Makolo ambiri amayesa kuti asakhale pamodzi ndi ana osiyana-siyana, koma ngati malo osakhalitsa amakhala ochepa, muyenera kulingalira mosamalitsa kapangidwe ka chipinda cha ana ndi mwanayo, kuti mwana aliyense akhale omasuka. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti apereke ana awo okhawo, momwe angaganizire za kugonana kwawo. Momwe izi zingachitire zidzakambidwa pansipa.
Zinyumba mkati mwa chipinda cha ana cha mnyamata ndi mtsikana
Popeza ana ali ndi kukoma kwa ana kuyambira ubwana, ndi bwino kusankha mipando mu chipinda chosagwira ntchito komanso chothandiza, komanso chokongola.
Ngati chipinda sichikulu kwambiri, mungathe kuika mabedi otchuka kwambiri masiku ano, omwe malo ogwira ntchito kapena masewerawo adzakhazikitsidwe. Popeza anyamata nthawi zambiri amatha kusewera masewera kuyambira ali aang'ono, khoma laling'ono la Sweden kapena zipangizo zina zamasewera zikhoza kuikidwa pansi pa kama. Atsikana amakonda kukhala ndi tebulo lovala bwino lomwe angathe kusunga chuma chawo. Komanso, mwana aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi zovala kapena zovala komanso zovala ndi tebulo ali ndi mpando. Sungani malo omwe angalole zinyumba zamakono -zotembenuza , zomwe, naponso, zikuwoneka zokongola kwambiri.
Ndondomeko yamakono ya chipinda cha ana cha mnyamata ndi mtsikana
Poganizira malingaliro a chipinda cha mwana wamwamuna ndi mtsikana, mungathe kuona kuti nthawi zambiri anthu amamvetsera mwachidwi ndi zojambulajambula ndi zokongoletsera. M'chipinda chimodzi, sizowonjezereka kuphatikiza dziko losiyana kwambiri, koma izi zingapezeke mwa kusewera zosiyana. Choncho, pogwiritsa ntchito mitundu yofanana, chipinda chikhoza kuwonetsedwa kukhala magawo awiri, ndikupanga zojambulajambula ndi zoyambirira.
Kotero, mwachitsanzo, malo a mnyamata akhoza kuchitidwa mu buluu, ndiye mthunzi wokongola wa chikasu ndi woyenera kwambiri kwa mtsikana. Komanso, magulu awiri a mitundu yosiyanasiyana monga kuwala kobiriwira ndi pinki, lalanje ndi lilac, wofiira ndi wabuluu, ndi zina zotero zimagwirizanitsidwa bwino. Komabe, alangizi othandizira alangizi amalangizira kuti asakhale owala kwambiri komanso omveka bwino, popeza kuti mapangidwe otero angasokoneze psyche ya ana.
Chipinda chikhoza kusungidwa mu mtundu umodzi, koma ndi zokongoletsa zosiyana. Anyamata amakonda kugwiritsira ntchito masewera, magalimoto, sitima, okonda masewera. Ngati mwanayo ali ndi ziphaso, ndemanga kapena makapu, angagwiritsenso ntchito kukongoletsa makoma. Chokongoletsera cha gawo la chipindachi chimafunikanso kuti mtsikanayo azigwirizana ndi zofuna zake: zinyama zamtundu, maluwa, zidole, ndi zina zotero.
Mitundu ya mkati
Zipinda za ana kwa anyamata ndi atsikana pamodzi nthawi zambiri zimakonzedwa malinga ndi mafashoni ena, makamaka otchuka pakati pa ana. Ndipo ngakhale kalembedwe kake kakang'ono kamene kamakondedwa ndi anthu ambiri achikulire angatchedwe kuti ndi othandiza kwambiri, pakuti mwana nthawi zonse samagwirizana nawo mozama. Anyamata ndi atsikana a misinkhu yosiyanasiyana angakonde mapulani awa:
- ana aang'ono ayenera kulawa zokongoletsedwa muzojambula zosasangalatsa: chojambula chojambula kapena chojambula, mutu wapanyanja, mutu wa nkhalango zakutchire, ndi zina;
- Achinyamata nthawi zambiri amasankha njira zamakono zamakono kapena zamakono ndi zokongoletsera zamakono ndi mizere ya laconic;
- Chokondweretsa ndi chipinda, chokongoletsedwa mu mtundu wa mtundu wa ethno, womwe umadziwika ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zachirengedwe, zipangizo zamakono.
Kupanga mkati mwabwino ndi kokongola kwa malo a mnyamata ndi mtsikana si nkhani yokonzanso ndi kugula katundu. Izi ndizoyamba, zokondweretsa, zomwe mungathe kuchita nawo banja lonse.
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