Zimakhala zovuta kupeza mtsikana yemwe safuna kukomana ndi mkazi wake komanso kukwatiwa bwino. Mwatsoka, koma wina akhoza kudzitamandira ndi moyo weniweni waumwini. Ndi chifukwa chake atsikana akuyang'ana njira zosiyanasiyana zokopa chikondi . Ambiri akukhudzidwa ndi chithunzi chomwe mungapemphere kuti mukhale pabanja komanso kuti mukambirane ndi munthu wabwino. Amakhulupirira kuti ndiko kupempha moona mtima kwa Mphamvu Zapamwamba zomwe zimathandiza kusintha zinthu kukhala bwino.
Ndani ayenera kupempherera ukwati ndi moyo waumwini?
Kuyambira kalekale anthu ankafunafuna mapemphero a Mulungu pofunafuna nsembe. Palinso maholide ambiri a tchalitchi omwe amagwirizana ndi ukwati ndi matchmaking, mwachitsanzo, Mtengo wa Khirisimasi, Petrov tsiku, ndi zina zotero.
Poyankhula za woyera mtima kupempherera ukwati, choyamba ndikofunikira kutchula amayi a Mulungu, chifukwa kwa iye kuti kwa zaka zoposa khumi akazi akhala akulimbana ndi mavuto awo, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, akulandira thandizo. Njira yamphamvu kwambiri, yothandizira kupeza chimwemwe, ndi "Unfading Color". Pamaso pa chithunzi ichi, asungwana akufunsidwa kuwathandiza kusankha bwino pa theka lachiwiri. Okhulupirira amanena kuti ndi amayi a Mulungu omwe amathandiza kuthetsa mavuto a m'banja.
Ngati mukufuna chidwi ndi chithunzi china chomwe mungapempherere kuti mukwatirane, ndiye kuti muyenera kumvetsera chithunzi cha Xenia wa Petersburg. Pali zitsimikizo zambiri zomwe zimasonyeza kuti mapemphero asanakhale chizindikiro cha woyera uyu amathandizira kupeza chikondi. Nicholas Wodabwitsa, yemwe amamva onse amene akusowa thandizo, angathandize kukonzekera moyo waumwini. Otsatira a chisangalalo cha banja ndikwati ndi a Saint Febronia ndi Peter, chifukwa ubale wawo umatengedwa ngati chitsanzo cha chikondi ndi kuleza mtima. Okhulupirira a Orthodox amatembenuzidwanso
Kodi mungapemphere bwanji ukwati kuti Mulungu amve?
Choyamba, ndibwino kuti mupite ku tchalitchi ndikuyang'ana Mphamvu Zapamwamba mu pemphero kuti mulimbikitse chikhulupiriro chanu, tsitsani maganizo anu ndikuchotsa machimo anu. Kusiya, ngati palibe chiwonetsero cha pakhomo, ndiye chichotseni mu sitolo ya tchalitchi. Mungathe kuyankhula ndi woyera mu mau anu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ayenera kukhala oona mtima ndikuchoka pamtima. Kuwonjezera apo, ndikofunika kukhulupirira kuti zomwe mukufunazi zidzakhala zenizeni. Mukhozanso kugwiritsa ntchito mauthenga apemphero apadera. Ndikofunika kupempha thandizo, koma osati kufunsa.