Lingaliro la mphatso ya mnzanu liyenera kukhala loyambirira, losazolowereka ndi lodabwitsa kwa iye. Zaka zambiri za msungwana zili ngati sitepe yatsopano ya moyo. Amazindikira tsikuli movutikira komanso mochuluka kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu mu tsiku lino ndi chithandizo cha okondedwa, nkhope zosangalatsa za abwenzi ndi kuseka kwa anthu oyandikira pafupi.
Mphatso kwa chibwenzi kwa munthu wamkulu sikuti ikhale yodabwitsa chabe, komanso iyenso ikumbukira. Iyenera kusungidwa ndikukumbutsidwa tsiku lino kwa nthawi yaitali. Mwina sizingakhale zooneka, koma zosangalatsa. Ndiyeno zochitika zochokera ku zaka 18 zidzakumbukiridwa.
Kodi sitiyenera kupatsa chiyani?
Kusankha bwenzi kwa zaka 18, ndi bwino kutaya mwamsanga mapepala, banal postcards, envelopu ndi ndalama , wosewera mpira. Komanso, musaganize kuti chibwenzi chanu chingafune kubwereza ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kuisisita. Ngakhale mukuganiza kuti akusowa chinachake chokonzekera maonekedwe ake, simukuyenera kuwalimbikitsa pa tsiku la kubadwa kwake. Ndi bwino kuchita izi mtsogolo, polemba, mwachitsanzo, ndi iye mu holo.
Musatengeke kwambiri ndi malingaliro a mafilimu akumadzulo, pamene munthu wamkulu akukonzekera kukhala wamkulu. Msungwana wanu angakhale wopanda nkhawa, safuna kuchoka m'nyumba ndipo mwina akhoza kuchita zolakwika mwadodometsa .
Sankhani mphatso yodzisangalatsa
Inde, ngati mwakhala nthawi yayitali ndi bwenzi ndi munthu, ndiye kuti mumadziwa zozizwitsa, zosangalatsa komanso zokonda zake. Ndiponso, posankha mphatso kwa msungwana wa zaka 18, ndi bwino kuganizira khalidwe la mtsikana wa kubadwa. Kuti mumudabwe ndi kupanga tsiku lanu lakubadwa kukhala labwino kwambiri, ndibwino kulipira chidwi chapadera pa mphatso yomwe idzakwaniritsidwe ndi khalidwe la mtsikanayo.
Ngati amakonda kukonda kwambiri, ganizirani za kuthawa pabuloni, kudumpha kuchoka pa mlatho (kuwomba-kulumpha) kapena kuyesa galimoto yamakono. Lingaliro lochititsa chidwi la mphatso likhoza kuwuluka pamphepo yamphepo. N'zotheka kuchoka ndi kukumbukira kamera pambuyo pa zaka zambiri, monga momwe mudakondwerera unyamata.
Ngati bwenzi lanu limakonda moyo wamtendere ndi woyerekeza, perekani zokondweretsa, zachikhalidwe, koma zachilendo. Kukwera mahatchi, kulembetsa ku saloni yamtengo wapatali yotikita minofu, kupukuta tsitsi kapena njira ina yomwe ingakhale yosangalatsa kwa iye (mwinamwake iye mwini wakuuzani za izi, kumbukirani).
Mphatso yangwiro kwa mnzanu amene amakonda kuwerenga ndi kalata yogula mabuku ena mu sitolo yaikulu. Kapena, ngati mukudziwa zomwe sichipezeka kale, mungathe kugula nokha. Mwinamwake idzakhala yosawerengeka kawirikawiri ya encyclopedia kapena wofufuza watsopano posachedwapa wa wolemba wake wokondedwa.
Wokonda nyimbo akhoza kugula zipangizo zamtengo wapatali zomwe amavomerezera, kulipira maphunziro pang'ono kuti aphunzire kuimba kapena kusewera chida chokonda (ngati chibwenzicho chidawotheka, koma sichikanatha).
Ngati mnzanuyo, amene amakondwerera munthu wamkulu, amavina kuvina, kenaka perekani kaphunzitsi ku kalasi ya masukulu pamasewero amakono.
Maganizo okondweretsa abwenzi apamtima akhoza kubisala m'masitolo a mafashoni. Zidzakhala zosavuta kuti musankhe mphatso ya realistista. Masiku ano, masitolo ambiri amapereka zilembo zazing'ono, zomwe zimakulolani kugula zomwe mumakonda muzitolo. Mukhoza kuchita chimodzimodzi ndi zonunkhira ndi zodzoladzola. Choyambirira chopereka mphatso chingakhale motere: kugula kachikwama, ndipo mkati mwake kuika makadi angapo m'masitolo.
Chinthu chachikulu kwa zaka 18 ndicho kudabwitsa chibwenzi, chonde ndikusangalala. Ngati mphatsoyo imasankhidwa ndi moyo ndikuganizira zofuna za mtsikana wakubadwa, ndiye kuti mutha kupeza 100%.