko ndikuphimba zowonjezera.