Kusokonezeka mu moyo weniweni kumabweretsa mavuto ambiri ndipo ndi munthu amene amangogwirizanitsa zinthu zokhumudwitsa zokha. Chochititsa chidwi, mu maloto, zizindikirozi, mosiyana, ndi zabwino ndipo zikufanizira kupambana kwawo ndi kupambana kwawo mu moyo uliwonse. Kuti mupeze zambiri zolondola pakulemba, ganizirani zina za chiwembucho.
Kodi maloto amalota bwanji?
Kugona, kumene iwe umatukula mutu wako ndikupeza kuti chiwombankhanga ndi kunyada, ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chimalosera zozizwitsa zosiyanasiyana, mwinamwake mudzalandira mwayi watsopano kapena mudzapatsidwa malipiro. Kuwonera pagalasi ndi kuwona tsitsi kumutu ndi chiwonetsero cha kusintha komwe kudzachitike posachedwa. Wamasulira wotanthauzira maloto, omwe maloto a malingaliro pamutu wa munthu wina, amatanthauzira, ngati chizindikiro chokometsera, chosonyeza kuti mungathe kulimbana ndi misampha yonse ya adani. Ngakhale maloto oterowo akulosera kulandira thandizo lazinthu kuchokera kwa wokondedwa. Ngati simungathe kuchotsa vutoli, muyenera kuyembekezera kupambana , ngakhale mutapanga zolakwa zambiri.
M'modzi mwa mabuku olota maloto muli zokhudzana ndi zomwe maloto okhudzana ndi malingaliro amasonyeza kuti akufuna kuchoka kudziko lozungulira. Ngati mumalota za tsitsi limene mukufuna kuti likhalepo, ndiye kuti mutha kulandira phindu lalikulu posachedwa. Maloto omwe wina amakuseketsani chifukwa cha kutayika kumalonjeza nthawi yosangalatsa mu bwalo la abwenzi apamtima. Posachedwapa mudzakhala pachimake cha kutchuka kwanu. Ngati mukuyesera kuthetsa vutoli - izi ndizomwe mukuwona kuti ndalama zimatanthauza zambiri, ndipo izi zingayambitse mavuto aakulu. Kwa msungwana, maloto kumene akudutsa chifukwa cha kuthamanga, akulosera kuti amathera nthawi mu gulu la anthu abwino. Maloto omwe inu mumapita kwa dokotala kuti muchotse vutoli,
Kodi malotowo amatha bwanji?
Kuthamanga kwakukulu ndi chizindikiro cha chuma. Kuti muwone momwe ntchentche zimathamanga, ndiye kuti mungathe kudalira kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chofunika kwambiri. Maloto omwe mumapenya mabala a mapewa pamapewa anu ndi chizindikiro cha kupeza zodabwitsa.
Nchifukwa chiyani mumalota malonda ambiri?
Ngati mu malotowo mutu wonse umadzaza ndi zovuta, ndiye posachedwa mukuyembekezera mavuto aakulu. Malinga ndi bukhu lina loto lotolo malotowo amalonjeza chiyanjano chatsopano cha chikondi.