Ngakhale mwachibadwa kuti munthu afune kutsegula chophimba cha mtsogolo, chilakolako chimenechi sichinthu chovuta kwambiri kusiyana ndi nthawi yogwera m'chikondi . Ndi pamene ife timakonda kugwiritsa ntchito malankhulidwe kwa wokondedwa, kuphatikizapo pa runes.
Liwu lomwe liwu loti "runa" lomasuliridwa likutanthawuza "chinsinsi", kuyambira nthawi zakale zizindikirozo zinkaonedwa ngati zizindikiro zamatsenga, zidapangidwa pa mwala kapena kudula pamtengo. Anthu othamanga anali okonzeka zida ndi zinthu zapakhomo, aliyense anali ndi dzina lake ndipo aliyense anali womangidwa kwa mulungu wina, chodabwitsa, kapena chinthu chokha.
Anakhulupilira kuti aliyense wothamanga ndi wopatulika, choncho akhoza kutigwirizanitsa ndi mphamvu zoposa. MaseƔera angathenso kugwiritsidwa ntchito monga cholosera ndi kufotokoza zamatsenga, kuphatikizapo chikondi ndi maubwenzi.
Njira zoganizira za kuthawa ndizo zambiri. Ndipo kuthamangitsidwa kotereku kumakhala kotanthauzira kwambiri. M'nkhani ino, ife timalongosola njira zingapo zodziwiratu zamathamanga, malingana ndi mtundu wa kuwombeza.
Kuganiza mofulumira pa kuthawa - "Rune Odin"
Njira yowonongeka pa kugonana ndi yosavuta komanso yosavuta, koma ndi yodalirika. Mukhoza kulingalira ndi chithandizo cha rune imodzi, kuchotsa izo (mwachisawawa) kuchokera phukusi la thumba la kusungirako. Pa nthawiyi ndikofunika kukumbukira funso kapena fano la wokondedwa, ndipo panthawiyi padzatha kuthandizira molondola zomwe zikuchitika mu chiyanjano ndi wokondedwa, kuthandizira kumvetsetsa zochitika zina ndikuyankha mafunso ofunika: chikondi ndi mgwirizano pakati pa inu, ndi chomwe chiri chokhumudwitsa cha chikondi ichi. Ndikofunika kwambiri kupanga mafunso anu molondola monga momwe matsenga a runes amachitira zambiri, zomwe zikutanthawuza kuti munthu wosadziwa zambiri akhoza kutanthauzira molakwika yankho.
Kuganiza pa masewera atatu - "Funso"
Kwa ulosi uwu, uyeneranso kupanga funsolo, ndipo likhalebe m'maganizo mwako mpaka kuthamanga kuli patsogolo pako. Tulutsani timayendetsedwe kuchokera kumanja kupita kumanzere ndipo tiwawerenge mofanana momwe alili. Ngati mukuganiza pa ubalewu:
- Rune yoyamba ikuwonetsani inu mkhalidwe;
- Lachiwiri ndilo kuwonetsa chitsogozo cha zomwe mukufunikira kwa inu;
- Thupi lachitatu ndikulongosola molunjika za zomwe ziyenera kutsatila mtsogolomu.
Kuganiziranso pa ubalewu "Othamanga asanu ndi limodzi"
Zowonjezera zofunika pa ndondomekoyi sizikhala zosasintha: mumapeza nambala yofunikira ya othamanga, ndikuganizira zomwe mumakonda. Mukuwafalitsa iwo kuchokera kumanja kupita kumanzere ndikuwerenga:
- nthawi yoyamba yammbuyo, ndiko, yomwe inali pakati pa inu ndi okondedwa anu;
- chachiwiri chidzakuthandizani kumvetsa zimene akukuwonani;
- wachitatu akulosera zochitika zina;
- lachinayi likuwonetsa chifukwa chake munatembenukira ku runes;
- Wachisanu akukuuzani zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mupulumutse kapena kuyambitsanso chikondi ;
- lachisanu ndi chimodzi lidzakuwonetserani zam'tsogolo zomwe zikukuyembekezerani mutakhala kuti malamulo a chisanu chachisanu akukwaniritsidwa.
Malamulo a kuwombeza amathamangira chikondi
- zonse mu thumba lanu ziyenera kukhala masewera makumi awiri ndi anai kapena makumi awiri mphambu zisanu, zomwe zimayenera kukhala pakhomo (kapena kukumbukira);
- Tsegulani othamanga kuchokera kumanja kupita kumanzere ndi kuwawerengera mu dongosolo lomwelo;
- panthawi yamalonda, kumbukirani funso kapena fano la munthu amene maulaliki agwirizana;
- amakhulupirira kuti sizowoneka kuti ndizomwe mukuganiza kuti muli ndi chidwi (makamaka ngati mukuganiza pa maubwenzi pakati pa anthu ena), komanso kuganiza kuti chikondi chimathamanga ngati munthu wina samakayikira kanthu kena kalikonse;
- ndifunikanso kupanga mafunso anu mosavuta, chifukwa chakuti phindu lililonse silikutanthauzira limodzi, ndipo munthu wosadziƔa zambiri angaganize zolakwika.
Ndipo kumbukirani: imangoyenda mwamsanga, ndipo tsogolo liri m'manja mwanu!