Maloto akhoza kunyamula mbiri yabwino komanso yoipa. Kuti timvetse tanthauzo la chiwembucho, tifunika kufotokozera zonse molondola, tilingalirani zonse zomwe timaphunzira komanso zomwe timamva .
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti ndikukumbatira?
Kugonana ndi mdani kunenera kukangana mu moyo weniweni, koma simungathe kudandaula, chifukwa kuyambira pachiyambi mumakhala wopambana. Maloto omwe ndimayenera kugwirizanitsa ndi bwana ndi ndondomeko kuti ndi nthawi yopitilirapo kuchitapo kanthu, monga momwe polojekitiyi idzapindulire. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene wolota amakumana ndi wachibale, ndi chizindikiro choipa chochenjeza za kupezeka kwa mikangano. Kulumikiza kwa mwanayo mu loto, ndiye, zenizeni, mutha kudzimasula nokha kuchokera ku zochitika zomwe mukukumana nazo. Kukumbatira ndi galu ndi chizindikiro cha ubwenzi wolimba.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti mukumukumbatira munthu?
Kwa atsikana osakwatira, kukumbatirana mwachidwi ndi mwamuna ndi chiwonetsero cha msonkhano wokondweretsa. Ngati munakakamiza munthu wachilendo kumbali yanu, zikutanthauza kuti mwamsanga muyenera kupita paulendo wofunikira kapena ulendo wamalonda.
Bwanji ndikulota zakumangirira munthu wakufa?
Maloto oterewa amasonyeza malingaliro anu pa umoyo wanu. Snyknik akuwonetsa kuti nkhawa zomwe ziliko zikhoza kukhala zomveka. Kuwona munthu wakufayo ndi kumagwira naye ndi chizindikiro chabwino, kusonyeza kupezeka kwa mwayi.
Nchifukwa chiyani mumalota ndikukambirana ndi mnyamata?
Chiwembu chimenecho ndi chizindikiro chabwino, chosonyeza kupititsa patsogolo ntchitoyi. Ngati munthu wolota walandiridwa ndi mnyamata, ndiye kuti mungadalire moona mtima komanso mwachikondi. Mmodzi mwa mabuku a malotowo amakhulupirira kuti kuvomereza ndi mnyamata kumasonyeza kukhulupilira kwakukulu.
Ndichifukwa ninji mumalota ndikukambirana ndi munthu wakale?
Ngati mtsikana akuwona chikhomo ndi yemwe kale anali wokonda - ichi ndi chizindikiro choyipa, chosonyeza kugwirizana kwakukulu ndi zakale. Ndi nthawi yoyika madontho, kuyang'ana pozungulira ndikuyang'ana patsogolo.