Munthu m'maloto akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi enieni, mwachitsanzo, mkwiyo, kupsa mtima, kaduka. Zonsezi zingakhale chifukwa cha mikangano ndi kusamvetsetsana ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Zoona zenizeni, munthu atakhumudwa, munthu amangokhala ndi maganizo olakwika, koma kodi muyenera kuyembekezera chiyani kuchokera ku loto limene inu ndi wina simunagwirizane nalo?
Nchifukwa chiyani tili ndi mkangano?
Maloto oterowo angabwere chifukwa cha kupsinjika kwamtima mu moyo weniweni. Mwachidule, motero, thupi limayesetsa kumasuka ndi kutaya zoipa. Mu maloto, mulibe kusagwirizana ndi anzako, izi zingatengedwe kwenikweni, popeza ndizotheka m'moyo weniweni kukhala ndi ubale ndi anthu okhala kumbuyo kwa khoma, simuli otentha kwambiri. Kuwona mkangano ndi wokondedwa ndi chizindikiro chakuti posachedwa mungathe kugawana .
Ngati muli ndi mkangano ndi munthu wakale, ndiye kuti mukudzidzinyenga nokha ndipo m'malingaliro anu mukupitiriza kumvetsetsa zifukwa zolekanitsa, komanso kusunga zodandaula. Malotowa akuti ndi nthawi yothetsera mavutowa ndikuyamba moyo watsopano. Simunapeze chinenero chofanana ndi mlendo, ndiye kuti simukukondwera ndi moyo wanu. Mwinamwake zolinga ndi maloto omwe inu mumadzikonzera nokha alephera. Powona m'mene wina amakangana, posachedwa mudzapeza zambiri zosangalatsa zokhudza abwenzi.
Kodi zimatanthauzanji ngati muli ndi mkangano ndi achibale?
Ngati mumalota mumakangana ndi amayi anu - ichi ndi chizindikiro cha zomwe mumakhala mukusamvetsetsana, chifukwa mumayendetsa njira zosiyanasiyana za moyo. Yesetsani kuthetsa mwakachetechete mkangano ndikupeza mfundo zowonjezera. Maloto enanso angakuuzeni kuti mmodzi mwa achibale anu adzadwala. Ngati muli ndi mkangano ndi bambo anu, izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa cha chinyengo cha nthawi yaitali. Loto limene mumakangana ndi mlongo wanu,
Kodi zikutanthauza chiyani mukamakangana ndi anzanu?
Kulimbana ndi mnzanu kumasonyeza kuti m'moyo weniweni simungathe kuthetsa kusiyana komwe kwachitika. Yesetsani kusiya mfundo zanu kuti mupeze yankho loyenera. Komabe zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha ulendo wautali. Maloto okhudzana ndi mkangano ndi mnzanu ndi chenjezo kuti mutha kulowa mumkhalidwe wosasangalatsa chifukwa cha khalidwe lanu. Ngati izi zichitika, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kuthandizidwa ndi mnzanu amene mumamukhumudwitsa m'maloto.