Anthu ambiri m'moyo amakhala ndi maloto ndi zolinga. Ndipo chilakolako chofuna kudzisokoneza osati kuchokera ku zomwe mukufuna kulota, koma chifukwa cha kusakhutira kwachizolowezi.
Munthu aliyense kamodzi pa moyo wake anadabwa "Kodi mungapeze bwanji ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga pamoyo wanu ?", Koma ambiri sakhutira ndi yankho lopezeka, kapena, mobwerezabwereza, samayesetsa kupeza cholinga chofunika chomwe, monga chitsimikizo cha moyo, chidzakhala onetsetsani mphamvu zawo zomwe mukulimbana nazo zolephera.
Pezani malo anu m'moyo
Mu moyo, pali zinthu zomwe zimagwedeza anthu kunja kwa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, pang'onopang'ono kuwononga moyo wakale ndi nthawi zosangalatsa. Ndipo nthawi zina, pokhala wamkulu, munthu sangathe kusankha chomwe akufuna kuti apereke moyo wake. Sichitha kuwulula zomwe zili mkati ndi momwe angakhalire . Ndipo, monga mukudziwira, mwayi umenewu umapangidwa mwa munthu aliyense. Zimatengera nthawi, kuleza mtima ndi khama la munthu payekha, pomaliza kumvetsa komwe angapeze chimwemwe m'moyo.
Pamene muli ndi cholinga chachikulu cha moyo, mumamvetsetsa kuti mukulowa m'malo anu kapena muli panjira yopindulitsa.
Cholinga chimadzaza moyo ndi tanthauzo. Munthu sangakhale wosangalala popanda izo. Mutha kusunthira njira yoyenera pamene mudziwa zomwe mukufuna. Kusankha kutsogolo kwanu sikuli kovuta kwambiri, monga momwe munalili musanayambe kufunafuna chimwemwe cha moyo wanu, zomwe mukufuna kuzilandira.
Pamene mulibe chosowa mkati mwanu, koma pali munthu amene amadziwa chomwe akufuna, ndiye mumatha kupeza zolimbikitsa ngakhale nthawi zovuta kwambiri pamoyo. Inu mumatha kuyang'ana moyo mwachidwi mukakhala ndi cholinga.
Pezani njira yanu m'moyo, malangizo ofunika
M'munsimu muli malangizo omwe angakuthandizeni kusankha momwe mungapezere chifukwa cha moyo wanu, cholinga chimene mumafuna kukomana m'mawa uliwonse ndikumwetulira.
- Kumbukirani kuti cholinga chonse ndi chinthu chonse cha moyo wanu chikugwirizana ndi zomwe mumakonda kwambiri, zomwe mumakonda. Ndipotu, anthu opindulitsa kwambiri amathera nthawi yawo okha pa zomwe amakonda. Kotero, Mozart ankakonda nyimbo, Bill Gates - makompyuta, Edison - invent. Dzifunseni nokha "Kodi ndimakonda chiyani?".
- Zomwe mumachita nthawi yanu yaulere, mbali, zingagwirizane ndi luso lanu, cholinga. Mwachitsanzo, mukufuna kukoka - fufuzani izi mu "chizindikiro" china. Mukuchita chiyani mu nthawi yanu yaulere? Ndipo kodi iwo anachita chiyani ngati pali nthawi yambiri?
- Funsani funso "Kodi ndimawona chiyani nthawi zambiri?". Wosamalira tsitsi amamvetsera tsitsi, cosmetologist - ku chikopa cha khungu, kumanga-kumanga, ndi zina zotero.
- Fufuzani zofuna zanu. Kodi mumakonda mabuku kapena magazini ati? Yankho lanu lidzakhalanso chizindikiro china. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mulibe zofuna zanu, pezani. Palibe wina koma iwe ukhoza kuchita izi.
- Palibe cholinga, ndipo, motero, kulibe kudzoza kofunikira nthawi zonse. Kodi mungapeze bwanji chidwi pa moyo? Kumbukirani kuti mudauziridwa kale, zomwe zinayambitsa chiyembekezo ndi chimwemwe pamaso panu.
- Ngati mutayesetsa kupeza cholinga, chidwi cha moyo nthawi zonse chinatha, ndi nthawi yoti muphunzirepo. Uzani mavuto omwe apita "kubwereza". Musaganizirepo kale. Kumbukirani kuti mantha athu amatilepheretsa kufika
zomwe mukufuna. Choncho chotsani zomwe mukuwopa. Samalani chidziwitso ku malingaliro osaganizira. - Mukakhala kuti simungapeze cholinga chachikulu cha moyo pa gawo ili la moyo ndipo chifukwa cha ichi mumvetsetsa kuti mukudandaula, fufuzani wina yemwe ali woipitsitsa kuposa inu. Thandizani munthu uyu. Potero, inu ndi moyo wake mumasintha, ndipo nokha, pitirizani kudzidalira.
Kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense ndi wapadera. Onse apatsidwa matalente apadera. Ulesi ndi kutaya mtima kumatilepheretsa kuona izi. Khulupirirani nokha, mu mphamvu zanu komanso mukutsimikiza kuti mutha kupeza cholinga chofunika.