"Mphete ya ukwati sizokongoletsera," ikuimbidwa mu nyimbo imodzi yotchuka. Chizindikiro ichi cha chikondi ndi moyo wa banja chimatanthauza tanthauzo lopatulika. Funso la mtundu wotani umene ukugwedezeka ndi mphete yothandizira ilibe yankho losavomerezeka, chifukwa m'dziko lililonse pali miyambo. Amakhulupirira kuti miyambo yosinthanitsa mphete ndi yachipembedzo, ngakhale kuti ikugwirizana kwambiri ndi bungwe la boma la ukwati.
Sidziwika kuti mwambo wa kuvala mphete zaukwati unawonekera, koma pali lingaliro lomwe Aigupto anali oyamba kuwatsinthanitsa. Iwo ankanyamula izo kumanja kwake kumanzere pa chala chosatchulidwe. Malinga ndi nthano, ndilo mphete yomwe ili "kugwirizana" kwa mtima ndi mitsempha, ndipo ikuyimira chikondi.
Mu Rus Rus, okwatiranawo ankasinthanso mphete, ndipo amatha kupangidwa kuchokera ku chitsulo kapena ku nthambi za mitengo. Chovalacho chilibe mapeto ndipo palibe chiyambi, kotero abambo amtundu watsopano amakhulupirira kuti ngati tsiku la ukwati lidzakondana, ndiye kuti chikondi chidzakhala chosatha.
Ndi mbali iti yomwe amavalira mphete yothandizira mwamuna?
Monga tanenera pamwambapa, funso la mtundu wa dzanja lomwe lavala ndi mphete yaukwati limadalira dziko ndipo miyambo inavomerezedwa mmenemo. Mwachitsanzo, Asilavo amavala chizindikiro ichi cha chikondi pa chala cha dzanja lamanja. Malamulo omwewo amagwiranso ntchito kwa anthu a ku Greece, Poland ndi Germany.
Ndipo kumanzere (kumbali ya mphete) mphete ya ukwati imabedwa ku Sweden, Mexico, America ndi France.
Kusankhidwa kwa dzanja kumayikidwa, poyamba, ndi chipembedzo. M'dera la Russia ndi Ukraine, Chikristu chafala. Ndipo m'mayiko ambiri akumadzulo, Chikatolika ndi Chiprotestanti zimakula.
Mwa njira, zosangalatsa ndizokuti Aarmenia - ndipo amatsatira kwambiri chipembedzo chachikhristu, avala mphete yothandizira kumanja kwawo. Mfundo iyi imalimbikitsidwa ndikuti ndi kudzera kumanzere komwe njira yopita kumtima ikuyandikira. Kotero, mphamvu ya chikondi idzawonetsetsa kwambiri pa nthawi yovuta mu chiyanjano.
Mu chipembedzo cha Orthodox, dzanja lamanja ndilo "lofunika" - labatizidwa, malumbiro a kukhulupirika ndi zina zambiri. Mayiko amenewo omwe mphete yaukwati imabedwa kumanzere, ganizirani dzanja lamanzere kukhala lofunika kwambiri, chifukwa liri pafupi kwambiri ndi mtima. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pambuyo pa ukwati, okwatiranawo "amapatsa mitima" wina ndi mzake.
Palinso malingaliro akuti popeza anthu ambiri ali ndi dzanja lamanja lomwe "likugwira ntchito" ndipo amafika pamaso awo nthawi zambiri, ena amazindikira mofulumira kuti munthu alibe ufulu, ndipo izi zidzakupulumutsani ku zoyesayesa zosafunika kuti mudziwe bwino.
Kodi atsikana amavala mphete yotani?
Okonda ali ndi chikhalidwe chimodzi. Mnyamata akamapereka chikondwerero cha wokondedwa, amamupatsa ndi mphete yothandizira. Ku Russia ndi ku Ukraine, amai amavala mphete yothandizira pa dzanja lomwelo lamanja, pa chala chosayankhulidwa. Pambuyo paukwati, pamodzi ndi ukwatiwo, mukhoza kungovala.
Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, nthawi zambiri anthu omwe kale anali okwatirana amachotsa mphetezo. Ngati mmodzi wa okwatirana amwalira, mkazi wamasiye kapena womwalirayo amakhala ndi mphete yothandizana nayo - kumakhulupirira kuti mwa njirayi amalemekeza kukumbukira ndikusunga chikondi.
N'zoona kuti munthu aliyense amasankha mphete yothandizira, chifukwa okonda amaika matanthauzo awo pazinthu. Ndipo nkofunika kukumbukira kuti palibe mphete pazembedza kapena sitimayi mu pasipoti komanso chilembero chaukwati amatha kusunga ubale ndikupulumutsa moyo wa banja. Choncho, tifunikira kugwirizanitsa maubwenzi athu nthawi zonse, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - palimodzi, palimodzi, chifukwa ukwati sali miyambo, miyambo komanso ukwati wokongola.