Kuyambira kale, anthu adagwirizanitsa zosiyana ndi wina ndi mzake, zomwe zinakhala maziko a chikhulupiliro. Mchere wodzaza, mfoloko yakugwa ndi zowonongeka mbale, izi zonse ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ndikofunika kudziwa zomwe mungathe kuswa mumagulu, chifukwa pali matembenuzidwe osiyanasiyana. Kuyambira kalelo, pamene mbale idagwa pansi ndikusweka, anthu amati "Mwamwayi!", Kaya ikugwira ntchito ndi chikho, tsopano fufuzani.
Chotsani - phulani mugugomo
Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsera zomwe mbaleyo yapangidwa. Ngati chikho cha phala chinathyoledwa, ndiye kuti chimaoneka ngati chisangalalo cha chimwemwe . Chikho chagalasi chagalasi ndi chizindikiro cha kuyamba kwa nthawi yovuta m'moyo wa banja, monga galasi ndi chizindikiro cha chidaliro chomwe chatha.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuphwanya mug mu ntchito kapena kunyumba:
- Ngati mbale zathyoledwa ndi mbuye, ndiye kuti ayenera kuyembekezera nthawi yosangalatsa, ndipo, zing'onozing'ono zidutswazo, zikhale zosangalatsa kwambiri.
- Ngati chikho chimathyola munthu m'nyumba ya wina, ndiye kuti pali chiopsezo chotsutsana kwambiri ndi eni ake.
- Ngati mutaphwanya mugog osamalidwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wopanda pake, ndiye chizindikiro chimati ukwatiwo uli pafupi. Theka lachiwiri liri pafupi kwambiri ndipo chinthu chachikulu sichiphonya chikondi.
- Mayi wina adathyola chikho chodzaza madzi - ichi ndi chiwonetsero chachikulu chakumenyana , komwe anthu ambiri amavutika.
- Mkazi akathyola mugulu wa mwamuna wake, zikutanthauza kuti akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi mkazi wina.
Ndibwino kuti mumvetsetse chifukwa chake munthu sayenera kumwera mumgulu wosweka, chifukwa nthawi zambiri kuphwanya malamulo otere sikungakhale bwino. Kuyambira kalelo, akukhulupirira kuti kugwiritsa ntchito mbale zowonongeka, munthu amabweretsa mavuto, komanso matenda. Zimakhulupirira kuti pakangoyamba pa kapu kumaphatikizapo zoipa, zomwe zimachokera posachedwa.