Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mayi weniweni akhoza kubadwa kokha. Koma kwenikweni, luso lokhala ilo lapangidwa kwa zaka. Kuti mukhale dona, nkofunika kuti musamaganizire mozama malamulo oyambirira a khalidwe ndi njira yofanana ya moyo, komanso kuti muwatsatire kwathunthu.
Makhalidwe a dona uyu
Dona weniweni sangalekerere ngakhale mtsikana yemwe ali ndi chizoloƔezi cholera bwino nthawi zina angakwanitse. Kodi mayi weniweni ayenera kukhala wotani? Nazi mfundo zazikulu khumi za khalidwe:
- Mkaziyo sangalole kuti azifunafuna chingamu ndi kulumbirira mawu achipongwe.
- Mkaziyo samakonza zochitika zake pagulu. Adzawonekera pagulu m'njira yosatsutsika.
- Mkaziyo samalola kuti maganizo ake atengeke, nthawi zonse amakhala wodzidalira komanso wodzidalira.
- Mkaziyo samakambirana ndi anthu ena, samadzitamandira pazokwaniritsa zake ndipo salankhula za kugonana pakati pa anthu.
- Mayiyo samalankhulana ndi anthu, malingana ndi udindo wawo. Kulumikizana ali wofanana ndi aliyense.
- Mkaziyo amadziwika ndi nthawi yake, kotero ubale "wa usiku umodzi" suli wake.
- Mkaziyo amalankhula pang'ono, ndipo amamvetsera zambiri. Sadzilola yekha mawu okweza.
- Mkaziyo amachita ndi mwamuna wake mwaulemu, popanda kumuchitira nsanje . Amamulolera mosavuta kulankhula ndi anzake.
- Mkaziyo sali ndi chidwi ndi malipiro a munthuyo pa tsiku loyamba.
- Mkaziyo nthawizonse amakhala wonyada, koma osati mopitirira muyeso. Iye samamupangira yekhayekha.
Lamulo la mayi uyu limaphatikizansopo maonekedwe a mtsikanayo:
- Masiketi ochepa kwambiri ndi neckline ya mkazi ndi taboo. Lili ndi kukoma kokoma.
- Kusuta ndi chinthu chosagwirizana ndi cha mayi weniweni.
- Kuyenda kwa azimayi nthawi zonse kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosavuta.
- Mwamsanga si kwa mayi. Nthawi zonse amachita zonse mosamala komanso moyenera, koma mwa nthawi yake.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti malamulo a dona uyu amatha kulembedwa, ndiye izi siziri choncho. Mkazi-wophunzira, iye ndi mbuye wosadziwika wa mnyumba yake. Kuwonjezera apo, iye amadziwa bwino luso komanso amakonda kukwera. Iye ndi nyimbo - amakonda nyimbo ndi kuvina zabwino. Monga mkazi weniweni, dona weniweni ali ndi munda wamaluwa wokongola ndikumusamalira.
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