Ndikuyamba, mwina, ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Buku loti "Kulota silovulaza" linabweretsedwa kwa ine mwachindunji, panthawi imeneyo, pamene kuli koyenera kupanga kusankha: kupita patsogolo, kupondaponda kwa nthawi yaitali ndikudziwika bwino, kapena kuyambiranso, ndikuyesa chinthu chomwe ndinkalota koma sindinkafuna kuchita. Bukuli ndi limene linathandiza kuti muiwale za tsankho, komanso kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro kuti muyambe kukhala momwe mukufunira, mosasamala kanthu momwe achibale anu ndi achibale anu amachitira. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri makolo amafuna kuti tisakhale ndi zomwe tikufuna. Kuyambira tili mwana, tauzidwa kuti maloto athu ndi ovuta, ndipo tikuyenera kuchita "ntchito", "zoopsa," mmaganizo awo. Koma inu mukhoza mosavuta kukhala moyo wa wina.
Bukhu la "Kulota sili lovulaza," wolemba Barbara Barbara, limakupangitsani kuyang'ana mafunso onsewa kuchokera kumbali inayo. Wolemba amakhulupirira kuti zomwe tikufuna ndizo zomwe timafunikira, ndipo palibe china chilichonse. Zikuwoneka - zosavuta, chifukwa chirichonse chiri chomveka. Koma ine ndikutsimikiza sikuti aliyense wa ife amachita izi. Pambuyo pake, si aliyense wa ife amene amadzuka m'mawa uliwonse, akusangalala tsiku latsopano, ndipo si aliyense amene amakonda zomwe amachita tsiku ndi tsiku. Kotero, ndi nthawi yoti musinthe chinachake, musamawope china chatsopano, koma yesani kuzindikira maloto anu okondedwa.
M'mabuku a bukuli, mlembiyo akulongosola mwatsatanetsatane mmene mungaphunzire kuti musamachite manyazi ndi maloto anu, koma kuti muwalemekeze. Ndipotu, loto lofunika kwambiri limasonyeza kuti ndife enieni, liri ndi chidziwitso chodziŵa kuti ndife ndani komanso omwe tingathe kukhala m'tsogolo.
Bukhuli linandithandiza kumvetsetsa momwe ndingakwaniritsire maloto anga, momwe ndingakwaniritsire zolinga zanga, komanso ndi chithandizo chake, potsiriza ndinatsimikiza za mphamvu zanga. Ndikukhulupirira kuti bukhuli liwathandiza anthu ambiri kupeza matalente awo obisika, ndikuthandizani kupanga kusintha kwenikweni pamoyo wawo kuti ukhale wabwino! Ndikupangira kuwerenga kwa aliyense, mosasamala za msinkhu, kugonana, ndi chipembedzo!
Andrew, woyang'anira wokhutira