Mayi aliyense amayesetsa kulera mwana wake, malinga ndi malingaliro ake omwe ayenera kukhala wamkulu. Timafuna kukula kuchokera kwa mnyamata wamng'ono munthu wamphamvu, wodalirika, wanzeru ndi wolimba mtima, wokhoza kukhala wothandizira komanso woteteza banja lake. Mkaziyo, malinga ndi lingaliro lodziwika bwino, ayenera kukhala mkazi wofatsa ndi wofooka, wokoma mtima, wachikondi, wachikondi, woyang'anira nyumba.
Malingana ndi zomwe amakonda, timalera ana athu aamuna ndi aakazi. Mukukonzekera mzere wolondola wa maphunziro opatsirana pogonana a sukulu ana makolo ndi aphunzitsi amathandizidwa ndi masewera achifundo, zomwe ana amaphunzira makhalidwe.
Masewerawa ndi njira yophunzitsira ana a sukulu
Masewerawa, malinga ndi aphunzitsi, ndi njira yabwino yophunzirira chirichonse. Ndipotu, ana a zaka 3-5 sangathe kukhala pa madesiki, kufunafuna chidwi. Kusewera, mwanayo saganizira za izi ndikuphunzira ndi zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa iye. Amangopangitsa chidwi ndi zochita zake mosavuta, amakumbukira mosavuta zambiri zambiri zofunika.
Masewera a chiwerewere kwa ana a sukulu ndi njira imodzi yofotokozera momwe asungwana ndi anyamata ayenera kukhalira, zomwe zimawongolera khalidwe lawo m'magulu awo. Chiwonetsero cha "anyamata ndi atsikana, zidole" zakhalapo kale, njira zamakono zamakono zoyambirira zowonjezera zimayankhula mosiyana. Kuwonjezera apo, malire pakati pa ntchito zamuna ndi akazi amayamba kuchepa, amayi ambiri amakonda malingaliro achikazi. Chifukwa cha ichi, zikuvuta kuti achinyamata adziwone bwino, ndipo makolo ambiri makamaka agogo amatsutsana ndi machitidwe atsopano, pamene masewera a anyamata ndi zidole ndi "abambo-amayi" samangotsimikiziridwa, koma amalimbikitsidwa, ndipo atsikana akulakalaka kukhala osati mayi wam'nyumba, koma, titi, pulezidenti.
Zitsanzo za masewera achiwerewere mu sukulu
Aphunzitsi a sukulu ya sukulu ali ndi udindo wapadera pankhaniyi. Kutenga nthawi yambiri ndi ana, ali ndi mwayi wosintha khalidwe lawo, kuphatikizapo kugonana, m'njira yoyenera. Mwachitsanzo, anyamata ayenera kuphunzitsidwa kuti sikutheka kukwiyitsa atsikana, chifukwa ndi ofooka; M'malo mwake, nkofunikira kupereka atsikana malo, kupita patsogolo, kusamalira ndi kuthandizira. Izi zikhoza kuchitika mothandizidwa ndi masewera otsatirawa, omwe akulimbikitsidwa pakati ndi magulu akuluakulu, chifukwa adakali aang'ono kuti ana aphunzire za kugwirizana.
- "Home amasamala . " Awuzeni ana kuti aziphika chakudya pogwiritsa ntchito khitchini ya chidole. Athandizeni kufalitsa maudindo: atsikana amalamulira, anyamatawo amathandiza. Pambuyo pa masewerawa, kambiranani ndi ana, uwauze kuti abambo ayenera kuthandiza amayi nthawi zonse. Dziwani kuti ndi ndani komanso m'mene mungathandizire amayi anu kunyumba.
- Nyumba ya Ubwenzi . Khalani ana onse mu bwalo kupyolera m'modzi (mtsikana) ndipo muwapatse wokonza. Yambani tsatanetsatane wa wojambula mu bwalo, ndipo mulole mwana aliyense, alumikizane nacho chotsatira ndikudutsa, adzalankhulana ndi woimira mwamuna kapena mkazi. Mwachitsanzo: Vanya chiyani? - Wokoma, wamphamvu, wothamanga mofulumira, akukwera pamwamba, samakhumudwitsa atsikana, samenyana. Masha chiyani? - Wokongola, wokoma mtima, woona mtima, wolondola, ndi zina zotero. Masewerawa amathandiza ana kumvetsa kuti mwa munthu aliyense pali chinthu chabwino chomwe chiri chotheka ndi chofunikira kuti akhale mabwenzi pakati pawo. Mangani "nyumba yaikulu" yowonjezera kuchokera kwa wokonza.
- "Achibale . " Aloleni ana aphunzire za kusiyana kwa ubale wa banja ndipo yesetsani kukumbukira amene ali nawo: agogo ndi amzukulu, alongo, amalume, ndi alongo. Mmasewera awa, makadi omwe ali ndi mawu olembedwa pa iwo adzakhala othandiza. Mukhoza kupanga banja laling'ono mwa iwo.
- "Atsikana Amayi . " Ichi ndi masewera m'banja lenileni - atsikana amakhala amodzi, ndi anyamata - abambo. Abambo amapita kuntchito, amayi amalerera ana. Ndiye maudindo amasintha - papa ali ndi tsiku ndipo amakhala pakhomo ndi mwanayo, ndipo amayi amapita kukagwira ntchito. Masewerawa amathandiza mwana aliyense kumvetsa kuti maudindo onse m'banja ndi ofunika kwambiri.