Mabulu kuyambira nthawi zakale amatengedwa kuti ndi mbalame zodabwitsa. Mtundu wakuda mwa ambiri umagwirizanitsidwa ndi imfa ndipo uli ndi zolakwika zosiyana. Mantha amaonjezereka, ngati mukukumbukira kuti anthu ambiri amakhala m'manda. Zikhulupiriro zambiri zimagwirizana ndi mbalamezi, zomwe zimadziwika mpaka lero, chizindikiro, pamene khwangwala amalira.
Masewera ndi anthu okhudzana ndi matsenga amatsimikizira kuti khwangwala ndi mbalame, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri.
Kulira kulira
Pali zikhulupiliro zambiri zosiyana ndi zomwe zimadalira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati gulu la mbalame likukhala pakhomo ndi nkhumba, ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino chosonyeza kuti chikwati chayandikira. Pali chizindikiro chofotokozera kuti khwangwala limathamangira kumutu ndi chidziwitso cholandira uthenga wodikira kwa nthawi yayitali, womwe uli ndi khalidwe labwino . Ngati mbalame zimasonkhanitsidwa phukusi ndikukweza "kulankhulana" wina ndi mzake, ndiyeno popanda chifukwa chilichonse amathawa mofulumira, ndiye nyengo ikusintha posachedwa, makamaka, poipa kwambiri. Nthaŵi zambiri, muyenera kuyembekezera kuzizira ndi mphepo. Chizindikiro china chodziŵika, pamene nkhungulu ija idakwera mmawa, imatanthawuza kuti nyengo idzakhala yabwino masana.
Palinso zikhulupiliro zoipa ndi mbalamezi zomwe muyenera kudziwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati m'mawa kutsogolo kwa nyumba "kulira" akufuula kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye muyenera kuyembekezera mavuto ndi mavuto. Chinthu china chofunikira pamene khwangwala imalowa muwindo, pamene kutulutsa mauthenga aatali kwambiri ndi chenjezo la ngozi m'madera okhudzana ndi anthu ena. Pamene mbalame zimafika kumunda ndi nkhumba kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera zokolola zoipa. Ngati khwangwala "akuyankhula" pafupi ndi nyumbayi ndi chiwonetsero cha mavuto omwe ali nawo. Kuyambira nthawi zakale anthu azindikira kuti ngati misozi ikuchoka mwadzidzidzi kumene adakhala zaka zambiri, ndiye kuti posachedwapa kudzakhala njala ndi kuwonongeka. Pamene mbalamezo zinabweranso mwadzidzidzi, wina amatha kusintha kusintha kwa moyo.