Ife kuyambira kuyambira ubwana tinagwiritsidwa ntchito, kuti pa March, 8 ndilo tchuthi la amayi. Ndipo ngakhale kuti tsopano anaonekera pa kalendala "Tsiku la Amayi", pa March 8 tidakali ndi mphatso ndi chisangalalo pa holide, choyamba, kwa amayi anga. Pokhapokha musanachite izi, muyenera kusankha chomwe chingapereke amayi anu pa March 8. Vuto, ndithudi, silophweka, koma solvable.
Ife kuyambira kuyambira ubwana tinagwiritsidwa ntchito, kuti pa March, 8 ndilo tchuthi la amayi. Ndipo ngakhale kuti tsopano anaonekera pa kalendala "Tsiku la Amayi", pa March 8 tidakali ndi mphatso ndi chisangalalo pa holide, choyamba, kwa amayi anga. Pokhapokha musanachite izi, muyenera kusankha chomwe chingapereke amayi anu pa March 8. Vuto, ndithudi, silophweka, koma solvable. Njira yosavuta ndikukonzekera kukafunsanso mafunso (kapena funsani mwachikondi yemwe ali pafupi) za zomwe amayi angafune kuti adzalandire tsiku la March 8. Zoona, njira iyi si yoyenera kwa aliyense, wina samayesetsa kufunsa mafunso ngati amenewa, ndipo wina amatsimikiza kuti mphatsoyo iyenera kudabwitsa, ndiyeno ndikuvutika, kuyesa kudabwitsa. Chabwino, chabwino, simukufuna kuti moyo wanu ukhale wosalira zambiri, musati muziganiza. Choyamba, ndikuyenera kukumbukira kuti pa March 8, ngakhale kuti tchuthi la amayi athu okondedwa ndi okondedwa, koma mtengo (mtengo wofanana) mphatso zopereka sizolandiridwa, ndipo, ndithudi, palibe amene amawayembekezera. Kotero, kuti mupeze zinthu zamtengo wapatali, zokongola ndi zopanda phindu, sizingakhale zomveka, kotero mutangosonyeza kusamvetsetsa kwathunthu kwa amayi anu ndi nkhawa zake. Mwa njira, za chisamaliro, mphatso yabwino kwa amayi anga idzakhala yothandiza pokonzekera phwando la chakudya pa March 8, yokhala ndi maluwa omwe mumawakonda kwambiri. Ndipo, ndithudi, kupezeka kwanu pa chakudya chamadzulo, chifukwa chinthu chachikulu chomwe amayi anu akuchifuna ndicho chidwi chathu, chimene timaiwala nthaŵi zambiri kuiwala, kupotoza mozungulira zinthu za tsiku ndi tsiku za moyo wachikulire.
Chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro ndi zabwino, koma kodi mukufuna kupereka zina zakuthupi? Palibe kanthu kosavuta, lingaliro la mphatso lidzafika nthawi yomweyo m'maganizo mwanu, mukangokumbukira zokonda ndi zokonda za amayi anu. Wokondedwa akuusa moyo chifukwa cha chikondi cha buku lokongola mwinamwake adzakondwera ndi bukuli (mwinamwake osati mmodzi) wa wolemba wokondedwa, koma mdzukuluyo adzasangalala kulandira makopewo ndi uphungu wa wamaluwa wamaluwa kapena mababu a maluwa okongola.
Kumbukirani, tili mwana tinaganiza kuti amayi athu ndi ochepetsetsa komanso okongola kwambiri. Inde, palibe chomwe chasintha, amayi, monga poyamba, koma amene anena kuti simungamuthandize kumverera kokongola kwambiri? Mukhoza kuchichita ngati mphatso, zinthu zina zokongola, zina kuchokera ku zodzoladzola kuti muzisamalire nokha kapena kalata yoyendera salon yokongola. Kapena mwinamwake amayi anu, mayiyo akugwira ntchito mwakhama ndipo wasangalatsidwa mwakumubweretsa iye momwe angakhalire bwino m'chilimwe? Mwa ichi chikhumbo chake, mungathandizenso popereka chinachake kuchokera ku zipangizo zamasewera ku makalasi apanyumba kapena kulembetsa ku chipinda chozizira. Ndipo ngati mupita ku chipinda cholimbitsa thupi ndipo muyambe kuyenda nawo, ndiye kuti musapereke mphatso yabwinoko - bwanji, nthawi yotereyo kukuwonani nthawi zambiri.
Amaonedwa kuti ndi machitidwe oipa kuti apatse amayi ziwiya zophikira kukhitchini pa March 8, iwo amati, motero mudzamulola mayiyo kuti amve kuti ndi wophika yekha. Koma ngati amayi anu amakonda kuphika ndipo kwa iye palibe chokoma kuposa kukondweretsa banja lake ndi chida china chodyera, ndiye mphatso yochokera mndandandawu idzalandidwa bwino koposa.
Kodi palibe njira yogula chinthu china choposa mtengo wa bokosila ndi maluwa ochepa? Ndizobwino, mukumbukira kuunika kokondweretsa amayi anu pamene inu, monga mwana, mumanyamula zithunzi zake ndi mitundu yowuma ngati mphatso. Mukukumbukira? Ndi zopambana, molondola? Nanga nchiyani chomwe chimakulepheretsani kubwezeretsa zochitika za ana awo? Sikoyenera kukoka chinachake, ngakhale ngati pali luso ndi chikhumbo, chonde chonde. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kuphika keke ya kubadwa ndi mawu ofunda, perekani kwa munthu wokondedwa komanso wokondedwa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi.