Polimbana ndi kuperekedwa kwa anthu omwe ankaonedwa kuti ndi abwenzi, sitingafike kwaokha kwa nthawi yaitali. Kuwidwa mtima, mantha, ludzu la chilungamo - zonsezi zimangokhalira kukhumudwa. Koma nthawi zina mumakhala wokonzeka kupita patsogolo. Ndiyeno mudzayang'anizana ndi funsoli: momwe mungapulumutsire kuperekedwa kwa mnzanu. Ndipo chinthu china chowonjezera: kodi ndi koyenera kuti mumkhululukire iye kapena bala lidzangokhala pansi pa basamu la kubwezera ...
Kodi ndiyenera kukhululukira kusakhulupirika?
Apa, maganizo amasiyana. Wina amaganiza kuti bwenzi, ngati sapper, akhoza kulakwitsa kamodzi. "Diso ndi diso" - molingana ndi Chipangano Chakale. Munthu wotereyo amakhumudwa ndi chilankhulochi: osakhululukidwa. Ena amalola anthu (komanso anzawo, pakati pa ena) kukhala ndi ufulu kulakwitsa.
Choyamba, kukhululukira kwathu kumadalira kukula kwa kusakhulupirika. Ganizirani za momwe zingakuvutitseni patatha mwezi kapena chaka. Yang'anirani izo moyenera. Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tiganizire, kodi wina angapulumutse kuperekedwa kwa bwenzi ngati simukufuna kuzindikira njira ngati kukhululukira?
Kukhululukira - sikukutanthauza kuti kulimbikitsa mnzanu kuti asakhulupirire. Izi zikutanthauza kumasula nokha kuchotsa poyizoni ndi zoipa. Ngati kukhumudwa kunali kolimba kwambiri, simungathe kuyankhulana ndi wogulitsa. Komabe, ndibwino kukhululukirana, ngati kungotenga zolemetsa za wina ndikupanda chilungamo payekha. Kukhululukidwa kudzakuthandizani nonse kukumbukira kusakhulupirika, komanso kuti musalole kuti chochitikachi chikhale chosakhulupilira pa kudzipereka ndi ubwenzi weniweni. Ngati munthu atembenuka kukhala wachinyengo, ndiye kuti chisangalalo chanu (chosatheka popanda kukhululukidwa mtima) chidzakhala chilango chabwino kwambiri chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwake. Choncho mulole moyo wanu wangwiro ukhale yankho lalikulu ku funso la momwe mungakhululukire mnzanu chifukwa chachinyengo .
Kodi mungaiwale bwanji kusakhulupirika?
Kuiwala kusakhulupirika, muyenera kuganizira chinthu chimodzi. Zomwe - chifukwa chake zinachitika mmoyo wanu. Kutenga udindo wanu pa zonse zomwe zimachitika, mumadzipatsa mphamvu. Mphamvu yakukhala mogwirizana ndi wekha. Choncho, yesetsani kuthetsa maganizo ndikudzifunsa nokha funsolo: kodi mukuchita chiyani?
Mwinamwake simudzikonda nokha kuti muzindikire kuti ndinu woyenera chikondi chenicheni komanso ubwenzi ndi ena? Mwina munkachita mantha mwachinsinsi kuti chikondi chochuluka chitha kutha pomupereka mnzanu? Ndipo, mwinamwake inu nokha munaperekedwa, ndipo chikumbumtima chanu chinali kufunafuna chilango chifukwa cha zomwe simungathe kuzikhululukira? Komabe, opandukira samangowoneka mmoyo wathu pachabe. Nthawi zina ndi chizindikiro chakuti muyenera kudziyang'ana nokha ndikupeza mayankho a mafunso abwino. Mukazindikira kuti palibe chimene chimachitika mwadzidzidzi, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mukhululukireni anzanu, ndipo pambali pake mudzadziletsa nokha kuti musabwereze mtsogolo muno.