Zimakhulupirira kuti munthu angathe kudziwa zambiri za mtundu wake wokonda, mwachitsanzo, pali mwayi wophunzira za makhalidwe, khalidwe ndi zokonda. Zizindikiro zomwe zinalipo zinapangidwa ndi akatswiri mumunda uno, ndipo zotsatira zake zinayesedwa kwa anthu osiyanasiyana kangapo. Mtoto wofiira umaimira chilakolako, chikondi , mphamvu ndi mphamvu.
Kodi tanthauzo lofiira limatanthauza chiyani?
Zimakhulupirira kuti anthu amene amasankha mtundu wofiira m'moyo wawo amaonekera ndi kulimbitsa mtima kwawo. Iwo ali ndi mphamvu zochuluka, ndipo amakhala ochezeka, koma amakhala opsya mtima.
Kodi zofiira m'maganizo zimatanthauza chiyani:
- Amuna amene amasankha mtundu uwu ndi okonda komanso okonda kwambiri. Zimakhala zothandiza ndipo nthawi zambiri zimasonyeza ntchito yawo. Amuna amenewo ndi atsogoleri enieni.
- Akazi omwe amakonda mithunzi yonse yofiira, ali okwiya kwambiri. Ndikoyenera kuzindikira momwe iwo akumvera komanso osakondwera. Pakati pa akaziwa, ambiri amatsenga osadziwika. Okonda ofiira amafuna kuti iwo omwe amawazungulira azipembedza.
- Ngati munthu akukwiyitsidwa ndi mtundu wofiira, ndiye kuti ali ndi zovuta zambiri. Iye ndi ophweka kwambiri kukhala yekha, kupeŵa mikangano ndi mikangano yambiri.
- Kupeza mtundu wofiira kumatanthauza zovala, ndiyenera kunena kuti anthu amene amasankha zovala izi amakhala okhutira ndipo nthawi zina amadzikonda. Samasamala za maganizo a ena.
- Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti mtundu wofiira umaimira moto ndi kuphulika kwa maganizo, choncho sikuvomerezeka kuti tigwiritse ntchito kwa anthu osakhazikika psyche, chifukwa izi zingayambitse kupsa mtima kosadziwika.
- Ku makhalidwe oipa a okonda ofiira, mukhoza kuphatikiza kuuma ndi chizoloŵezi cha chiwawa. Ndichifukwa chake akatswiri samalimbikitsa kutengeka ndi mtundu umodzi, kotero kuti mithunzi ina yamtendere imapanga mgwirizano.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za zotsatira za mtundu wofiira pa thanzi. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti zimalimbikitsa chisangalalo ndi mantha ndipo zimayambitsa zochita zokhazikika. Mtoto wofiira umathandiza kuonjezera chipiriro ndi kuyankha kwa thupi. Ngati munthu nthawi zambiri amakhala wofiira nthawi zambiri, kutopa kungabwere. Mu mtundu wamatenda, wofiira amagwiritsidwa ntchito pochiza matenda, ndipo amathandizanso kuchepetsa ululu.
Makolo ambiri amasangalala ndi zomwe zimatanthauza pamene ana amakonda ofiira. Ngati mwana wanu amasankha mtundu umenewu, ndiye kuti ali ndi vutoli. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti mwanayo ayenera kukhala ndi chilakolako chabwino.
Kodi mtundu wofiira umatanthauza chiyani mu Orthodoxy?
Mtoto wofiira umaimira chikondi kwa Mulungu ndi munthu. Mu Orthodoxy, umagwirizanitsidwa ndi mwazi umene Yesu adakhetsa pofuna chipulumutso cha anthu, komanso adafera ofera omwe adayamba kuvutika ndi chikhulupiriro cha Orthodox. Pamene ansembe avala zovala zofiira, izi ziyenera kuchitika pa Paskha . Ansembe amavala zovala zotere pa tsiku la kuuka kwa Khristu komanso mkati mwa masiku 40 pambuyo pa chikondwererochi. Ngakhale zobvala zoterezi zingakhale
Kodi wamatsenga wofiira ndi matsenga amatanthauzanji?
Mtundu wofiira ndi chizindikiro cha mphamvu zamphamvu ndi zosiyana. Gwiritsani ntchito kuchita miyambo yomwe ikufuna kukopa mphamvu ya amulungu kapena kulanga chosalungama. Makandulo a zofiira amagwiritsidwa ntchito mu miyambo yomwe imathandiza kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo, koma ngati ali ndi zolinga zabwino. Zimakhalanso zikhumbo zofunikira mumatsenga, kotero ngati mukufuna kupanga chikopa kuti mutengeko theka lina, onetsetsani kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zofiira pa izi. Shamans ndi ena odzipereka amalimbikitsa makandulo ofiira owala pa Lachiwiri.