Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mwamuna wanga alodzedwa?

M'dziko lamakono lino, ngakhale kuti chitukuko chatsopano chikupita patsogolo, mphamvu ya matsenga pa maganizo a anthu ikukula. Zimakwaniritsidwa mu moyo ndi zoterozo, pomwe mwadzidzidzi mwamuna wachikondi amasiya mkazi ndikusiya banja , ngati kuti ali ndi chidwi ndi mkazi wina.

Tidzayesa kudziwa zomwe tingachite ngati mwamuna alodzedwa komanso momwe angachitire.

Choyamba, ganizirani zizindikiro, zomwe zimasonyeza kuti zinsinsi zimasokoneza moyo wanu. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri munthu samakhala wozizira kwambiri amene angachitire umboni kuti amachititsa chidwi ndi zamatsenga. Mwinamwake iye akungofuna nthawi yoti aganizire mochuluka ndipo tsopano sizothandiza kumufunsa iye za chirichonse.

Ndingadziwe bwanji ngati mwamuna wanga akundilolera?

Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane zizindikiro zazikulu, zomwe zidzakupatsani yankho la funso "momwe mungadziwire kuti mwamuna wanga adalodzedwa."

1. Choyamba ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu ndizo chidwi cha mnzanuyo kwa munthu yemwe walitchula. Poyamba chidwi chimenechi sichitha kuoneka, koma posakhalitsa chimakhala mania. Posakhalitsa mwamuna wanu amasonyeza kusayanjanitsa ndi chirichonse, kusasamala, koma osati kwa yemwe anamuphimba iye ndi matsenga. Kulakalaka zinthu za pabanja, ana komanso kusowa kovuta kwa munthu amene amamukonda, amamupweteka. Chinthu chochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi chakuti munthu sangathe kuwona bwinobwino zinthuzo, amadziwa kuti zonse zomwe zinachitika kale zikuchitika ndi iye. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mabala achikondi amawonetsa ngati chiwonetsero cha malingaliro enieni, omwe nthawizonse ankakhala mu moyo wake.
2. Mkazi ndi kukokera kwa amene adalowedwera, ndipo, panthawi yomweyi, amachokapo.
3. Pofuna kudziwa momwe mwamuna wake adalowedwera, muyenera kuyang'ana maganizo ake. Zimasintha mphindi iliyonse. Makhalidwe, akuoneka osagwirizana, opanda nzeru. Intuitively, inu mukhoza kuwona izo.
4. Mwamunayo akugwera pansi .
5. Mu nyumba, zochitika zonse za banja lanu zimakhala zovuta.

Kodi mungabwezere bwanji mwamuna wokondedwa?

1. Njira yabwino yobweretsera mwamuna m'banja ndikutembenukira ku chikondi chamatsenga. Izi zokha ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati pali mgwirizano musanakhale spell m'banja lanu.
2. Ngati mwakhala ndi mikangano ndi mwamuna wanu, ndi bwino kuganizira ubale wanu. Ganizirani moyenera mkhalidwe wanu ndi khalidwe la mwamuna wanu.
3. Musanayambe mwambo, yang'anirani momwe khalidwe linasokonekera mwamuna. Muyenera kukhala ndi mgwirizano wamaganizo ndi thupi. Kwa mwambo wachikondi, gwiritsani ntchito chithunzi cha mnzanuyo. Gwiritsani ntchito ngongole yomwe idalowedwako, ndiye chitani mwambo woziteteza.

Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane zomwe mwambowu uli ndi:

Mwambo uyenera kuchitika nthawi zonse ndi amene mwamuna wake adalowedwera.

Poyamba muyenera kudzala mtengo wawung'ono pafupi ndi mtengo wanu. Ngati mutadziwa dzina la munthu yemwe adakhazikika mumtima mwa mnzanuyo, ndipo dzina lake limagwirizana ndi lanu, ndiye mutenge spruce.

Ndiye muyenera kupemphera kwa woyera mtima wanu. Pemphero lidzawoneka ngati ili:

"Pempherani kwa Mulungu chifukwa cha ine, woyera mtima wa Mulungu (dzina loyera), pamene ndikuyang'ana mofulumira kwa inu, ambulansi ndi buku la pemphero ponena za moyo wanga."

Werengani chiwembu m'maŵa kwa masiku 40 otsatirawa:

Ine ndinadzuka m'mawa, mtanda wanga woyera pa ine. Mayi Wamdziko ali patsogolo panga, Mpulumutsi Khristu ali nane. Pitani, kukhumba kwanga, kukhumudwa, pafupi, kutali, kupeza mtumiki wanga wa Mulungu (dzina lake), atenge chombo cha kumanzere, mubweretsereni pakhomo panga. Iwe, ziwanda, usatero. Inu, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina la wokonda), musakondwere. Ambuye ali ndi ine, Dziko liri pamaso panga. Pamene mtengo uwu ukhala moyo, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina la wokonda) ndi kapolo wa Mulungu (dzina la mwamuna) sali limodzi. Chithunzi choyera, korona wa Mulungu, Mayi wa Cheese Earth, ndi mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina la mwamuna), ine ndekha. Chinsinsi, lolo, lirime. Kwa nthawi zonse. Amen. Amen. Amen.

Muli m'manja, mukufunikira kugwira malo ochepa chabe, omwe adatengedwa pafupi ndi mtengo umene munabzala.

Malo ochepa kwa masiku 40 awasungira mu thumba, ndipo Nthawi yoti muwerenge chiwembuyo imatha, perekani malo pafupi ndi nyumba yomwe imapha banja lanu.

Musaiwale kuti panthawi ya mwambo, werengani "Atate Wathu" kasanu ndi kawiri madzulo.

Chinthu chachikulu chomwe mmoyo wanu osakhudzidwa ndi mphamvu zamatsenga sichimasokoneza, kukulitsa mgwirizano mu nyumba, kuiwala za mikangano ndi madandaulo.

Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti pofuna kupewa anthu osasangalala ndi zamatsenga kuti asokoneze moyo wanu, pangani mgwirizano wogwirizana mnyumbamo, muiwale za mikangano ndi zodandaula.