Matsenga oyera sangagwiritsidwe ntchito kuti wina awononge, chifukwa zowononga zoipa pali matsenga akuda. Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tiwone zomwe zimatsenga za chikondi mu matsenga oyera kwenikweni. Izi sizinthu zachikondi, koma zokhazokha. Zolinga zoterezi sizingathe kumangirizidwa kwa munthu yemwe sakumakukondani. Ndi chithandizo chawo, mungathe kuwonjezereka, chikondi cha nthawi zina pamene ubale uyenera kuchiritsidwa, nthawi zovuta kwa banja, pambuyo pa zaka zambiri zaukwati.
Chiwonetsero chilichonse cha matsenga chifukwa cha chikondi chiri ndi tanthauzo lake lopatulika, lomwe silingasweke. Pazochita mwambo uliwonse wamatsenga woyera chifukwa cha chikondi, wina ayambe ndi pemphero "Atate Wathu".
Sungani ndi malingaliro anu, khalani ndi chidwi pa nkhani ya chikondi ndikuwuzani mphamvu zakumwamba zomwe mukufuna. Tangoganizani kuti muli nacho kale. Tsekani maso anu ndipo muwone chimwemwe chanu chofanana, chikondi chanu, kumvetsetsana, chikhalidwe cha ubale. Tsopano inu mukhoza kuyamba mwambo.
Uzani pa chikondi ndi makandulo
Kulemba kwa matsenga kumagwiritsidwa ntchito kulimbitsa chikondi cha mnyamata, komanso kuonetsetsa kuti ndi wokhulupirika kwa inu. Kwa mwambowu, mufunikira makandulo atatu ndi nsalu yatsopano ya nsalu yoyera.
Ikani makandulo pa nsalu ya tebulo, awunike. Werengani ndondomeko ya chiwembu katatu, ndipo mutatha kuyika kandulo imodzi. Pamene uwazimitsa onse, tanizani makandulo pamodzi ndi chingwe, awuniyaninso kachiwiri ndi kuwasiya atenthe.
"O, Ambuye Wamuyaya, ndimapemphera ndi chikondi kwa Inu. Pangani khoma lalitali, pangani dzenje lakuya, mpanda osasunthika, osakayikira. Kuzama - ma fathoms atatu a dziko lapansi, kutalika - kutalika kwake, ndi kukhumba kwakukulu kosasunthika. Tsekani, O Ambuye, ndikulepheretseni, kuti mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) asandisiye, mnzanga wina sanandipeze. Tsekani izo ndikuzitenga nokha, kuthandizani, Ambuye, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina). Mpaka mutsegule uwu watsegulidwa, mpaka mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) sadzaleka kundikonda. Chinsinsi, lolo, lirime. Amen. "