N'zodabwitsa kwambiri kuti mkazi ndi wokongola komanso wopambana, ndipo amamunyoza, ngati wakhate. Aliyense amaganiza kuti iye ndi wamphamvu kwambiri, yemwe, osati yekha, sakonda aliyense, koma izi ndizochinyengo, zonse ziri zolakwika. Ndipotu, amayi oterewa amavala maskiti oteteza, omwe amakhala pansi pa anthu omwe ali ovuta komanso ovutika omwe amafunikira chikondi.
M'badwo wamakono
Zaka zingapo zapitazo, amayi sanaganize za kufunika kokhala ndi ntchito komanso kukhala ndi moyo payekha. Thandizo lawo linali amuna amphamvu, omwe anapatsa tsogolo labwino. Koma kusintha kwa nthawi, ndipo mbadwo uliwonse umasiyana ndi wakale. Lero, akazi ambiri amakana kuchita zambiri kuti amange ntchito, pa nkhaniyi, ngakhale banja limatha kumbuyo.
Kodi ndikuganiza chiyani za amuna?
Pali lingaliro limodzi lochititsa chidwi lomwe, mwachidziwikire, lingathe kufotokoza khalidwe la "kugonana kolimba" ndi lingaliro lawo - "Mwamuna samawopa mkazi wamphamvu, ali ndi manyazi kuti iye sali wopambana monga iye". Pankhaniyi, khalidwe la mkazi ndi lofunika kwambiri, momwe amachitira zinthu, kaya amasonyeza kuti ndi wamkulu kuposa mwamuna. Chifukwa cha ichi, mnzanuyo amatha kupambana bwino, ndipo adziyesera yekha kuti apite pamwamba. Koma ngati mwamuna mu chibwenzi akumva ngati "violin yachiwiri," ubale wanu udzatha.
Mbali ina ya medal
M'masiku amasiku ano, pali amayi ambiri opambana omwe angathe kukwera galimoto yokwera mtengo, nyumba, zovala zojambula, koma palibe amene amawadikirira kunyumba. Iwo ali okonzeka kuti apereke chirichonse, ngati pangakhale pali mwamuna wamphamvu atayandikira pafupi.
Chifukwa chiyani?
Akazi opambana amalephera ku bwalo la amuna omwe ali nawo mwayi, kuti ndizosatheka kuti alowemo. Kwenikweni, chilankhulo cha mkazi woterechi chimamveka ngati ichi: "Palibe mwamuna weniweni pozungulira." Amayi ambiri opambana amayang'ana munthu wophunzira amene ali ndi ntchito yabwino komanso akaunti yodabwitsa ya banki. Chifukwa cha khalidweli, mumasokoneza chiwerengero cha anthu ogonana kwambiri, ngakhale osadziŵa ngati angakhale mapewa omwewo omwe mungadalire pa nthawi yovuta. Choncho, pofuna kukonza izi, nkofunika kubwezeretsa zosankhazo ndikuchepetsera zofunikira zake. Chifukwa cha zolephereka nthawi zonse, mkaziyo akuyamba kugwira ntchito molimbika kwambiri ndipo palibe nthawi yotsala yofufuza pa theka lachiwiri la nthawiyo.
Zomwe mungachite kuti mupange maubwenzi:
- Otsogolera opambana a kugonana kwambiri, makamaka mitala , ndikuyembekeza kuti munthu wotereyo adzakukondani pachabe. Mkazi wopambana samawakonda iwo nkomwe, iwo akufuna kukhala okhawo.
- Ngati munthu adzalandira zochepa kuposa inu, ndiye posakhalitsa pangakhale zokayikitsa kuti akudandaula za ndalama basi. Pachifukwa ichi pali chiwerengero chachikulu cha zowopsya, ndipo ubale umatha.
- Njira ina yothetsera ubale ndi chikondi. Kugonana ndi mkazi kumakhalabe kofanana ndi udindo ndi udindo wa theka lachiwiri,
koma chifukwa cha ntchito yawo, simungathe kuthera nthawi yochulukirapo pa maubwenzi ndipo pamapeto pake iwo amangopita pachabe.
Kutsiliza
Chochita, momwe mungathetsere vutoli? Chinthu chokhacho ndikutembenuka nokha, muyenera kupenda zonse zomwe mumaziika patsogolo ndikuzindikiranso zomwe mukufuna mu moyo. Ngati cholinga chanu chikhala bwino ndikukhala nokha, pitirizanibe mumzimu womwewo, koma ngati mukufuna kupeza munthu amene adzakhala ndi inu, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti musinthe nokha ndi zofuna zanu. Pokhapokha pochepetsa zofuna zanu ndikuzindikira kuti ntchito sikofunika konse, mudzatha kupeza munthu amene angakupangeni kukhala munthu wokondwa kwambiri padziko lapansi.