Mawu akuti "mwamuna akufuna kukwatiwa" chifukwa cha zambiri zowonongeka, chifukwa nthawi zambiri malingaliro amphamvu okhudza kugonana ndi oipa. Komabe, komabe, tsiku lina ndi nthawi yoti mwamuna akwatirane, ndipo zimangofanana ndi nthawi yomwe iye akuzindikira kuti iye apeza yemwe akusewera pa zingwe za moyo wake nyimbo yokoma yotchedwa "chikondi."
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna akukwatirana?
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna akuyenera kuti akwatire okha enieni okha, koma ife amai timaganiza kuti ali okwatirana kuti akhale ndi okondedwa anu moyo wanu wonse, ndi kulera ana palimodzi, ndiyeno zidzukulu. Ngakhale kuti F. Nietzsche kamodzi adanena kuti choyambirira cha mkazi kwa mimba ndi mimba.
Amuna amakwatiwa ndi akazi otani?
Poyamba, amuna amasankha atsikana omwe amawakonda kukhala akazi awo, ndipo "kuphatikiza" kwawo ndi makhalidwe awa:
- kukwanitsa kuphika mokoma;
- thanzi labwino;
- khalidwe lokondweretsa;
- chisamaliro ndi kukoma mtima.
Kodi mungamvetse bwanji kuti mwamuna akufuna kukwatiwa?
Pamene munthu ayamba kukayikira wokondedwa za ukwati wa maloto ake, kuti adziwe za chiwerengero chofunikila cha ana komanso ngati amawakonda amayi ake, ndiye kuti, "akutha".
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna akukwatirana ndi kukonda ena?
Izi zimachitika, mwatsoka, osati kwa amuna okha. Zonsezi, chifukwa chiyanjano ndi kumverera kwa chikondi ndi zosiyana siyana, ndipo zofunikira kwa wokondedwa sizili zofanana ndi wokondedwa. Mkwatibwi ayenera kuphika bwino, kusunga ulesi m'nyumba ndikulerera ana, ndipo zonse zomwe zimafunikanso pa chikondi ndicho basi. Nthawi zina izi ndi zokwanira kukonda. Kotero, iwo amakwatira a singano, koma amakonda iwo amene amakonda, chifukwa inu simungakhoze kulamulira mtima wanu.
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna akukwatira anamwali?
Khalani oyamba kulikonse - chida chachikulu cha anthu. Ndithudi aliyense ali ndi chisangalalo choipa pamene wina ali ndi chinthu cha wina, choncho, mwamuna aliyense amakondwera ngati iye yekha ndiye "mwini" ndi "wopambana" wa mkazi wake. Koma tsopano maukwati oterewa ndi osowa,
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna amakwatira chidutswa?
Ziphuphu mwina zimakwatirana ndi amuna omwe amakonda kuonerera mafilimu: iwo, ngati azimayi awa, amadziwa bwanji "misozi". Inde, ndi mkazi wokwanira ndi wokonda iwe sumakhumudwa: ali ndi chinachake choyenera kuyankhula, ali ndi udindo wake komanso khalidwe lochititsa chidwi, lomwe limaphatikizapo "peppercorns" ku chiyanjano.