Masewera okondwa ndi ophweka-dzina lodziwika ndi dzina ankadziwa kuyambira nthawi zakale, malinga ndi malamulo ake pa nthawi ya Khirisimasi, mtsikana wosakwatiwa anayenera kutuluka usiku kapena usiku ndipo apeze dzina la munthu woyamba amene anakumana naye. Chimene chimatchedwa, ichi chidzakhala dzina la mwamuna wake. Masiku ano, kuyenda usiku sikuli kotetezeka, motero kulengeza zamatsenga m'dzina la wotsutsa ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito njira zina, zosavuta komanso zofikira onse.
Ndibwino kuti mukuwerenga ndi thandizo la makadi
Nthawi zina ndi dzina la wokondedwa, zonse zimveka bwino, ndimangofuna kudziwa momwe akumvera. Pachifukwa ichi, khadi losavuta kulingalira ndi dzina lidzakuthandizira. Kwa iye, tengani phukusi la makadi 36 ndipo, ndikulisakaniza bwino, chotsani chala chaching'ono. Ikani makadi onse mu milu, chiwerengero chake chiyenera kufanana ndi chiwerengero cha makalata m'dzina la munthu amene amakukondani. Tsopano mutsegule khadi limodzi kuchokera pa thumba lililonse, ngati mutapeza makadi ofanana awiri, ikani pambali. Pitirizani mpaka makhadi atopa. Otsala (osagwirizana) amagwirizana, akusunga dongosolo. Tsopano, kenanso, ikani imodzi patebulo, kuchotsa makadi omwewo omwe adagwa. Pamene makhadi onse awiriwa atatha, yang'anani zomwe zatsala. Ngati ambiri aces, abambo ndi mafumu, ndiye wosankhidwa wanu amamva chisoni ndikukumana ndi inu ndipo amatenga ubale wanu mozama. Mmodzi akhoza ngakhale kuyembekezera zokambirana. Ngati pali ma jacks, ambiri ndi nines, ndiye amakonda maonekedwe anu, amakonda kumakhala nanu, koma akufulumira kuti akambirane za zolinga zabwino. Eya, makadi ochepa kwambiri amasonyeza kusayanjanitsika kwa munthu amene mumamukonda.
Zina mwa njira zabwino zowonetsera mu dzina la wotsutsa
Ambiri amadziwa kuti kulosera zam'tsogolo, kuphatikizapo dzina la wokondedwa, ndibwino kwambiri kuchita pa Khrisimasi. Inde, nthawi ino ndi nthawi yodziwika bwino yodziwika bwino, koma palibe amene amaletsa kuyang'ana mtsogolo ndi nthawi ina iliyonse.
Ndipo apa pali njira zochepa zoganiza mu dzina la mkwati.
- Tengani mapepala osamvetseka ndi kuwawotcha ndikuyesera kuyang'ana phulusa la kalata. Ndi masomphenya otani, omwe adzakhala oyamba mdzina la mtsogolo.
- Tengani apulo ndipo pang'onopang'ono muzidula khungu ndi mpeni kuti lisaswe ndipo likuwoneka ngati mpweya wolimba. Tsopano tengani ndikuponyera pamapewa anu akumanzere ndi dzanja lanu lamanja. Taganizirani zomwe zimachitika pakhungu, ndi kalata iti yomwe idzafanana, ndipo dzina la munthu amene adzakhale mwamuna wanu liyamba pa izo.
- Sankhani kuchokera ku khadi lakonde, mfumu ya diamondi, ndikuyiyika pansi pa pillow, mukufuna kuwona maloto okhudza wokondedwa. Ngati iye alota, ndiye kuti adzakhala mwamuna.
- Lembani pa pepala limodzi maina a amuna, ndi angati akukumbukira. Pindani mu kapu ndikusakaniza. Chotsani choyamba, munthu yemwe ali ndi dzina lomwelo ndipo mukhale mnzanu.
- Kwa ichi, kuombela ndi dzina kudzayenera kuyembekezera mwezi wonse. Khalani pawindo ndikuyang'ana mwezi, osati kuwombera kwa kanthawi. Pambuyo pake, pemphani mwezi kuti uyankhule za mwamuna wam'tsogolo. Tsopano ugone, mu loto iwe udzamudziwa dzina la munthu yemwe angakhale mwamuna wako, ndipo ngati iwe uli ndi mwayi, iwe udzamuwona iye.
- Ponena za kufufuza tsamba la masamba anai, lomwe limabweretsa mwayi kwa aliyense, koma ponena za kuthekera kwake kuti athandize pazinthu zodziwika mochedwa dzina lake lokhazikika, sikuti aliyense amakumbukira. Pamene tsamba losaoneka ngati limeneli likupezeka, liyenera kuikidwa mu nsapato yoyenera ndikuyenda mpaka mutadziwidwe ndi munthu watsopanoyo. Adzaitanidwa komanso mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo. Ndipo, mwinamwake, izi zidzakhala zodabwitsa.
Anthu ambiri amatha kukumbukira pamene malankhulidwewa adachitika, koma sitiyenera kuchita nawo zosangalatsa izi, makamaka, tikudziwitsa za tsogolo lathu tokha.