Kawirikawiri pamasiku a maholide amayi amamva zofuna za chisangalalo cha amai. Koma palibe zofunikira zokhuza chisangalalo cha amai. Pakadali pano, kugonana kwabwino kumakhala njira ina: akhoza kudzipereka yekha kwa banja, ntchito, chilengedwe, sayansi, kapena luso. Chisankho chirichonse chopatsa kukhutira ndi kukhumba kwa moyo chidzakhala bwino.
Zowonjezera chimwemwe chenicheni cha akazi:
- Chimwemwe chachikazi chachikazi ndi chovuta kulingalira popanda munthu. Chifukwa chosowa chachikulu cha mkazi m'chikondi. Pofuna kumvetsa ubwino wake, mkazi amafunika kumverera chifundo ndi chikhumbo cha munthu ndipo chikondi chofanana chimamuululira mkazi mphamvu zonse ndi moyo wake wonse.
- Kwa ambiri, banja ndilo momwe chisangalalo cha akazi chiriri. Momwemo, iyi ndi selo lathunthu ndi logwirizana la anthu: ndi mwamuna wake ndi ana, komwe amamukonda, kuyembekezera, kumvetsa, momwe kuli chikondi ndi mtendere, kuseka kwa ana kumveka. Kaya akhoza kulenga banja lotero limadalira kwathunthu. Ngati banja silikuwonjezera, ndiye kuti mumakhala wosangalala mukamafuna mwana komanso munthu wamba, amene angamupatse chikondi.
- Kukhala ndi moyo ndi chinthu china chokhalira osangalala achikazi. Zikuwoneka pamene pali nyumba yabwino pomwe munthu akufuna kubwerera, moyo wabwino, pali chithandizo kwa munthu wamphamvu yemwe angathe kutenga chisankho cha nkhani zofunika payekha.
- Chimwemwe chophweka chachikazi chingakhale pa ntchito. Azimayi amalondawa amatenga zodabwitsa kuchokera ku ntchito zawo. Ndipo izi zikhoza kumveka - chimwemwe chawo muntchito, chimene sichikanakana.
- Chimwemwe cha kanthaŵi kochepa chikhoza kukhala zinthu zosavuta, kukula maluwa, kupita ku mafilimu, masewera, kusangalala ndi banja, ndi masewera a ana ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimadzaza moyo ndikupereka chisangalalo chenicheni kwa mkazi. Ndipo ndi tsiku lamtengo wapatali bwanji la chilimwe kuti tithawe kuchoka kuntchito kuti tiziyenda mu chilengedwe ndi anzathu. Nthawi izi za chisangalalo chosakhalitsa ndizodabwitsa.
- Mayi amatha kumupeza wokondwa mwachilengedwe. Amapereka mpata woti adziwe, amadzaza moyo ndi tanthauzo. Mkazi amasangalala kwambiri ndi mwayi wopanga, kudzifotokozera yekha.
Zinsinsi za Akazi Achimwemwe:
- Chinsinsi chiri mu maganizo anu kwa moyo. Iwe ndiwe wokondwa monga iwe uliri. Kuti muchite izi, musalole kuti muthe kugonjetsa maganizo olakwika, khalani amodzi. Tangoganizani kuti zonse zili bwino kwa inu, musiyeni chisangalalo chanu sichidalira nyengo, bwana ndi malipiro. Mukuzikonza nokha ndi malingaliro anu, osati ndi zochokera kunja. Pamene chimwemwe chanu sichidalira chirichonse, mulibe chifukwa chokhumudwitsa. Tsoka lirilonse liri losalongosoka, pali ena omwe ali oipitsitsa kwambiri tsopano kuposa inu, kumbukirani izi. Muzochitika zonse, funani zabwino.
- Chinsinsi chachiwiri cha momwe mungapezere chimwemwe chachikazi ndikuti ndi chimwemwe chenicheni pakuyenda. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumathandiza kuchepetsa nkhawa komanso kusintha maganizo, ndibwino kuwapatsa osachepera theka la ola patsiku.
- Zakudya zabwino zimakhudzanso moyo wabwino. Ngati n'kotheka, pewani zakudya zolimbitsa thupi: mowa, khofi, zakudya zomwe zili ndi shuga wambiri, zowonjezera, kudya nyemba, mbewu, zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba.
- Chinsinsi cha chimwemwe cha amai ndi mphamvu ya nthawi. Titha kutenga moyo wabwino kwambiri - kutenga zabwino kuchokera mphindi iliyonse. Zikumbukiro zimapangidwa ndi nthawi yapadera. Kusonkhanitsa nthawi izi - mumasungunula chimwemwe chanu. Moyo m'nthaŵi yamakono umathetsa chisoni, umathetsa nkhawa ndi nkhawa.
- Ngati mukufuna chisangalalo chachikazi - khalani ndi zolinga. Iwo amapereka cholinga kwa moyo.
Pamene pali cholinga, munthu sakhala wovutika, nthawi zovuta pamoyo zimakhala zosavuta. - Chinsinsi cha chisangalalo cha mkazi ndi chisangalalo. Kuseka kumachepetsa nkhawa, kumawonjezera mphamvu zamaganizo.
- Mphamvu yopatsa ndi kuthandiza ena. Kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa wina - timadzipeza tokha.
- Kuyanjana ndi anthu. Aliyense amafunikira ena. Tsekani maubwenzi zimapangitsa nthawi zovuta kukhala zosavuta, ndipo nthawi zabwino zimakhala zosangalatsa.
Khalani okondwa, ndipo aliyense ayankhe chisangalalo chomwe iye akusowa, ndi chiyani.