Bwanji ndikulota kupsompsona?

Kupsompsonana nthawi zonse kumagwirizana ndi chikondi, chikondi, chisamaliro komanso kusamalira okondedwa. Chabwino, ndipo ndithudi, mu kasupe ...

Misozi imakhala ikugwirizana ndi banja lina lachikondi, kumpsompsonana kwinakwake pabwalo paki kapena pakhomo labwino madzulo a May.

Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota kuti muwone alendo akupsyopsyona?

Ngati mukulota kuti mukupsompsona mnyamata yemwe simukumudziwa bwino kwambiri pa "Pasika-masika", izi ndizizindikiro zomveka kuti muli pamtunda wamalingaliro ndikuyembekezera kubwera kwa chikondi . Kuphatikiza apo, mumayang'ana zambiri kuchokera posachedwa. Koma inu mumadabwa ndi zomwe awiri akupsyopsyona, anena, osadziwa kwenikweni, maloto okhudza, akunena za kukhumba kwanu kuphunzira zambiri za anthu omwe akuzungulirani ndikukayikira zomwe mumadziwa komanso luso lanu. Ndipo chikhumbochi chimadutsanso kumsinkhu wosadziwika, kudziwonetsera wokha mu loto.

Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa zabwino kwambiri, poyamba, malingaliro a malotowo - chifukwa chiyani maloto akupsompsonana ndi wokondedwa wake. Zimakhulupirira kuti izi, ndikudabwitsa, ndikupusitsa mlendo - mmalo mosiyana, kusintha kwa moyo ndi uthenga wabwino.

Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota kupsompsona mwachidwi?

Kupsompsona kosasunthika ndi kwanthawi yaitali - kutsekanitsa mofulumira, ndipo, kukonda kwambiri - kutalikirana kwakukulu kudzakhala. Ndikokuti, chilakolako chomwecho chimatanthauza kuperewera.

Ngati mukulota kuti mukupsompsona bwenzi lanu lakale, ndiye kuti akungoganizirani za inu ndipo akuvutika kwambiri. Kotero, inu mukhoza kuyembekezera kuti muyanjanenso mwamsanga ndi iye.

Ngati muwona m'maloto momwe akupsompsona ndi bwenzi lanu, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro cha nsanje yanu kwa iye, ndipo motero ndi chikondi. Monga mukudziwira, chikondi ndi nsanje ndi mbali ziwiri za ndalama zomwezo.

Zimakhala zokondweretsa, ndithudi, kulota kuti mukupsompsona wokondedwa wanu, mukukhala ndi chisangalalo chosangalatsa. Komabe, maloto otani okhudza kupsompsonana ndi chibwenzi chanu sichikondweretsa katswiri pa kutanthauzira kwa maloto - ndi chinthu chonyenga, chikhoza kukudetsani zodabwitsa kwambiri. Khalani maso - mwinamwake wokonda ali ndi zolinga zake zamtsogolo, ndipo mwa iwo mulibe malo ...

Chabwino, ngati mukulankhula za kugonana kwa mlendo, ndipo muli bwino ndi chibwenzi chanu, zikutanthauza kuti muli ndi nyansi mumoyo wanu, ndipo pangakhale kuphana kosafunikira. Ndipo kodi angakhalebe oyenera? Yesetsani kumvetsa nokha, funsani ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Koma, apa ndi koyenera kupanga malingaliro - malingaliro a bwenzi, ndithudi, mvetserani, koma chitani zomwe mtima ukunena. Mulimonsemo, ziri kwa inu kusankha pa chimodzi, kotero musamalakwitse.