Maloto omwe ali ndi zinthu zocheka zopweteka nthawi zonse amakhala oopsa ndipo amadzazidwa ndi ngozi kwa munthu, makamaka ngati akuukira ndi mpeni. Ngati mutayang'ana m'buku la malotowo, mpeni m'maloto akhoza kutanthauzira osati kuwopsa chabe - zimadalira maonekedwe omwe ndi ofunika kumvetsera.
Kodi mpeni umalota chiyani?
Kutanthauzira kugona ndi mpeni kuyenera kuyambira ndi zochitika: zomwe zikuzungulira anthu, kufufuza momwe akumverera panthawiyi pamene winawake akuwoneka ndi mpeni m'manja, kapena wolota mwiniyo akugwira mpeni, ndiye kuti chinthu ichi chinali m'manja mwake. Ngati ndiwopseza maloto ndi mpeni, zomwe zakhala zikuchitika pazomwe zinachitikazo. Chilichonse ndi chofunika. Ngati panthawi yomwe imadzutsa kukhumudwa , mwina maganizo oganiza bwino amayesa kuchenjeza za kufunikira koyang'anira zochitika za munthu.
Nchifukwa chiyani mpeni akuukira?
Pofufuza maloto a kuukira, chinthu chotsatira ndi chofunika: mpeni mu maloto anali m'maso mwa wophunzira kapena kuchitidwa kwake ndi munthu wina. Kusiyanasiyana kwa kutanthauzira kwa loto lotero:
- Akamenyana ndi ogona, amalonjeza kusintha kwa miyoyo yawo;
- ndi mpeni wozunguliridwa ndi munthu wodziwika bwino kuchokera ku chilengedwe - wolota amayenda pamtunda wololedwa (pamphepete mwa mpeni);
- ngati munthu ogona m'maloto amenyana ndi munthu - kanthawi kochepa akhoza kuchita cholakwika, chimene adzaweruzidwa, kapena kusonyeza makhalidwe osayenera a khalidwe lake;
- kwa mkazi, kuzunzika ndi kuukira kwa mwamuna ndi mpeni - msonkhano womwe ukubwera ndi wokonda kwambiri;
- Dream Book molingana ndi Freud - Mpeni m'manja mwa wotsutsa - chizindikiro cha phallic yomwe ikulosera zam'tsogolo zogonana kwa yemwe akuwona maloto;
- Ngati mutayang'ana mu bukhu la maloto a kasupe - mpeni, womangidwa pammero panthawi ya kuukira, amachitidwa ngati kusankhidwa kwina.
Nchifukwa chiyani mpeni kumbuyo?
Kumbuyo kwa munthu ndi malo osatetezeka, choncho buku lirilonse la loto ndi mpeni kumbuyo, maloto amamasuliridwa ngati osasangalatsa:
- ngati mmodzi wa mabwenzi akuukira, muyenera kumvetsera anthu ochokera kumalo anu, posachedwa mmodzi wa iwo akhoza "kuika nkhumba", bwenzi akhoza kupereka;
- kupweteka kumbuyo - kuchitika kwa mavuto osayembekezereka;
- maloto otota a wina akum'pweteka kumbuyo - zowona adzakumana ndi kusagwirizana m'banja, zovuta za anthu achisoni;
- Wolota mwiniwake akuukira ena ndi mpeni kumbuyo - ntchito yochepa poyerekezera ndi anzanu kapena okondedwa;
- Dreambook pachitsime cha Danilova kumbuyoko amachitira molakwika poyamba: kuitana ku phwando, koma kusowapo kwa pulogalamu yotere kumakhudza thanzi.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti mukuwombera mpeni?
Makina osasamala m'nyumba - chizindikiro chakuti palibe munthu mmenemo, kotero ankawoneka ngati wakale. Kodi kutanthauzanso maloto kumalimbikitsa mpeni m'maloto:
- Ngati mumayang'ana m'buku la loto la banja, mpeni akuwongolera - ku lingaliro la bizinesi yoyipa;
- pamene akupera mpeni mzere wozunguliridwa umagwiritsidwa ntchito - kwa mkazi maloto otere akulonjeza milandu yambiri yakugwa, yomwe sangathe kupirira yekha;
- kuti munthu athetse mpeni kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kuchita zinthu zolakwika ndi chidwi;
- mu summer dream book, akuwombera mpeni zosokoneza zomwe wolota akufuna kuchita mtundu wina wachinyengo kapena kuchita chinachake choipa;
- Buku la Oracles lotolo limalota maloto omwe munthu amatha kuwombera mpeni, kuti pakadali pano wolotayo ali ndi malingaliro olakwika chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kumene amamupangitsa ndipo akulingalira zolinga zobwezera.
