Chikumbutso cha ukwatiwo ndi mwayi waukulu wokhala ndi achibale ndi abwenzi athu, ndipo mu mkhalidwe wachikondi uwu wa banja tiyenera kukondwerera chodabwitsa ichi. Kuonjezerapo, chikondwerero cha ukwatiwo chimatsimikizira mphamvu ya mgwirizano wa banja komanso za chikondi pakati pa okwatirana. M'mabanja ambiri, tchuthichi imapatsidwa ulemu waukulu.
Ndi chaka chilichonse chotsatira, banja likukula ndi kulimbitsa. Masiku ano, ndi mwambo wokondwerera tsiku lozungulira la ukwati - zaka 5, 10, 15, 25. Kuzindikira kapena kusazindikira masiku ena ndi nkhani yachinsinsi ya okwatirana.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani pa tsiku la ukwati? - Funso ili likufunsidwa ndi aliyense amene adalandira chiitanidwe ku phwando lofunika kwambiri la banja. Chikumbutso chilichonse cha ukwaticho chili ndi dzina lake, chomwe chiri ndi chithunzi cha zomwe mungapereke. Izi zimathandiza kwambiri kufufuza zochitika ndikukulolani kupereka mphatso yabwino kwambiri pa tsiku lachikwati.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani pa tsiku loyamba la ukwati?
Chikumbutso choyamba chimatchedwa ukwati wa thonje. Dzina limasonyeza kuti silika inalowetsedwa ndi chintz, ndipo ulusi wokhudzana ndi okwatirana unalimbikitsidwa. Komanso, dzina limati kuti chaka chino banjali lidziphatikizana kale, monga thonje ndi nsalu ya kuvala tsiku ndi tsiku.
Mphatso yokonzekera tsiku loyamba la ukwati iyenera kukhala nsalu. Zovala zabedi, nsapato, mapepala ndi zina zilizonse zopangidwa ndi nsalu ndizofunikira kwambiri pa chaka chino.
Kodi mungasonyeze chiyani pa tsiku lachiwiri la ukwati?
Tsiku lachiwiri laukwati limatchedwa ukwati wa pepala. Patsiku lino ndi mwambo kupereka mphatso kuchokera pa pepala ndi makatoni. Mphatso zabwino kwambiri za chikondwerero chachiwiri cha ukwati ndi mabuku.
Monga chaka choyamba ndi chachiwiri, sikuli kovuta kusankha mphatso kwa masiku ena. Kotero, pa tsiku lachitatu (ukwati wa chikopa) ndi mwambo kupereka mphatso kuchokera pakhungu. Pa tsiku lachinayi (ukwati wa nsalu) - zopangidwa ndi flax ndi maluwa. Pa tsiku lachisanu (ukwati wamatabwa) - katundu kuchokera ku mtengo, zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo kotero.
Pa chikondwerero cha ukwatiwo, ukhoza kubwera ndi mphatso ina yapachiyambi. Kusiyana ndi aliyense amatsatira mwambo ndi mphatso paziphatso zamasiku ano, mothandizidwa ndi dzina la chikondwererochi. Monga mphatso ya chikondwerero cha ukwati, abwenzi angapereke ndi zipangizo zam'nyumba, ndi ndalama, ndi zokumbutsa, ndi zinthu zofunika zapakhomo. M'munsimu muli mphatso zosiyana ndi zachilendo za tsiku la ukwati:
- ulendo wachikondi. Ngati muli ndi njira zowonjezera, mungathe kupatsa anzanu pa tsiku lachikwati paulendo wawo kapena pa holide ku malowa. Chinthu chodzichepetsa kwambiri ndi matikiti a konsati, kampu kapena kanema;
- mphatso yamatsenga. Mphatso ya nthabwala ingaperekedwe limodzi ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali. Zosangalatsa kapena zozizwitsa zokongoletsedwera za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, chikumbutso chodabwitsa, chithunzithunzi chokongola ndi zinthu zina zambiri zidzasangalatsa kusewera pamaso pa olakwira. Mphatso zodzikongoletsa zimagulidwa pamasitolo apadera;
- chakudya chamakono kuresitilanti. Mphatso iyi ili yoyenera pa tsiku lililonse la ukwati. Pa chochitika ichi, munthu ayenera kusankha malo omwe okwatirana amakonda kupita nawo asanakwatirane. Kwa iwo, iyi idzakhala nthawi yokumbukira nthawi izo pamene iwo anali okondana kwambiri wina ndi mzake ndipo ubale wawo unayamba kukula;
- mphatso ndi manja anu. Pano mungaphatikizepo malingaliro anu mokwanira. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mphatsoyi ikuimira mphamvu ya mgwirizano wa banja komanso mgwirizano wa okwatirana.
Malingaliro abwino a mphatso za chikondwerero cha ukwatiwo amapezeka pamasitolo a pa intaneti, ndikugawana malingaliro anu ndikukambirana mphatso zabwino zomwe mungathe pa webusaiti yathu. Chinthu chachikulu, patsiku lopereka mphatso kwa tsiku lachikwati kwa anzanu, uwauzeni kuchokera pansi pamtima chophika chabwino - ndiye mphatso idzapereka zosangalatsa zambiri.