Kukondwerera ukwati wa thonje, abambowo amakumbukira zochitika za chaka chapitacho, pamene ali pansi pa March wa Mendelssohn ndipo akufuula "Zowawa!", Adalonjeza kukondana moyo wawo wonse. Chaka choyamba chokhala limodzi ndi chovuta kwambiri. Zingathe kufaniziridwa, mwinamwake, ndi kukakamizidwa kwa chintz, monga maukwati nthawi zambiri amatha chifukwa cha mavuto a m'banja ndi mavuto a m'banja. Kuwona mwambo, mamembala onse a m'banja amayesera kupereka mphatso yapachiyambi ku ukwati wamakono. Mkazi, kukondweretsa mwamuna wake, amagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro ake onse, ndipo nthawi zina chipiriro ndi chipiriro.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani kwa chaka chaukwati cha ukwati?
Masiku ano n'zotheka, monga kale, kupereka mwamuna wake khati la thonje. Koma nthawi zambiri mphatso imasinthidwa, kusiya maziko ake okha - nsalu. Nkhaniyi imapereka mwayi wopanda malire wa malingaliro, ndikusandutsa zopangidwa ndi zokometsera zokhazokha. Ndipo kulumikiza kwa phukusi kumapangitsa chidwi chanu kwa okondedwa anu.
Nthawi zambiri mphatso kwa mwamuna wake imathandizidwa ndi zizindikiro za chikondi, kapena iye mwini amakhala chizindikiro ichi. Msolo wamba mu mawonekedwe a mtima ukhoza kunena zambiri za momwe munthu akumvera. Mphatso yangwiro idzakhala ngakhale T-sheti, ngati muikongoletsa ndi chithunzi, chithunzi kapena zolemba. Posachedwapa, nsalu zamakompyuta zakhala zotchuka kwambiri. Chithunzi cha wokondedwa, cholembedwa pa nsalu, sichimusiya iye wosayanjanitsika.
Zophiphiritsira zopangidwa ndi nsalu zopangidwa ndi manja nthawi zina zimakhala makadi a banja. Kawirikawiri simunawaonepo ogulitsa nyumba omwe ali ndi mayina odabwitsa kapena ojambula zithunzi kapena zidole, zomwe zimakhala ndi mphamvu zowononga m'nyumba.
Ndikhulupirire kuti, mwamuna sangakhalebe wosayanjanitsika ngati mphatso yake pa ukwati wa thonje idzakhala yosakumbukika chakudya chamadzulo, chomwe chidzagwirizana ndi nsalu yatsopano ya nsalu.
Mphatso ndi manja ake
Ngati simukudziwa zomwe mungapereke kwa mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha ukwati wa thonje, koma mukhale ndi talente yodabwitsa yokometsera, kusoka kapena kupangira nsalu, mugwiritseni ntchito izi ndikumupatsa chipewa chofunda kapena chofiira. Khati yonyezimira idzawoneka ngati yapachiyambi. Tangoganizirani momwe munthu wokondwerera mpira wachangu amasangalalira, ngati iwe mwini umamupangira mtolo wa mpira ndi chizindikiro cha timu yake yomwe amamukonda kapena mpira wotchuka. Koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chisamaliro ndi chikondi chimene mumapereka kwa wina ndi mzake.