Ubwenzi wachikazi ndi lingaliro lolimba komanso losatha. Zosangalatsa nthawi zina munthu woterewa amasaka osati pa maholide, komanso monga choncho. Lingaliro la mphatso kwa bwenzi lingadze nthawi iliyonse: paulendo wamakono kapena pa gombe.
Malingaliro Anu
Kodi mungapereke chibwenzi chani? Pachifukwa ichi, funso la mphatsoyo liyenera kuchiritsidwa mosamala kwambiri. Mphatso yabwino kwambiri ndi yomwe iye mwiniyo angakufunseni. Mkazi mu nthawi ino ndi wopanda nzeru kwambiri, simungathe kudandaula, choncho ndi bwino kusiya maganizo a zodabwitsa ndikufunsa zomwe akufuna.
Kudikirira mwanayo kumapangitsa mtsikana aliyense wokongola. Amayamba kuchita zambiri, amagula mwana wake, ndipo amadandaula za kilogalamu iliyonse yomwe wapeza. Kotero, funso la zomwe mungapatse mnzanu wapakati, lidzatha pokhakha, ngati mutayang'ana kwa kanthawi. Zitha kukhala:
- Zodzoladzola za amayi apakati (zachirengedwe);
- nsalu zabwino kwambiri zopangidwa ndi nsalu zachilengedwe;
- chinachake mu chipinda cha ana kapena dowry kwa mwana (ngati mayi wam'tsogolo akugula kale);
- zipangizo zochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi (fitball, rug);
- kulembera ku dziwe kapena ku maphunziro kwa amayi apakati.
Malingaliro okondweretsa abwenzi apamtima apamtima akuwonekera pamene simukuganizira ngakhale pang'ono. Nthawi zina akangokhala mu cafesi, akulankhula, iye mwiniyo amasonyeza zomwe akufuna kuti alandire tsiku lake lobadwa kapena Chaka Chatsopano, mwachitsanzo, kuchokera kwa chibwenzi chake. Inu mukhoza kungosintha izo, kupanga zina zosiyana. Maganizo otero angakhale:
- T-sheti yabwino;
- chithunzi;
- thumba lachikwama , lamba kapena thumba ;
- foni yamakono ya chithunzi;
- chikumbutso.
Kawirikawiri, msungwana ndi wosavuta kusangalatsa, ngati mwakhala naye pa nthawi yayitali ndikudziwa zofuna zake ndi zomwe amakonda. Mphatso yanji yomwe mungapereke kwa bwenzi lanu lapamtima imadalira zomwe mumakonda komanso khalidwe lanu. Koma sizikukhudza za msinkhu wake. Lolani mphatso zanu kukhala zosaiwalika ndi zoyambirira!