Ngati mumalota mumayang'ana njira yomwe muli ndi dothi lomwe mukuyenera kudutsa, ndikuchenjeza kuti njira yopambana idzakhala yotsekemera komanso yovuta, panjira yopindula, muyenera kuthana ndi zopinga zambiri, kutsutsa olakalaka, ndikukaniza mavuto. Musalole kuti zochitikazo zisokonezeke, ndipo zomwe mukufuna kuti zichitike bwino zidzatheka chifukwa cha khama, kuleza mtima ndi luntha. Mwina tsopano si nthawi yoyenera kuthamangira kunkhondo, ndiyenera kukhala pansi pansi, ndikudikirira mphindi yoyenera, mwinamwake khama lonse ndi khama silidzagwira ntchito.
Kodi malotowo ndi otani?
Maloto, kutanthauzira dothi lowonedwa, kunena kufunika kwa mphindi, mtundu wa dothi, ndi zochita zake.
Ngati matope anali ndi madzi, ngati madzi, ndiye kuti muyembekezere kusintha kwa moyo, mwinamwake kusintha kwa malo, kapena ntchito. Matope owopsa ndi amtundu - nthawi yovuta, mavuto omwe amabwera pakapita nthawi adzakhala otalika kwa nthawi yayitali, kuthetsa kwawo kudzafuna khama kwambiri ndi mphamvu.
Kukhala wodetsedwa mumatope mwiniwake amachenjeza za kuyesedwa kwa milandu yowopsya, kutenga nawo mbali pamilandu. Mwina, chinthu chofunikira ndi chobisika kwa inu ndi achibale ndi anthu apamtima, kuyang'anitsitsa khalidwe la ena, mmodzi wa iwo angafune thandizo.
Pa nthawi yomweyi, maloto omwe mumadzimvera mwadzidzidzi mulu wa dothi, ndipo nthawi yomweyo mumakhala okondwa, mumalowera phindu lalikulu, tsogolo labwino, njira yothetsera mavuto.
Nchifukwa chiyani akulota mvula ndi matope?
Mvula ndi mawonekedwe ophiphiritsa a mphamvu ya chitsitsimutso, kuyeretsa, kuyamba kwa moyo watsopano. Kugona kungakhale chisonyezero cha khalidwe la munthu yemwe ali ovuta kupanga chisankho mu chirichonse.
Monga mu dothi la chilengedwe amatsukidwa pa mvula, kotero maloto omwe mwawona chithunzi chomwecho, amapereka chiyembekezo chothandizira kusintha zinthu. Kuwona mvula ndi matope nthawi imodzi kumatanthauza kuti padzakhala mpata woteteza dzina lanu loona mtima ndi mbiri yolakwika, kapena kutsegula tsamba latsopano mu moyo, kuphatikizapo moyo waumwini, umene udzakhala wabwino kwambiri.
Bwanji mukulota kuti mugwere mudope?
Ngati mutagwera mumatope mumaloto, pali ngozi yogwera mkati mwake. Nthawi imeneyi imafuna chidwi kwambiri , kuyang'anitsitsa ndi kuyang'anitsitsa. Kuchita nawo chinyengo chachuma ndi zochita zoletsedwa kudzatha ndi kuthedwa nzeru ndi kunyalanyaza, mkwiyo wa anthu kutsogolo kwanu. Komanso, kugona kungachenjeze za matenda aakulu, yang'anirani thanzi, mvetserani thupi lanu, zikhoza kugwedezeka.
Bwanji ndikulota dzenje la matope?
Kuti mudziwe kufunika kwa zomwe mwawona, nkofunika kukumbukira zambiri za malotowo, dzenje, zomwe munachita. Maloto omwe mumawona dzenje, amakuuzani kuti wina akukumba pansi pa inu ndipo ayesa kulowetsa, ndipo, mwa njira yosayembekezeka ndi nthawi.
Ngati munalota kuti munachoka mu dzenje lodzaza dothi, ndiye kuti izi ndi zabwino kwambiri, mudzatha kuthana ndi mavuto ndi zopinga, ziribe kanthu momwe zikuwonekera zovuta.
Kuwotcha dzenje mu loto kumanena kuti paliponse, nthawi zonse ndi onse omwe mukuyesera kukhala
Tinawona dzenje lakuya - khalani okonzeka kutenga chisankho chophweka ndikupanga kusankha kovuta posachedwa.
Dumphirani, muwoloke dzenje, mukulankhulana nkhondo yamtsogolo ndi apamwamba kapena akuluakulu a boma.
Kugwera mu dzenje - mungafunike kusokoneza zomwe mwachita, muwone zomwe mawu ndi zochita zanenedwa.
Kukumba dzenje mu loto, kulankhula za kuyesa kubisa chinachake, koma pamapeto pake, chinsinsicho chidzakhala chenicheni, ndi zotsatira zosasangalatsa.