Lingaliro la ukwati ndi banja

Ndani ali gawo lathu lachikhalidwe - banja kapena banja? Ndani mwa iwo adatsimikizira kuti kubereka kwabwino kwazaka mazana ambiri? Kodi iwo ndi chifukwa chiyani? Zonsezi ndi zina zotere zidzafotokozedwa m'nkhaniyi.

Lingaliro ndi chofunikira cha banja ndi banja

Maganizo awiri ofananawa amagwiritsidwa ntchito kutanthauza tanthawuzo lomwelo. Iwo ali pafupi kwambiri, koma pali kusiyana pakati pa banja ndi banja. Nawa ena mwa iwo:

• banja lawo linayambira kale, ndipo chikwati chinayamba kulembetsa kale chitukuko cha mabungwe a boma;
• Mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya banja imadziwika kuti ndi anthu osiyanasiyana komanso nthawi zosiyanasiyana, ndipo ukwati, monga lamulo, umatanthawuzira maziko a chiyanjano cha amuna ndi akazi: amuna ndi akazi;
• Banja nthawi zambiri limakhala maphunziro opambana komanso omveka bwino, koma ukwati ndi nthawi ndi malamulo. Ngakhale pakhoza kukhala chodabwitsa: bambo yemwe wasiya banja lake anaphwanya ubwenzi wake ndi mwanayo, koma, kuchokera ku lamulo laukwati, ubalewu ukupitiriza kugwira ntchito.

Koma kupatukana kotereku ndikofunika. Chowonadi ndi chakuti kutanthauzira kotsiriza kwa malingaliro awa sikudalipo, ndipo iwo amagwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza monga mawu ofanana, omwe samachita chifukwa chotsutsa. Komanso m'nkhaniyi tidzawagwiritsa ntchito monga mawu ofanana.

Ntchito zazikulu za banja ndi ukwati:

1. Kubereka. Chinthu chachikulu cha chitukuko cha anthu - anthu atsopano - amapangidwa m'mabanja.
2. Zamalonda. Banja ndilo gawo laling'ono la chuma cha dziko, ndikuwongolera bajeti, omwe ndi wopanga ndi wogula.
3. Maphunziro. Ukwati ukhoza kutchedwa sukulu momwe akulu ndi achinyamata amaphunzirira kukhalira limodzi, kulandira ndi kuchita zomwe akumana nazo m'dera lino.

Mafomu, kapena zitsanzo za banja ndi mabanja

Mgwirizano wa mwamuna ndi mkazi ukhoza kukhala ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana, malingana ndi kukula kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso kulemera kwa ziphunzitso zachipembedzo mmenemo. Choncho, banja kapena banja lingakhale:

1. Ukwati wa chikhalidwe - wotsimikiziridwa ndi mabungwe apadziko ndi / kapena achipembedzo, olimbikitsidwa ndi anthu. Zomwe zimakhazikitsidwa mwalamulo.
2. Ukwati Wachibadwidwe - maubwenzi onse monga m'banja lachikhalidwe, koma popanda kulembedwa. Posachedwa, ambiri akuyandikira banja lachikhalidwe pankhani za chitetezo cha azimayi.
3. Ukwati Wanthawi Yathu - Wamndende kwa nthawi yochepa, pambuyo pake akuonedwa kuti akusungunuka. Amapezeka m'mayiko ena achi Islam.
4. Ukwati wa chikhalidwe ndi mtundu wa nkhaniyi pamene okwatirana ali oposa awiri.
5. Mkwatibwi wa alendo - njira yamakono, zotsatira za chikhumbo chochoka pambali yokhazikika, kuchotsa nthawi zonse zovuta monga moyo. Anzawo amakhala m'madera osiyanasiyana, nthawi ndi nthawi amakumana.
6. Ukwati waulere - pamene abwenzi amavomereza kusiya wina ndi mnzake kukhala ndi ubale weniweni kunja kwa banja.

Monga maziko ndi ukwati, ndipo banja limatengedwa ngati okwatirana, komanso achibale ena omwe ali ndi chibwenzi ichi pachiyanjano. M'mayiko ambiri pali zizindikiro zapadera za banja. Kawirikawiri ziphunzitso zoyambirira za banja lachimanga maubwenzi amakhazikitsidwa ndi chipembedzo.

Posachedwapa, maubwenzi awo omwe akuyesetsa kuti azigwirizana mu banja komanso m'banja, pali sayansi komanso akatswiri onse omwe ali ndi maphunziro apadera. Ndi zokhudza psychology ya banja ndi banja. Cholinga chachikulu cha maganizo amenewa ndi chakuti kugwirizanitsa kumatha kusintha chifukwa cha ntchito kwa onse awiri. Katswiri wa zamaganizo a banja angathandize kuthana ndi mavuto a banja ndikwati.

Ukwati wamakono ndi banja ndizo zinthu zabwino kwambiri kuti zitheke. Sukulu imalekerera chikhumbo cha anthu kusankha zosakhala zachikhalidwe za gulu la banja. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza - ufulu wochuluka pakufunafuna chimwemwe chenicheni.