Ngati usiku uno muthamangitsidwa ndikufuna kuti mudziwe zomwe malotowo akulosera, gwiritsani ntchito kutanthauzira kwathu. Yesetsani kukumbukira zambiri momwe mungathere kuti mudziwe zambiri zolondola.
Nchifukwa chiyani kuthamangitsa maloto?
Kawiri kawiri, maloto oterewa amatanthauza kuti mu moyo weniweni mumatsatira maloto kapena mukufuna, phindu lililonse, kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chomwe mukufuna. Ngati mumawona malingaliro oterewa nthawi zambiri, ndiye kuti cholinga chanu sichingatheke. Pewani kuthamangitsidwa m'maloto ndikukhala ndi mwayi wopulumuka, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti, zenizeni, mungathe kulepheretsa vuto lalikulu. Maloto omwe munathawa nawo kuti muthamangitsidwe ndi chizindikiro kuti mutha kusintha momwe zinthu ziliri panopo komanso musataye malipiro.
Kuthamanga kuchoka ku galimoto kuthamanga mu loto kumatanthauza kuti mu moyo weniweni mukuyesera kuti mubisale chinachake. Mwina ndi nthawi yoti mutenge nokha ndikukumana ndi vuto ndi maso. Ngati mutathawa apolisi - ichi ndi chizindikiro chakuti mungakhale ndi mavuto ndi lamulo. Kuwona m'maloto kufunafuna munthu wodziwa bwino kumatanthauza kuti m'tsogolo muli pangozi, ndipo muli ndi mwayi wothetsera vutoli. Ambiri akufuna kudziwa kutanthawuza kuthamangitsa maloto, ngati atha kugwira ntchito. Pankhaniyi, malotowo akhoza kufotokozedwa, monga kulandira mphotho ya ntchito yomwe yachitika. Ngati akukuthamangitsani, mavuto omwe alipo alipo sadzasintha.
Kuwona mu malotowo kumayendetsa zopanda pake, kumatanthauza kuti posachedwa mikangano idzayamba m'moyo wanu yomwe idzakwiyitseni. Maloto omwe mukuwona kuti akutsata mbala ndi chizindikiro cha zomwe mumafuna pa chidziwitso kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino ndi mabwenzi apamtima ndi achibale anu. Kuthawa kuthamangitsa nyama mu loto ndi chenjezo kuti muyenera kukonzekera zamwano ndi miseche .