Ntchito ya conjugal ndi lingaliro, choyamba, makhalidwe. Amayimilira ndi mfundo zofunika kwambiri monga kukhulupirika, kulumikizana, kukhulupirika, ntchito ndi ulemu. Zonsezi zikuyimira banja lolimba komanso kugwirizana kwa okwatirana.
Ngongole yokwatirana ikhoza kuganiziridwa mu magawo awiri. Choyamba ndi malo ochokera kumbali. Atatha kulemba ubale mu ofesi yolembera, banjali liri ndi ufulu ndi maudindo, lokhazikitsidwa ndi malamulo ovomerezeka. Iwo ali ofanana kwambiri ndi tanthawuzo la mtundu wa ntchito, malo okhala, ndi kusunga kukhulupirika, ndi chithandizo ndi kuthandizana wina ndi mzake. Mu mgwirizano wapamtima, palibe maudindo omwe ali ovomerezeka mwalamulo. Chokhachokha chingakhale zochitika zina, mwachitsanzo, kupotoka kwa kugonana, komwe wachiwiri sagwirizana.
Apa chilichonse chimadalira makhalidwe ndi maphunziro a mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kugonana nokha sikukwanira kusunga mgwirizano m'banja, nkofunika kuyamikira makhalidwe abwino a chiyanjano.
Pali mfundo yachiwiri - makhalidwe. Kugonana mogwirizana ndi chikondi - uwu ndi udindo wa conjugal, kukhazikitsa kusunga ubale wa banja. Pankhaniyi, padzakhala kugonana ndi uzimu mogwirizana.
Mfundo zosavuta
Ndi ntchito yowonongeka ya banja, kuthekera kwa kutha kwa banja lanu, kutuluka kusakhutira ndi moyo wapamtima, mwayi wonyengerera, umakhala wochepa. Ndikofunika kuti muphunzire bwino mnzanuyo, kukwanitsa kukwaniritsa zokhumba zake zogonana. Palinso kufunikira koyanjana pamaganizo, mwauzimu. Kulemekezana, chikondi, kuwona mtima - zonse izi ziyenera kukhala maziko a moyo wanu wa banja.
Kulephera kukwaniritsa ntchito ya m'banja - mwatsoka, mabanja ambiri amakumana ndi vutoli pambuyo poti chilakolako chikuchepa . Komanso, khalidwe la moyo wa banja limakhudzidwa ndi mbali zambiri. Izi ndizogwirizana ndi makolo, ana omwe amachititsa kusokoneza ubwenzi wanu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, ntchito ya banja pa nthawi. Zonsezi zimapanga chikhalidwe chogonana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, chomwe chimakhudza kwambiri ubale wanu.
"Tsambani msana wanu!" Kapena zomwe anthu akufuna
Ntchito ya mkazi wa wokwatiwa. Tiyeni tiyesetse kuzindikira zomwe ziri ndi momwe mkazi ayenera kukhalira. Mkazi ndi amene amachititsa mwamuna wake, amamuuza njira zogwirira ntchito ndi zikhumbo zake, kudalira nzeru zake komanso nzeru zake. Pambuyo pake, kwa ife, amalemekeza ophunzira ndi zokongola, ndipo atsikana abwino okha, amatha kuchita zambiri. Ndipo ngati m'moyo wa banja munthu saulula ubwino wake, mkaziyo safuna kukhala naye nthawi ndi kudzipereka yekha kwa iye. Mofananamo, tikhoza kunena za khalidwe la mkazi poyerekeza ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wake.
Mayi ayenera kukumbukira kuti munthu ayenera kukhala wokhutira nthawi zonse. Kwa ichi muyenera kuyesa kukhala
Kuphatikizana, tingathe kuganiza kuti ngongole yaukwati, yokhudzana ndi kugonana, siyowoneka ngati yosavuta ngati ikuyang'ana pang'onopang'ono. Kawirikawiri pali mabanja omwe akhala pamodzi kwa chaka chimodzi, osakhala limodzi kwa zaka makumi angapo, sakanatha kumvetsetsa kufunikira kwa ntchito ya m'banja. Ndicho chifukwa chake nkofunika kuyamba poyamba kukhazikitsa maziko olimba a banja lanu komanso kusamalira wokondedwa wanu.