Nchifukwa chiyani ndikuganiza kuti ndikupha munthu ndi mpeni?
Kupha mu loto kumanyamula katundu wosiyana, zonse zimadalira zochitika, nthawi zina chidziwitso chimayesa kuthetsa maubwenzi olemetsa, malingaliro kapena ntchito zopanda pake. Kutanthauzira kwina kwa kugona:
- Buku lolota maloto kuti aphe munthu ndi mpeni, malotowo akuwonetsa chidwi chogonana ndi munthu yemwe wolota akumuukira;
- Zikuwoneka, ndizoopsa bwanji kudzipha nokha mu loto mothandizidwa ndi mpeni, koma malotowo akhoza kusonyeza chimwemwe kapena chikhumbo chokhumba cha chikondi;
- kupha m'maloto ndi mpeni wa olakalaka kapena ochita mpikisano akulonjeza chipambano muzoona;
- kugona kuti amuphe munthu ndi mpeni, akatswiri a maganizo amamasuliridwa ngati kusatsimikizika ndi zovuta za maloto omwe akulota;
- Bukhu la malotowo molingana ndi Freud limatanthauzira kuphedwa kwa mwamuna ndi mpeni, monga chizindikiro cha mapeto a mgwirizano wosagwiritsidwa ntchito umene mfundoyo iyenera kuikidwa.
Nchifukwa chiyani ndikulakalaka kupeza mpeni?
Madzi mu loto akhoza kuchita ngati chopangira, makamaka mpeni wakale ndikupeza chinthu choterocho chingatanthauze kupeza mphamvu. Pamene akutanthauzira maloto, nkofunika kumvetsera mtundu wa mpeni umene unali ndipo ndi zomwe zinayesedwa kuchokera ku zomwe anazipeza, chinali chiyani - mantha, mantha kapena kuyamikira? Pezani mpeni mu loto - kutanthauzira kosiyana:
- Dream Book Felomeny akukamba za maloto oterowo kuti bwenzi lachidziwitso lidzawonekera mu moyo wa munthu, koma mowonadi lidzakhala ngati wachinyengo ndipo liyenera kukhala lodziwika ndi anthu atsopano;
- Buku lakale lotolo - kupeza mpeni, limachenjeza kuti chinsinsi choperekedwa kwa ototacho chiyenera kusungidwa mosamala, palibe yemwe angachoke pa chilengedwe.
Kodi malotowo akuphwanyika bwanji?
Mu lotoli nkofunika kuti muzindikire tsatanetsatane wa kuwonongeka, ndi chiyani chimene chimathyoka ndi tsamba kapena chogwirira ntchito, ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zisanachitike mpeni? Kuchokera mu mndandanda uwu ndi chithunzi chonse cha malotowo. Ndizo zomwe mabuku osiyanasiyana amaloto amanena zokhudza mpeni wosweka:
- dream Miller - kuona mu loto mpeni umene uli ndi tsamba losweka, ukhoza kusonyeza matenda oyambirira kapena vuto lopweteka;
- kugwa kwa ziyembekezo ndi maloto;
- kukonza mpeni wosweka akulonjeza kubwezeretsa ubale wapamtima ndi bwenzi lakale;
- ngati mpeni wosaka wathyoka - kupita ku zochitika chifukwa cha zoyembekezera, chipinda chodyera - kukangana ndi achibale;
- analota popereka mpeni wosweka - wolota sakondwera ndi ulamuliro pakati pa ena chifukwa cha khalidwe laukali ndi lopanda ulemu kwa anthu;
- ngati munthu mu loto amupatsa winawake mpeni wathyoka - maganizo ake kwa munthuyu akuphatikizapo kukangana ndi zovuta kumenyana.
Nchifukwa chiyani mumalota mipeni yambiri?
Mipeni yambiri monga mphatso mu maloto idzasangalatsa wosonkhanitsa ozizira, anthu ena akamadzuka maloto akudzutsa mafunso angapo. Mabuku a maloto padziko lonse amatanthauzira maloto, kumene kuli mipeni yambiri m'njira zosiyanasiyana:
- Buku la gypsy lotolo - m'malotowo, mipeni miyandamiyanda yomwe imaphatikizapo nkhanza ndi kuyitanitsa khalidwe labwino muzochita ndi mawu;
- kulandira ngati mphatso mipeni - chinyengo ndi chinyengo cha wina kuchokera kwa ena;
- kuwona mipeni yopusa - ku nkhawa kwa okondedwa;
- apatseni mipeni yeniyeni kwa wina kuti apatukane kapena kukangana ndi yemwe mphatsoyo idakonzedweratu;
- Mitsuko, mwachisawawa imakhala pamulu umodzi - mkwiyo, womwe wolota adzamva posachedwa chifukwa cha kukangana;
- Mayi ambiri amatha kulengeza mayesero omwe amachititsa kuti adziwe kuti ali ndi mavuto.
N'chifukwa chiyani ndikulota kudula nyama yaiwisi ndi mpeni?
Kuphika ndi chilengedwe tsiku ndi tsiku, koma ngati kumveka bwino, ndiye mu malotowo ukhoza kukhala chizindikiro kapena chizindikiro cha chinachake, ndipo nthawi zambiri iwo amene analota za ndondomekoyi ali ndi funso, lotola kudula nyama yaiwisi ndi mpeni-kodi ndibwino kapena ayi? Maloto amatanthauzira zotsatirazi:
- ndi Miller, kuti adye nyama yatsopano-yopanda pake, mwa kuyesera kopanda pake;
- Vanga mu bukhu lake la maloto akuchenjeza za vuto lalikulu la thanzi kwa munthu yemwe amadula nyama mu loto, ndipo ngati iyi ndi mpeni wosasuntha - palibe mankhwala;
- Wotanthauzira Juno amatanthauzira maloto pomwe munthu amadula nyama yaiwisi ndi mpeni wabwino kuti athandize thanzi lake, fupa lake ndi lamphamvu ndi lamphamvu;
- kuti amalonda azidula nyama yaiwisi m'maloto - chizindikiro cha kukwaniritsidwa kwa bizinesiyo bwino;
- pakuti mkazi malotowo ndi chisonyezero chakuti mu moyo wake kusintha kumene posachedwapa kudzachitika.
Nchifukwa chiyani mpeni mumoto umalota?
Maloto ndi magazi ndi ofunika kwambiri, chifukwa magazi ndi kuphwanya kukhulupirika kwa chipolopolo cha thupi, ndipo ngati magazi pa chinthu ngati mpeni, ndiye kuti pali mafunso okhudza zomwe zinachitika, omwe magazi ake ndi - kuwayankha mutha kuyesa kugona. Kodi malotowo amachitiridwa bwanji, komwe mpeni wadetsedwa mu magazi:
- Kulota ku France bukhu m'magazi amatanthauzira mwachidule ndi zomveka - banja limakangana chifukwa cha vuto la kugona posachedwa;
- Miller akulosera zoperewera zachuma kapena kulekanitsa kwautali-kumangirizana ndi munthu wotsika;
- mpeni wotopetsa m'magazi - osakhutira ndi moyo wa banja;
- Mphazi wamagazi ndi ntchito ya luso - mu moyo wa ogona adzawonekera mthandizi waumwini wamphamvu;
- mpeni m'magazi a mkazi yemwe adayika wokonda - kwenikweni, mpaka kumapeto kwa chiyanjano.
Kodi mpeni m'manja mwake walota chiyani?
Kugona - mpeni mdzanja ndiwothandiza kwambiri kutanthauzira dziko, maganizo, malingaliro a wolota, angasonyeze mavuto omwe akukumana nawo panthawi yomwe akuzunzidwa ndipo amafuna yankho kapena njira yothetsera vutoli. Kodi ndi zochitika ziti zomwe mpeni m'manja mwake akulota:
- Ngati muyang'ana buku la loto la mkazi, mpeni yemwe mkazi wogona akugwira m'manja mwake, akulankhula za nkhawa ndi mavuto omwe amachitira nawo banja;
- kusunga ndi kuyamikira mpeni wakuthwa - kulandira chisankho chofunikira chokhudza tsogolo la ena;
- mpeni ndi tsamba lalitali - mayesero omwe angabweretse mavuto , omwe angakhale ovuta kuwathetsera;
- sewerani mu loto ndi mpeni - mkwiyo pamtima ndi chilakolako chobwezera;
- munthu akulota kuti ali ndi mpeni waukulu kapena lupanga m'dzanja lake, ndipo amayenda naye - kupambana pazochitika zosautsa komanso zoopsa.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti ndikugula kugula?
Mpeni ndi mphamvu yamagetsi ndi mphamvu, ndipo maloto ogula chida ichi akuimira chikhumbo cha ulamuliro ndi ulamuliro pa munthu wina kapena gulu la anthu. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji nokha ngati mutalota mpeni:
- Kutanthauzira maloto Felomeny amachita maloto pogula mpeni monga chokhumba ndi chibadwa cha munthu kuti azilamulira;
- kugula mpeni wokongoletsera ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali yomwe imalangizidwa - chilakolako cholamulira chirichonse ndi aliyense;
- mu bukhu la maloto la Amedeya - kugula mpeni, chifukwa cha kuwuka kwa chinthu chosasangalatsa kwa ogona;
- Miss Hasse akutanthauzira maloto ogula mpeni - wolota popanda mavuto apadera adzalandira cholowa chake.