"Aloleni iwo anene kuti palibe ubwenzi pakati pa akazi ...". Ndizoonadi, aloleni kuti anene, tikudziwa motsimikiza kuti pali bwenzi labwino komanso labwino kwambiri, ndipo ndilo kupambana kwake kuti apite msanga. Limasokoneza funso limodzi lokha, kodi mungapereke chiyani kwa mnzanu wapamtima? Pambuyo pa zonse, palibe chilakolako chochotseratu zinthu zina, ndipo simukufuna kuyesera kuti muzipatse mphatso. Muyenera kusinkhasinkha ndikuganiza za mphatso yomwe mungapatse mnzanu wapamtima, kotero kuti anali pachiyambi ndipo adakonda.
Kodi mungapatse mnzanu wokondedwa?
Ponena za bwenzi lapamtima, funso labwino koposa, zina zingawoneke zachilendo, bwenzi lapamtima, zonse zimadziwika ndi zokonda zake ndi zomwe amakonda, kotero mphatsoyo sidzasankhidwa. Koma sizinthu zophweka, pali mavuto angapo, limodzi la iwo - zonse zinali kale kale. Makhala mabwenzi kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo mukuwoneka kuti mwakwanitsa kumupatsa zonse zomwe zingatheke. Choncho, funso limene lingathe kupereka choyambirira kwa mnzanu wokondedwa limakhala lofulumira kwambiri - mphatso zosazolowereka chabe ndi njira yosangalatsa yowawonetsera iwo adzapulumutsa kuchokera kubwereza.
- Msungwana wanu amavomereza zodzikongoletsera, ndipo munaganiza zomupatsa golide (siliva) nsalu. Koma anangoperekedwa mu bokosi ngati chinthu chosangalatsa. Choncho, mupatseni chokoleti chokoleti (chokoleti) mkati mwake chomwe chibangilichi chidzapezeka, wrappers zamakono zimakulolani kuti mutsegule ndi kutseka mankhwalawo kangapo. Mwa njira, kotero mutha kunyamula ndi zina osati zinthu zovuta kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti kukoma kumatsegukira kwa iwe, ndiye ukhoza kusangalala ndi zodabwitsa pamaso pa bwenzi;
- kodi mumadzijambula nokha kapena muli ndi njira zothandizira chithunzi? Chomwecho chitani, koma kuti mupange bwenzi lanu kuti likhale losangalatsa kwambiri, lolani chithunzicho chikhale mu kachitidwe ka nthawi. Mungathe ngakhale kulemba nkhani yokhudza chithunzi kapena mayi yemwe akuwonetsedwapo. Tawonani kuti nkhaniyo inali yokongola, nkhani za atsikana zimakondedwa pa msinkhu uliwonse;
- ikani bete yanu osati mphatso imodzi, koma pazing'onozing'ono. Ikani iwo mabokosi, amangirire ku chingwe. Pakati pa tchuthi akuitanira alendo ndi omwe amachititsa chikondwererocho kuti "adzichepetse" mphatso. Vuto ndilokuti muyenera kudula ulusi ndi maso anu atatsekedwa, komanso ngakhale omwe akugwira ulusi, akhoza kuvina pang'ono pokhapokha.
Vuto lina, mumadziŵa bwino za zochita zake, koma mumamvetsa "ngati nkhumba mu malalanje" ndipo mukuwopa kumupatsa chinthu china chosafunikira. Choncho, ndibwino kuti musamaganizire pazochita zowonongeka, ndi bwino kumvetsera moyo wa mnzanu, chomwe chikuchitika tsopano m'moyo wake.
- Mwachitsanzo, tsopano akuyesetsa kukhala pachibwenzi. Ndiye mphatso yabwino idzakhala yokongoletsera yokongola, peyala ya masitonkeni, wonyansa, zobvala za silika;
- bwenzi la mkazi wamalonda wotanganidwa ndi mitundu yonse ya "kukongola" alibe chidwi kwenikweni? Perekani zomwe angagwiritse ntchito pa ntchito yake - kulembetsa kwa magazini yamalonda, zolemba zoyambirira. Koma ngati muwona kuti chibwenzi chanu posachedwa "chitsekedwa" kuntchito, perekani zomwe zingamuthandize kupuma. Zikalata mu salon yokongola, potikita, "kukokera" ku chilengedwe. Ngati bwenzi lanu likumveka bwino mukamagula zakudya, konzekerani ulendo wamakondwerero, ndikugula chinthu chomwe akuchikonda;
- Chabwino, ngati bwenzi limakonda nyumba yake ndipo limapereka chidwi kwambiri kumkati, mum'patse zina zowonjezera. Ingokumbukirani kuti posankha kuti mukutsatira ndondomeko ndi mawonekedwe a chipinda chomwe chipangizochi chikufunira.
Eya, ziribe kanthu mphatso zomwe muli nazo, mtsikana ayenera kupereka maluwa. Sitiyenera kukhala ndi mavuto aliwonse, mukudziwa zomwe amakonda. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito bwino mphatso, ndipo maluwa amzanu sakonda kukwera mtengo, ndikuyesera kuti mukhale nawo otsika mtengo. Zili bwino kuti zisakhale zofunikira, zikhale maluwa odzichepetsa (1-3 maluwa ndi zochepetsera zokongoletsera), koma mitundu yokondedwa, kusiyana ndi "tsache" lonse la iwo omwe sakulikonda, kapena amadana nayo.