Kuyambira pa ubwana wathu, ife tikulota kalonga pa kavalo woyera. Iye ndi wokongola kwambiri, wodalirika, wokoma mtima, wofatsa, wokhulupirika, wokhulupirika ... Koma osati golidi yonse imene imawala. Moyo ndi wosadziwika ndipo nthawi zambiri umakhala wosadabwitsa komanso wosangalatsa nthawi zonse. Ndikumvetsa chisoni kotani pamene chikondi chathu chakhala chitatha kale, ali ndi mkazi, mwinamwake ngakhale ana ... Ndipo timadziwa kuti sizingatheke, si zabwino, koma simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu. Ndi momwe mungakhalire pano? Kodi mungaleke bwanji kukonda mwamuna wokwatiwa pamene mulibe cholinga choononga banja lake?
Mtima, wokoma mtima ... Pali anthu ambiri osungulumwa komanso oyenerera padziko lapansi, koma ayi, mwinamwake anamusankha, anakwatira ... Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti iye ndiwopambana kwambiri, ndipo ndi bwino kuti musakumanepo konse ... Mukulira, chisoni, kapena ndi yemwe sakufuna kuwona ena, iye yekha ndiye adatenga malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro ake onse ... Ndipo pozungulira, ndithudi, akulangizidwa kuti amuchotse pamutu pake ... Koma momwe mungalekerere kukonda ndi kuiwala munthu mumtima mwake mulibe chiyembekezo kuti mudzakhala pamodzi, ndipo iwe udzakhala mmodzi wa iye. Inde, mukuzindikira kuti pali mwayi wochepa, kapena palibe, koma okondedwa akulonjeza kuti adzathetsa, koma pokhapokha ngati mkaziyo ali bwino, anawo adzakula, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo nthawi ikupitirira ndipo palibe kusintha. Nthawi zina mumadziwa kuti zonse zathetsa chibwenzi chotero popanda tsogolo, chifukwa palibe chomwe chingasinthe.
"Ndikufuna kusiya chikondi"
Kuti mutenge chiyeso choyamba kuti muwononge mgwirizano ndi kofunikira kuti mutenge mphamvu zonse ndikuyang'ana mkhalidwewu. Tangoganizirani ngati mwadzidzidzi, ndizochitika bwino kwambiri kwa inu, iye akusudzulana ndipo adzakhala anu basi. Koma kodi mungamukhulupirire ndiye? Pambuyo pake, tsopano ndiwe mkazi wake walamulo, mofanana ndi iye, mtsikana amene iye ananyenga nawe. Kodi simungayende mobwerezabwereza kuganiza za zomwezo? Pambuyo pake, ngati munthu wasintha kamodzi, nchiyani chimamulepheretsa kusintha kachiwiri? Mwinamwake tsopano momwe mumamvera ndizolimba chifukwa si zanu komanso mwinamwake simukusowa "chimwemwe" chotere?
Lingaliro lakuti amuna onse ali mitala ndi kukhala ndi mkazi, iwo adzasinthabe ndipo sadzasiya banja lawo molakwika. Zikuchitika kuti munthu amamenya kwenikweni chikondi, monga akunenera, kuti amusiya ndikusiya banja lakale. Koma ndithudi kugwirizana kwa kale sikungathetsedwe, makamaka ngati pali ana muukwati ndipo mwinamwake, nthawi ndi nthawi adzayankhulana ndi mkazi wake wakale. Kodi mudzakhala omasuka mu ubale woterewu, kodi mungawatche iwo wokondwa? N'kutheka kuti si. Pachifukwa ichi, kugwa chifukwa cha chikondi n'kofunikira, ngakhale ngati n'kotheka kugwirizanitsa chilango ndi icho. Mavuto a ena si maziko abwino a banja losangalala.
Koma ndizotheka kuti kukhalapo kwanu pamasewera a wokondedwa wanu kumamuthandiza. Taganizirani, kodi iwo eni, kodi ndi zoipa kwa iye? Pali amayi awiri omwe amafunikira kwenikweni, koma kuti iye yekha amanyenga wopanda mapeto, ndipo winayo akuvutika ndi izi - kwa iye, khulupirira ine, zinthu zazing'ono za moyo. Koma chokhumudwitsa n'chakuti simudzakhala ndi nthawi yoyang'ana mmbuyo, momwe mtsikana adzalowera, kukongola kudzatha ndipo simungasowe konse, chifukwa, "chiwombankhanga" chimamuletsa kuti asapeze munthu wamng'ono? Ndipo iwe udzakhala ndekha kwa moyo wako wonse ... Osati chiyembekezo chabwino, chabwino?
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuchotsa maubwenzi osasangalala. N'zosadabwitsa kuti akunena kuti simungathe kupanga chisangalalo pa chisangalalo cha wina. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse