Kuti zikhale zowona bwino, anthu amasiku ano akukula, zovuta kwambiri monga misogynists okhwima komanso okhumudwitsa.
Amagona kwa akazi kulikonse ndi kulikonse. Kawirikawiri, simungathe kumvetsa kuti musanayambe kukhala wosokonezeka - woimira chiweruzo choopsa chokhudza akazi. Pa chipangizo cha ntchito yatsopano, pamsonkhano kapena pamsewu wonyamula anthu, pa siteshoni yothandizira kapena mu lesitilanti, pa maphunziro apamwamba kapena pa malo osungiramo malo. Amuna amenewo ali. Ndipo mawonekedwe a zoterezi ndiwotheka KUYENERA kwa mkazi.
Kodi misogynists amachokera kuti?
O, iwo ali ndi zifukwa zambiri zoti izi zigwiritsidwe ntchito ku gawo lofooka laumunthu. Ndipo, ndikuyenera kuzindikira, sikuti zonsezi ziri zopanda pake komanso zopanda maziko. Ndibwino kuti ndinene kuti pakuyamba kwa chikhalidwe ichi, amayi ndi abambo ali ndi mlandu womwewo. Pali zifukwa zingapo zazikulu zomwe zimachititsa munthu kukhala wosokonezeka. Malinga ndi iwo, misogynists omwewo akhoza kupatulidwa mu mitundu ingapo.
Sungani chimodzi: wochenjera
Mchitidwe wodalirika kwa amayi ndi "nkhuku yopusa". Modzichepetsa amakhulupirira kuti iye alidi wanzeru kwambiri kuposa mkazi aliyense. "Kodi mungatani ndi iye?" Iye ndi fupa! "- akutero, ponena za lingaliro la Baibulo la kulenga mkazi.
Zindikirani izi ndi zophweka. Amakwiya kwambiri ponena kuti akazi salowerera mu bizinesi yawo, pamene agwira nawo ndale, bizinesi kapena china chilichonse kupatula moyo. Amakhulupirira kuti malo a mkazi ali kukhitchini. Ngati mwalowa mu zokayikitsa kuti mnzanuyo ndi misogynist, yang'anani bwino. Adzayesera kukukakamizani kuti musasankhe zochita pazigawo zoyamba, ndipo ambiri adzayesa kukulamulirani, ndikukhulupirira kuti amadziwa zonse bwino. M'tsogolomu, zingaletsedwe kugwira ntchito kapena kuchita china chirichonse kupatula ana komanso kunyumba.
Chifukwa cha maganizo amenewa ndi osavuta. Mwamunayo akhoza kuzindikira mwamantha kuti mkazi adzakhala ndi chinthu chabwino koposa iye, wochenjera, wopambana. Mu kuya, monga mukukumvetsetsa, zovuta zake zotsutsana zimabisika.
Lembani awiri: anasiya
Kukhulupirira kwake koyera ndi "akazi onse ndi hule." "O, mkazi, dzina lanu ndi chinyengo!" Wosokoneza maganizo amakuuzani, ndipo akuwoneka mwachidwi kuchokera pamwamba, akunena kuti wakuvumbulutsirani, amadziwa zomwe zikukutsogolerani komanso momwe mukukhalira.
Zikuwoneka bwino kuchokera kutali, ndizofunikira kukakamiza kukambirana nkhaniyi. Monga, ndili ndi bwenzi limodzi, ali pano ndi woipa kwambiri - wamasintha-woperekedwa-wamanzere-wotayika. Ndiyeno_mvetserani ndipo penyani. Nkhani iyi ndi yopweteka ndipo mosakayikira adzachitapo kanthu ndi khalidwe la chibwenzi chachinyengo mwaukali.
Pazifukwa zomwe mumaganiza, mwina nokha. Kamodzi pa nthawi, mkazi anasintha iye. Iye anakhulupirira, ndipo iye-monga choncho. Mtundu uwu sudzabwera konse mmaganizo chifukwa CHIYANI mkaziyo anachita izo. Mwamuna uyu misogynist adzalandira chidziwitso chomwe chiri chobadwa mwa chikhalidwe chachikazi ndipo adzakuchitirani moyenera.
