Ambiri osadziwika zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, mawu akuti "mwana wodetsedwa" amamva nthawi zonse. Amagwiritsidwira ntchito payekha, komanso popanda, kupereka chidziwitso chotere kwa ana onse omwe ali ndi ntchito zabwino komanso zoyendayenda. Njirayi ndi yolakwika kwambiri, chifukwa kuopsa kwa thupi sikuti ndi khalidwe lokha, koma matenda onse omwe amafunikira mankhwala oyenera komanso oyenerera. Monga ma syndromes ndi matenda ena onse, kutaya mtima kwa ana kumawonetseredwa ndi zizindikiro zambiri ndi zizindikiro.
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti nkhani yofufuza si nkhani ya tsiku limodzi. Zikhoza kuvomerezedwa ndi akatswiri ochepa chabe, chifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhudzidwa kwa ana zitha kuikidwa m'madera osiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, mwa zina zomwe zimakhudza kuchitika kwa khalidwe loipa la mwana, pali:
- cholengedwa chobadwa;
- Zochitika zachilengedwe: kuvutika kwa kubadwa, matenda a amayi pa nthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba, zomwe zimapangitsa kulema kwa ubongo wa ubongo wa mwana, ndi zina zotero;
- Zinthu zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe: malo osokonezeka m'banja, mzere wosalakwika wa kulera, uchidakwa wa makolo.
Kuwonjezera apo, ntchito ndi kusasunthika kwa mwanayo zokha sizimasonyeza kukhalapo kwa matenda. Kukayikira kuti vuto lachilendo n'lotheka komanso lofunika kokha ngati mwanayo ali ndi zizindikiro zingapo zopanda mphamvu (zoposa theka la zina zotchulidwa pansipa), koma izi sizisonyezero, chifukwa zina kapena zina za ana osakhudzidwa zikhoza kukhala zatsopano pa msinkhu winawake ngati zochitika zazing'ono.
Nanga, "mwana wodetsedwa" amatanthauzanji?
Mwana wosayenerera - zizindikiro
Momwe mungadziwire mwana wodetsa nkhawa, tikukupatsani mndandanda wa zizindikiro:
- Kusinthasintha kwafupipafupi ndi mofulumira kwa manja ndi mapazi, zomwe zimachitika pamene mwanayo ali ndi nkhawa kapena ali ndi nkhawa;
- mwanayo sangakhoze kukhala pamalo amodzi, nthawizonse amadumpha mmwamba, nthawizonse amathamanga mozungulira;
- mwana sangathe kuchita nawo masewera olimba, osasangalatsa;
- mwanayo akusunthira mosavuta ndipo amakhala wokhutira, ndizosatheka kumuyika kugona, usiku ndi usana;
- pa maphunziro ndi maphunziro amapumphira ndipo nthawi zonse amapanga phokoso, kusokoneza ena;
- amayankha mafunso popanda kuwayembekezera kuti athetse;
- nthawi zonse zimalowerera muzokambirana ndi zochita za ena.
Kotero, tikuwona momwe ana amawonetsera kuti alibe chiyero - mwa kayendetsedwe ka nthawi zonse, kosasokonezeka ndi ntchito. Ndipo ntchitoyi ndi yopanda phindu komanso yopanda malire - sizingathetse chirichonse kumapeto, kusintha kuchokera ku nkhani imodzi kupita ku ina. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ana oterewa sadziwa zambiri - samasonyeza chidwi
Monga lamulo, kupezeka kwa matenda kumayankhula pa zaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, kugwiritsa ntchito njira zowonetsera kusakhudzidwa kwa ana sikungodziwitse. Zizindikiro zodziwika kwambiri zimawonetsedwa kumayambiriro kwa sukulu - olemba oyambirirawa akulephera kusintha, sangathe kukhala pa desiki pa nthawi yoyenera, kusokoneza ena. Izi zimakhudza zolakwika maphunziro, komanso maganizo.
Kusasamala kumafunikira chithandizo chokwanira ndi kukonzedwa , chifukwa kungathenso kumayambitsa matenda, miseche ndi mantha, pakati pa zinthu zina. Choyamba muyenera kudziwa chifukwa cha khalidweli, ndiyeno gwirizanitsani mankhwala, aphunzitsi, psychologists ndi othandizira olankhula. Komanso, chithandizo cha kusakhudzidwa kwabwino kumafuna kuti makolo azikhala nawo limodzi komanso malo omwe akukhalamo.