Munthu aliyense wolemekezeka amayesetsa kukhala wokondweretsa - kuti awoneke mdziko, ali ndi chidwi. Ndipo ife tonse ndife osiyana, ife tiri ndi chidwi ndi njira yathu yomwe. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira ndikudzibwereza nokha: "Ndine munthu, monga momwe ndilibe kwina kulikonse". Mawu osavutawa amathandiza kumvetsa kuti munthu aliyense, ndipo chidwi chake chimakhala chodziwika bwino. Aliyense wa ife ndi chuma chamtengo wapatali. Kotero tiyeni tiphunzire kukhala ndi chidwi!
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?
Kuyambira ubwana ife taphunzitsidwa kuti chidziwitso chonse chiri mu mabuku. Ndipo kukhala wochenjera ndi wokondweretsa, muyenera kuwerenga zambiri. Mwachibadwa! Koma kodi ndikwanira kuyesa kudziwa zambiri? Sizodziwika kuti kuwerenga bwino anthu kumakhala mthunzi chabe chifukwa chakuti sangathe kudzipereka okha. Zili choncho, zomwe zimakhala zosavuta kukhala moyo wa kampani.
Kodi kutanthauzanji kukhala munthu wokondweretsa?
- Khalani wokondweretsa interlocutor. Katswiri pang'ono, sangathe kuvulaza aliyense, koma kuti asatengeke - ichi ndi chofunikira :)!
- Kukhala womasuka, woona mtima. Anthu otsimikiza - kukopa chidwi.
- Khalani okonzeka kwa anzanu atsopano, poyankhulana. Yesetsani kulankhulana, musazengereze kufotokoza malingaliro anu (pambuyo pake, ndizosangalatsa)!
- Khalani ansangala, kumwetulira :). Ngati mukufuna kukondweretsa anthu ndi chidwi chawo, musaziganizire nokha. Muyenera kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi interlocutor yanu. Adzamverera ndikusangalatsanso.
- Musaope kunena zakuyamika!
- Khalani ndi chidziwitso, nthawi zonse muzilemba mawu anu.
- Ndikofunika kwambiri! Khalani okonzeka.
- Sizowonjezereka kuyankha mafunso molondola, kukhala ololera, wanzeru. Anthu omwe amadziwa momwe angakhalire bwino, adzipangire okha.
- Kwa amayi ndikofunikira kuti anthu osagonana asapangitse chidwi. Monga akunena, kukhala chinsinsi, kuti nthawizonse panali chinachake chosadziŵika, chomwe chinakopeka ndi kutentha chidwi.
- Ndikofunika kuti mukhale nokha!
Wina amakonda kukhala wodzichepetsa, osatheka; wina wamisala za atsikana okongola, otseguka. Aliyense amasankha yekha ndi kusankha yekha mtundu umene amamukonda kwambiri. Koma aliyense akhoza kukhala wachidwi ngati izi zikufunadi.
Kumene mungapeze misonkhano ndi anthu okondweretsa?
Zimadalira zomwe mukufuna. Kwa inu, munthu wokondweretsa ndi munthu amene angathandizire zokambiranazo, yemwe mungamuyankhule naye pa mutu uliwonse ndi omwe mumakonda nawo zinthu, maganizo pa zinthu. Amene akuuzani chinthu chatsopano, chosadziwika kwa inu, akufotokozedwa mosavuta. Mumaphunzira kuchokera kwa iye zochitika za chidziwitso. Ndipo kuti sadatope nawe - kudabwa.
Kuchokera pa izi zikutsatila kuti mutha kupeza anthu atsopano ndi anthu osangalatsa m'malo omwe amalumikizanitsa zofuna zanu. Ngati mukufuna kuyendayenda, pali anthu oterewa omwe ali nawo. Werengani - mulaibulaleyi, ndi zina. Anthu otchuka otchuka.
Anthu otchuka anayamba kutchuka chifukwa anali ndi chidwi. Zimapezeka kuti anthu onse otchuka ali ndi chinachake
Maonekedwe. Zindikirani kuti anthu otchuka nthawi zonse amawoneka abwino. Koma amakumana pa zovala - amakufikirani ku malingaliro. Sizingatheke kuwonetsa maonekedwe ngati munthu uyu ali wokondweretsa kapena ayi. Inde, akhoza kukukondani ndi kukhalapo kwa kulawa, komwe kumaonekera m'zovala. Koma, mwatsoka, izi zidzathetsa chidwi chonse. Pambuyo pake, mwa munthu wokondweretsa kwambiri, ndi dziko lamkati ndi malingaliro omwe ndi ofunikira kwa inu.
Aliyense wa ife adzakhala wosangalatsa, ngati malingaliro, maumboni ndi chiyambi adzawonetsa. Khalani nokha - ndinuwekha!