Mowa, nyimbo yowawa komanso bwenzi la atsikana - zonsezi ndi zofunikira kuti mtsikanayo apulumuke ndi kusiyana naye. Nanga amuna amatha bwanji kupatukana ndipo amachitadi zomwezo? Mwina ndizogonana zokongola zomwe zimalira, kukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pamodzi, kumenyana ndi "kumunyozetsa" komanso kumvetsera abwenzi akunena "monga muli ndi mazana ena." Tiyeni tiwone momwe magawo athu opanda ungwiro aliri, ndipo ngati kuthetsa ubale kumakhudza iwo komanso ife.
Amuna amapeza bwanji kusiyana?
Choyamba, ndizofunikira kudziwa ngati amuna ambiri akulekanitsidwa , kapena kuti kusiyana kwa zibwenzi chifukwa chokwatira mitala ndi chinthu chachibadwa, ndi chiyani chomwe sichiyenera kulipidwa? Ngati tikukamba za zochitika zowonjezereka, ndiye kuti sizingatheke kuti mwamuna athetse kusonkhana kwa msungwana ndi mtsikana, buku losavuta silikutanthauza kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wamphamvu, choncho kusiyana kwake sikungamveke ngati chinthu chokhumudwitsa. Koma ngati ndi funso la ubale wa nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti zosiyana ndizo. Ngakhale kulimbikitsidwa kwina, magawo omwe ali ndi theka lathu sali osiyana ndi onse, makamaka iwo adzakhala pachiyambi cha kusiyana kwa mtsikana. Ndiye kudzikuza kovulazidwa kudzagwiranso ntchito, mwamunayo ayenera kukhala woyamba pa chirichonse, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti iye akanati amuuze "chabwino" kwa iye.
Popeza tapeza kuti amuna akulekanitsa, akutsalira kuti amvetse momwe amachitira, komanso kuti dzikoli likutha nthawi yaitali motani. Kulephera kufotokoza momveka bwino mmene akumvera zimapangitsa kuti munthu asagwiritse ntchito njira zochepetsera akazi kuti apulumuke misozi. Oimira chigawo cholimba cha umunthu ali ndi njira zina zingapo.
- Pezani bwenzi laling'ono. Izi zimamuthandiza mwamuna kutsimikizira kudzikuza kwake ndikudziwonetsera yekha kuti ali wokondweretsa, ndipo chinthu chonsecho chinali mwa iye amene sakanatha kuyamikira chisangalalo chake. Inde, nthawi zambiri, malemba amenewa samakhala nthawi yaitali, ndipo munthuyo amayamba kusintha zilakolako, monga magolovesi. Ngakhale, nthawi zina, pamapeto pake, pamakhala chiyanjano chokhala ndi nthawi yaitali, choncho munthuyo amakhala akuyang'ana mnzanu woyenera. Panthawi imeneyo, kuyesayesa kukupangidwanso kuti adziyanjanenso ndi akale amkazi ndi abwenzi, omwe amakonda kwambiri olemba akazi.
- Njira inanso, ndi kusaka komwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi olemba "sopo ma opaleshoni", ndi kuyesayesa kumwa mowa. Chinthu china n'chakuti nthawi zonse sizimawoneka ngati mufilimu - munthu wosasunthira mu chovala choledzeretsa, nyumba yakuda, botolo la vodka ndi zakudya zotentha. Wakale wanu akhoza kuyang'ana bwino, ndipo ngakhale kuyenda kuzungulira mabungwe, ndizomwe zida zake zowonjezereka zidzangokhala "kuledzera ndi kuiwala".
- Aliyense amadziwa njira yabwino yoiwala mavuto - kusintha mkhalidwe. Ngati munthu ali wolemera, ndiye kuti akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi, atachoka ku malowa, kumene kuli kotheka kuphatikiza njira zitatu izi zili pamwambapa.
- Njira ina yodziwika kuti amuna apulumuke kupatukana ndi kusiya mitu yawo muzochita zowonetsera, nthawi zambiri ndi masewera a pakompyuta. Ndipo nthawi zambiri izi
Chizoloŵezi chimakhala chizoloŵezi chenicheni, mwamuna amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka kwambiri ndi ndalama pa chenicheni chenicheni.
Ponena za nthawi ya chidziwitso, chirichonse chimadalira munthu ndi kuya kwake kwa momwe amamvera. Amuna ena amakonza pa chilakolako chawo, amatsata moyo wake kwa zaka zambiri, akutsatira omwe kale anali nawo mu malo. Ena, atatentha kwachepera mwezi, amasonkhana ndi mzimu ndikuyesera kusintha moyo wawo. Ena amangosiya akazi okhulupilira, kuyamba kuwagwiritsa ntchito kuti akwaniritse zosowa zawo.