Mtsikana aliyense amafuna kukhala mkazi wabwino kwambiri. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti izi ndi zokwanira kuti ayang'ane mawonekedwe, nyengo iliyonse yowonjezeretsa zovala, maphunziro apamwamba ndikupeza mndandanda wa kulankhulana. Koma zonsezi zidzakhala zopanda phindu ngati simukudziwa malamulo a chikhalidwe cha akazi. Zoonadi, kukonzekera ndi zovala zowonongeka kudzakufotokozerani zambiri, komatu munthu wokhala ndi chikhalidwe amapereka ulemu. Nkhaniyi ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pafunso lenileni, chifukwa chofunika kwambiri ndi malamulo omwe ayenera kuphunziridwa koyamba.
Maphunziro a ulemu ndi makhalidwe abwino
M'nthawi yathu ino, kuphweka ndi zachilengedwe zimayamikiridwa. Dzilemekezeni nokha, ndipo molimba mtima musonyeze mtima wabwino ndi wowala kwa ena. Anthu otseguka, okhwima komanso abwino amawakopa ena. Muyenera kukhala aulemu, osungidwa ndi ochezeka kwa aliyense. Nthawi zonse perekani kwa okalamba ndi amayi omwe ali ndi pakati, gwirani chitseko kwa yemwe amakutsatirani, komanso musamayandikire zitseko zamagalimoto.
Phunzirani kulamulira zochita zanu zonse pakati pa anthu ndi anthu, ndipo nokha ndi inu nokha. Yesetsani kusunga malo anu, kuyankhula molondola komanso movomerezeka, ndikuyenda mwaulemu. Ngakhale pakhomo pakhomo, muyenera kukhala ovala bwino komanso osakanikirana.
Makhalidwe apamwamba ayenera kuyamba kutsatiridwa patebulo. Kuphunzira malamulo a kutumikira sikovuta kwambiri, chitani zonse mwa kukoma ndi kukongola.
Malamulo a ulemu kwa amayi
- Msungwana aliyense wolemekezeka nthawi zonse amaphimba dzanja lake ndi dzanja lake pamene akudumpha kapena kukoketsa, zomwezo zimakhala zokopa.
- Osayika thumba lanu pamabondo anu, ndi bwino kuliyika kumbuyo kwa mpando kapena kuika pansi.
- Kumbukirani za matumba a cellophane m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, izi sizikutanthauza kugula maulendo.
- Malinga ndi khalidwe labwino mu chipinda simungathe kuchotsa chipewa ndi magolovesi, koma muyenera kuchotsa chipewa ndi mitseti kwenikweni.
- Kuyankhulana - izi si malo a miseche, komanso nkhani zokhudzana ndi ndale, chipembedzo ndi thanzi.
- Pamisonkhano ndi zochitika za boma, muyenera kukhala molunjika osati kupuma pa chirichonse.
- Musaiwale za kudzichepetsa komanso kulingalira.
- Dona weniweni sadzatsanzira aliyense. Kujambula fano la wina ndi kutalika kwa chilakolako.
Nthawi zambiri kudziona kuti akulera bwino analeredwa bwino. Kukhala wokhwima kunja ndi mkati kungatheke kokha ndi chilakolako ndi kudziletsa. Musaiwale choonadi chosavuta - zomwe tili, izi ndi moyo wathu!
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