Chikondi sichimagwirizana nthawi zonse. Pakati pa anthu awiri pangakhale mikangano, kutsutsana mmaganizo pa moyo, mavuto oyankhulana, m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Zonsezi zazing'ono, koma zamphamvu kwambiri, minga zingathe kuwononga ngakhale ubale weniweni ndi wowoneka bwino. Pemphani Mulungu kuti akuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi ubale wovuta komanso wofunika, yambani ndi pemphero lophweka kwambiri la chikondi cha mtsikana - pemphero la Yesu lapadziko lonse:
"Ambuye Yesu Khristu, Mwana wa Mulungu, ndichitireni ine chifundo wochimwa."
Pempheroli likhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito mukamakangana ndi wokondedwa (kapena wokondedwa), ndiye Mulungu adzakuthandizani kuti muphunzire kumvetsetsa, ndipo sichidzapangitsa kuti mukhale ndi vuto. Ngakhale kupemphera kwafupikitsa, mphamvu yake ndi yayikulu, koma chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro chosasamala komanso kumvetsetsa ndi kuzindikira zomwe zanenedwa, kuchokera ku kuya kwa moyo.
Pemphero kuti abwerere chikondi cha mkazi
Ngati mwaphonya nthawi yomwe mungathe kukonza chinachake, muyanjanitseni, phunzirani kumvetsetsa ndikuletsa mkwiyo wanu, ndipo mkazi wanu amamva kuti njira yokhayo ndiyo kuchoka, mukusowa thandizo pamlingo wosiyana. Ngati ndi funso la momwe mungabwezere chikondi cha mkazi mothandizidwa ndi pemphero, werengani mawu awa:
Pemphero limalembedwa kuchokera ku nkhandwe yoyamba limodzi ndi yambiri, monga cholinga chowerengera limodzi, pamene inu ndi mkazi wanu simunachoke, ndipo onse awiri amvetsetsa kuti mwanjira ina muyenera kusunga ubalewu. Ngati muwerenga pemphero ili kuti mukondane ndi kukwatirana nokha, yang'anani nthawi zonse pakumva kuti ndinu wolakwa pamaso pa mkazi wanu komanso pa kulapa kwanu komwe mudachimwa. Lembani mwachikondi ndi chikondi kwa mkazi wanu ndipo yesani mphamvu kuti mumutumizire malingaliro anu, kukumbukira zinthu zabwino zomwe munagwirizana nazo.