Komabe, pali zina zambiri zomwe mungasankhe: banja lomwe lataya banja, linapereka bwenzi la mkaziyo, ndi zina zotero. Mkhalidwe uliwonse umene munthu "adayimilira ndi chala" ndi kunyozedwa.
Pezani atatu: osakhutira
Awa ndi mphukira, motero, osasangalatsa ndi kukongola. Kupanda chidwi kwa amai, kulephera, chikondi chopanda malire, chochulukitsidwa ndi kumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa kulephera kwake ndi kupusa - misogynist ndi wokonzeka.
Izi kaŵirikaŵiri zimatsimikiziridwa kuti zimawononga akazi. Iwo ndi omwe amapezeka pafupipafupi. Kumeneko amaphunzira olowa m'malo ndipo amayamba kusungira makokosi a amayi onse ozungulira pabedi posakhalitsa, kenako amasangalala ndi njira "yoponyera" iwo.
Pakati penipeni iwo amadziwa kuti mkaziyo ndi amene amachititsa mavuto ake ndi kudzidandaula, ndipo izi, monga chilengedwe, zimayambitsa nkhanza kutero.
Pezani Chachinayi: Kubwezera
Eya, mkazi aliyense wakumanapo kamodzi kake pamoyo wake!
Iye amakhala moyandikana kwambiri ndi "atasiya", koma ngati amadana ndi akazi chifukwa cha kukhumudwitsa kwake, wobwezera-ndizofuna kupeza amuna onse. Kwa iye ndi nkhani ya ulemu. Wobwezera wamisala amakhulupirira mokhulupirika kuti akazi onse ali zowonongeka, ndipo posachedwa adzawonetsa chikhalidwe chawo choipa ndi chonyansa.
Kaŵirikaŵiri kugonana, komwe kumapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kunyenga mkazi, scowl ndiyeno-kubwezera-kubwezera-kubwezera. Ndipotu, ndikwanira kukumana ndi nthano zowonongeka kamodzi, kuti musagwe chifukwa cha zizolowezi zoterezi.
Lembani zisanu: nsanje
Kuchokera pa dzina ilo likuwonekera kumene malo ake opweteka. Osocheretsa awa amakonda kubwereza zomwe, amati, ndi zosavuta kuti akazi azikhala moyo, chifukwa chirichonse chimaperekedwa kokha "chifukwa cha maso okongola." Amayi onse omwe amatsutsa zokhudzana ndi uhule, amanyoza kukwaniritsa zolinga kudzera pabedi.
Icho chimaphatikiza, chotero, kulephera kwake. Iye amaganiza kuti mkaziyo ndi wonyenga, koma iye ndi wopanda pake, ndipo amangopangitsa kuti mwamuna wake apindule ndi kupambana. Inde, sangathe kuchita zimenezo. Iye, wosauka, ayenera kuchita zonse zomwe iye mwini. Kuchokera kumeneko, ndi kaduka. Ndiyeno-chidani.
Kawirikawiri, osokonezeka maganizo masiku ano ali ovuta. Malingaliro akuti padziko lapansi la amuna 3 biliyoni, 60 iliyonse ndi wosokonezeka. Pachifukwa ichi, amuna adagwirizana kwambiri kuposa chikondi chawo cha mpira. Pafupifupi mzinda uli wonse uli ndi gulu lake la misogynists, ndipo, monga lamulo, palibe limodzi.
Mosiyana ndizoyenera kudziwa kuti ACHINYAMATA ambiri amadziimba mlandu. Palibe utsi wopanda moto, inu mukudziwa. Yesetsani kuti mukhale anzeru kwambiri komanso musamachitire ulemu amuna, mwachinyengo. Ndipo, mwinamwake, ana athu aakazi ndi zidzukulu zathu sizidzakhala zovuta kuti tikumane ndi chikhalidwe ichi chotsutsana cha dziko lonse lapansi.