M'mabuku ambiri a maloto, makwerero amawoneka ngati chizindikiro cha moyo wabwino ndi mwayi. Koma kutanthauzira masomphenyawo, kumangotanthauza tanthauzo la chinthu chimodzi, sikutheka. Choncho, kuti mumvetse zomwe wina akufuna kukwera pamasitepe, munthu ayenera kukumbukira mosamala chiwembu cha masomphenya ndikuwunika.
N'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti ndikukwera sitimayo?
Monga lamulo, ngati m'masomphenya munthu amatha kugonjetsa masitepe mosavuta komanso akukwera pamwamba payekha , izi zikutanthauza kuti m'moyo zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa zidzachitika posachedwapa zomwe zingathandize kuti ntchito ndi kukula.
Ngati kukwera si kophweka, ndipo pali zopinga zambiri pa njira, ndiye tiyenera kuyembekezera mkhalidwe wosasangalatsa, umene udzathetsedwe mwa njira yabwino. Yembekezerani mphatso za chiwonongeko pambuyo pa masomphenya amenewa sizothandiza, tiyenera kudzikonzekeretsa kuti tigonjetse zopinga, ndizo maloto okwera pamwamba pa masitepe mosavuta. Kuyembekeza kokha mwayi ulibe.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti ndikukwera pamwamba ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Ngati munthu apita kukwera makwerero ndi bwenzi kapena wachibale, chithandizo chosayembekezereka chikhoza kuyembekezeka mu zovuta kapena zovuta. Koma izi zimalonjezedwa ndi masomphenya omwe munthu akukwera payekha. Mukakhala wokakamizika kuthandiza mnzako mnzako, maloto adzatanthauza kuti m'moyo uno munthu adzalandira chithandizo ndi uphungu posachedwa.
Ngati mumalota kuti mumakwera masitepe ndi wakufayo? muyenera kupita ku tchalitchi kapena m'manda ndikukumbukira. Masomphenyawa nthawi zambiri amasonyeza kuti munthu waiwala za tsiku lofunika kwambiri zokhudzana ndi izi, kapena sasamala za manda, kuposa kulakwitsa iwo omwe ali kale m'dziko lina.