Mayi wa ku Kiev Mayi Alipia anathandiza anthu ngakhale pa nthawi ya moyo wake, wina anangopereka uphungu, wina anapemphera, wina ankafuna malo ogona ndi chakudya, wina amafunikira thandizo lauzimu. Ndi vuto lililonse kunali kotheka kubwera kwa munthu wachikulire, zitseko za selo yake nthawi zonse zinkatseguka kwa osowa. Pambuyo pa imfa yake, ndipo mpaka lero, okhulupirira amapita kumanda a amayi Alipia kukapempha thandizo ndikupemphera kwa woyera mtima. Lemekeza munthu wachikulire monga wothandizira mu bizinesi, wothandizira njira yoyenera, wopulumutsira ku imfa, ndi zina zotero. Anthu amakhulupirira kuti ngati mwapempha thandizo kuchokera kwa amayi Alipia mu pemphero lanu, ndithudi adzakuthandizani.
Ndingapeze bwanji thandizo kwa amayi Alipia?
Kwa amayi a Alipia, anthu amapempha zosiyana kuti akhale omvera, ndipo malinga ndi ndemanga zambiri, mapemphero amathandiza. Mufunseni za machiritso ku matenda aakulu, za kupeza malo okhala, chuma chamakhalidwe abwino, ndi zina zotero. Ambiri akufuna kudziwa momwe angapemphe thandizo kwa amayi Alipia, ngati pali mapemphero apadera kapena mukhoza kupempha thandizo m'mawu anuanu. Pali malamulo angapo osatchulidwa:
- Pemphero, munthu sayenera kusokonezedwa, "nyundo" mutu ndi maganizo ena.
- Musanayambe kuwerenga pempheroli, funsani chikhululukiro cha machimo anu onse.
- Muyenera kuganizira za munthu amene mumamupempha thandizo.
- Mukamapemphera, musafulumire, kuitchula mokweza kapena phokoso.
- Mawu anu okhudza thandizo ayenera kumveka, kotero werengani pemphero ndi "kumva", musatchule mawu monotonously.
- Werengani pempheroli kangapo patsiku, makamaka m'mawa ndi usiku musanagone.
- Pambuyo pa pempheroli, zikomo Mama Alipia.
Inde, mukhoza kupemphera m'njira zosiyanasiyana, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mawu anu ndi oona mtima, komanso pali mapemphero apadera. Mwachitsanzo, pali pemphero lalifupi kwa amayi Alipia omwe amathandizira kulimbana ndi matenda akuluakulu: