Mabanja ambiri masiku ano, omwe alipo ana - mabanja omwe ali ndi mwana mmodzi yekha. Inde, palibe amene amatsutsa kuti izi ndi zosankha za kholo lililonse, koma ndibwino kulola mwana wanu kuti akule atazungulira mbale kapena mlongo.
Pambuyo pake, kwenikweni, ana angapo m'banja - ndi zabwino, zonse kwa makolo ndi ana. Abale ndi alongo amatha kukhazikitsa mabwenzi awo, kugawana zinsinsi ndi zopindulitsa, kukambirana za miseche yatsopano ndikubwera ndi ndondomeko yakugwira dziko. Ganizirani za mwayi wosaneneka womwe "mwana wanu wosakwatira" amasowa, ngati ukukula wopanda mbale kapena mlongo.
1. M'banja lalikulu, sipangakhalepo funso lakuti ndani amamwa mvula yoyamba. M'banja lalikulu, zonse zimamangidwa pa mfundoyi: "Ndani anali woyamba kuchita izo, zachitika."
2. Musaiwale kuti dziko likulimbana ndi ufulu woyenda pa mpando wakutsogolo wa galimoto ya makolo.
3. Koma kawirikawiri mumayenera kupita kumsana wakumbuyo ndipo, moona mtima, mvetserani mchimwene wanu kapena mlongo wanu kuti chikhoto chachitetezo chili pansi pawo.
4. Ndi mchimwene wanu kapena mlongo wanu yemwe mungathe kugawana chakudya chokoma ndi chokonda kwambiri. Ndipo ndithudi mofanana.
5. Ngati mchimwene kapena mlongo chifukwa cha zizoloŵezi zanu amapeza "chipewa", ndiye kuti mumakhala ndi chisangalalo chenicheni. Izi ndizotheka kokha pakati pa achibale.
6. Komanso aliyense amadziwa bwino zomwe zikuchitika m'banja lalikulu amayi amaiwala mayina a ana onse ndipo asanakuitane amalembetsa aliyense. Ichi si chozizwitsa!
7. Kuwonetsera madzulo kwa mapulogalamu a pa TV kumathera ndi nkhondo zenizeni kuti zikhale ndi mwayi wosankha pulogalamu kapena filimu.
8. Ndipo ngati mutapambana nkhondoyi, simungamasule kutali ndi manja anu kuti mbale kapena mlongo asasinthe.
9. Kumbukirani malingaliro anu pamene munamenya mbale wanu kapena mlongo kwambiri, ndikuyesera kuti muthetse.
10. Ngati m'banja lalikulu mayi anga adagula chinthu chapadera, chimene m'bale kapena mlongo sayenera kudziwa, ndiye kuti mumakhala mwana wokondedwa kwambiri pa dziko lino lapansi.
11. Mwaphunzitsidwa kwambiri kuti muzitha kufufuza kaye kabati ya munthu wina kuti ngati mutamva zoyandikira za mchimwene wanu kapena mlongo wanu, mutuluke pomwepo.
12. Mphatso zabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi ndizofanana ndi abale kapena alongo, omwe amasiyana mochititsa chidwi.
13. Abale ndi alongo okha amadziwa zomwe zimachitika pamene mmodzi wa iwo amayesa kufunsa makolo chinthu china chofunikira kwa wina, koma amalandira kukana.
14. Ndipo, ndithudi, nthawi yochititsa mantha yomwe kuchokera kwa m'bale kapena mlongo mudzaphunzira kuti makolo akukambirana nanu.
15. Panthawi yachisoni, mulibe chochita koma mumanyoza mbale kapena mlongo wanu.
16. Mphindi yabwino kwambiri ya ubale umachitika pamene chidziwitso cha "chinsinsi" chikufika kwa makolo kuchokera pamilomo ya mbale kapena mlongo.
17. Nkhope yanu pamene wina avomereza kuti ali pachikondi ndi mbale kapena mlongo wanu.
18. Ndipo, ndithudi, nkhope yanu pamene mbale kapena mlongo anali ndi chidwi, koma simunasangalale kuona zochitika zoterezi.
19. Ndipo abale ndi alongo amakonda kuyesa chinthu china chatsopano. Ndipo nthawi zambiri ndizolakwika.
20. Momwe mumamvera ndizosamveka ngati m'bale kapena mlongo akukweza malo anu.
21. Zopempha za abale ndi alongo nthawi zonse zimakhutira ndi zosiyana. Makamaka zimakhudza chakudya.
22. Ngakhale ponseponse, m'bale kapena mlongo yekha ndi wokonzeka kuthandizira pa zovuta kwambiri.
23. Ndipo, mu chiyanjano choterocho, palibe konse pakati: nkhondo yonyansa chabe kapena chikondi chosatha.